Guest guest Posted September 15, 2001 Report Share Posted September 15, 2001 > Cristina, > I'm so glad someone else sits on their child to get them to do > things. I sit on mine to brush her teeth, apply eczema cream, wash > her hair(that's a site you don't need to see-yikes!). She is > beginning to understand when I say " Either let me do---or I will hold > you down. " She almost always complies now, except for the hair > washing. She's just not there yet on that one. She's 2 1/2. > Janelle *** Janelle, brushing teeth is a big issue here.(LOL) There is a sensory problem related to all that (hair, mouth, body, etc). Here's my suggestions, and you should ask your OT (if you go to one) to give you more ideas, that's where I got mine from): #1 Brushing teeth: I bought an electric toothbrush for $ 5.00 made by Crest. Then you only want to brush teeth from the back to the front of the mouth, not sideways (for some reasons, that sets him off), and you can even do her tongue and gums, but still from back to front, with not too much and not too little pressure: that can set my son off too (you'll get it, pretty quick). You can even do her palate if she'll let you. then you can give her a toothbrush from time to time to hold and run around her mouth, so she can be familiar with it, but never for more than five-ten minutes at a time (and never mind the germs issue for once, he-he; you can always boil it afterwards). This will let her do it at her own pace and is also a tactile defensive thing, and could be self calming for her. #2 Hair washing: well, for me it is easy: I cut my son's hair very short, but the problem is right when we have to go to the barber, then we have to have two to hold him down to get a five minute cut, turn into a fifteen Anyways, once the hair are short, they still need shampooing; I usually, just start it as a game, and pour some water from a cup on his head (not that you never tried that before), and I let him do it too. if he doesn't, then I take his hand, and have him do it, hand-over-hand. the shampooing is very quick, and so it the rinsing. Tho loves water, and I use a hand guided shower head, so I direct the shower on him first, from his toes to his butt, then round and round, the a little on his head, then down again...it is an ongoing process, but gets me where i need to go. Drying hair is another story: we don't do it, and that's why the short hair-tho he looks cute with short hair: military cut:) - #3 Cream...mmm? where is it put? on her butt or on her body? My son LOOOVES to spread desitin all over my house, car etc, so he likes it on himself too...I just had an episode two days ago, when I left him in the car while unloading the twins in, and too close to the diaper bag-yikes!!!!-well done deal. done three washing for the same items until it came fairly decent. The car...well still don't know what to do with the seats. He doesn't even understands: " time for bath, now! " so I cannot say: you let me or I'll hold you " . I usually just do it, and it gets done. Have no choice. I hate forcing him, and feel really awful afterwards, but hey...!!! Hope you can get some ideas out of my life (LOL) Cristina-WA proud mom to 4.8 yo ASD, & 2 yo NT twins. *** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2001 Report Share Posted September 15, 2001 I believe that minerals survive the heat, but that vitamins don't. We had terrible luck trying to hide SNT in jelly, applesauce, and so on, back in the days when we used it. Eventually, I taught my bigger kids to swallow pills. My little guy took his supplements mixed in a tiny shot glass with a scant teaspoon of honey, followed by (his choice) first a glass of water and then a glass of juice. We got even nasty acidic things down him this way. Owens used to make a " milkshake " type drink in the blender, with supplements and aloe vera gel to suspend them. (Just mix them in juice, and the minerals sink to the bottom like sand.) Lorilyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2001 Report Share Posted September 15, 2001 Thanks for all the good info on getting supplements into kids. I guess parenting autistic children is not for the faint of heart. I'm having more success hiding the supplements in his food and drink because he's starting to eat and drink more now. After a month of being CF he finally started drinking a milk substitute! Maybe he won't waste away after all. Dawn in Denver Mother to 5 NT, 3 ASD, and 6 mos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2001 Report Share Posted September 15, 2001 * * \l/ * * * ( @ @ ) * * ---------o00--( _____ ) --00o--------- * * HAVE A GREAT DAY !!!!!!!!!!!! I have Child Life EFA here cause I hear so many mention adding EFA, but I never gave LJ supps before so I read the entire label and it says " Do not cook with this oil or heat over 120 degrees F.. " (LJs mom) on Long Island New York ________________________________________________________________ GET INTERNET ACCESS FROM JUNO! Juno offers FREE or PREMIUM Internet access for less! Join Juno today! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/tagj. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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