3 Weeks post-op and hanging in there

March 16, 2005

Hello guys! I am three weeks post-op and it is so comforting

knowing that many of you experience the same problems. I have had

surgery on my upper and lower jaw. My jaws are wired shut with a

splint. I have 3 more weeks to go. Yes, I am only half way there

and it seems like an eternity. My emotions have really taken a toll

the past few days. I have three small children at home that cannot

understand what I say and I seem to lash at them out of

frustration. I cannot use a straw yet and I have lost 15 pounds.

My oral surgeon (great person) cannot understand that, either. I

returned back to work 10 days post-op due to a co-worker, whom

helped cover my tasks, resigning, unfortunately, to take care of a

family member. Fortunate for me I have and awesome and

understanding boss (and friend). I just avoid the telephone at all

costs and I have someone communicate on the phone for me.

This procedure has been more difficult than what I expected. I did

not discover support groups until after my surgery, which is

probably a good thing because it may have changed my mind. I have

no regrets now, though, because I know that the results are going to

be rewarding. I just wish I could build up my optimistic attitude

again. AIN'T HAPPENING!!! FRUSTRATING!!!

Any suggestions?

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