Guest guest Posted April 18, 2004 Report Share Posted April 18, 2004 Cherie, Good for you...you have taken care of others all your life and now it's time for you..don't ever feel guilty about it...let him take his motorcycle out and not return..he'd be doing you a favor..you need people around who will support you and believe in you......you have your kids, the neighbors and friends and us...good luck.... D (No. California) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2004 Report Share Posted April 18, 2004 Oh you *GO* girl!!!! You bet you have us behind you supporting you all the way!!! Love, << I am not going to let selfish people rule my life. I am going to live for myself. My kids are grown and are supporting me 110%. My neighbors are ralling behind me and will pitch in and help me make it through this.. Besides I have you guys right to support me? I knew it...Thanks in advance. Cherie >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2004 Report Share Posted April 18, 2004 Congrats Cherie! The time should fly by for the consult date! 5 more days! yay!!! lol as for hubby, your attitude is great! in mho anyway, sometimes in a persons lifetime you have to do for you if you don't, .... you might not be there for others when they'll need you, bask in all of your support, espically the kids, they'll always be your kids, you can alway get a new and improved hubby LOL Good luck and keep up posted ok? chin up hun, " It does not matter how slowly you go, so long as you do not stop. " ~ Confucius ~ Got My Consult Date Hello Everyone, I got the call on Friday that gave me my consult date on Monday April 23, 2004. I live in Bakersfield, CA and have to drive to san Diego, CA. I am so excited...they told me that since my insurance has approved this then I have to wait about a week and a half and then if all went well in the " marathon consultation day " I should get a call abou 1-2 weeks after that for a surgery date. I have lost 10 lbs since I attended the lecture. Since my doctor and I have been trying to get this surgery my husband is being a *$ & #. He has told me that he wants to sell our house and go our seperate ways. I said NO!!! I am not selling anything, for once I am being selfish..I am thinking only about myself. I have raised my kids by myself and my husband of 4.5 years is of the old school as each day goes by. I am sticing to my guns and taking care of myself and looking forward to this surgery. I don't need this now, nor do I diserve this type of treatment. He left yesterday to ride his motorcyle at 10AM and it is now 24 hours later and he has not returned nor called. I guess he thinks I am going to sit down and feed my face and worry..That would have been the old me...The new me went for a walk, did my ceramics, ate fresh pinapple and watched a good movie. Had the whole bed to myself and said * & * & *# ...If anything happened, God non't like ugly.... I am not going to let selfish people rule my life. I am going to live for myself. My kids are grown and are supporting me 110%. My neighbors are ralling behind me and will pitch in and help me make it through this.. Besides I have you guys right to support me? I knew it...Thanks in advance. Cherie 284 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2004 Report Share Posted April 19, 2004 Cherie, You go girl!! I am sure that you like most women and mothers have spent most of your life taking care of everyone else. It is about time that you did for yourself. Don't let anyone stand in the way of your dreams. Dora Got My Consult Date Hello Everyone, I got the call on Friday that gave me my consult date on Monday April 23, 2004. I live in Bakersfield, CA and have to drive to san Diego, CA. I am so excited...they told me that since my insurance has approved this then I have to wait about a week and a half and then if all went well in the " marathon consultation day " I should get a call abou 1-2 weeks after that for a surgery date. I have lost 10 lbs since I attended the lecture. Since my doctor and I have been trying to get this surgery my husband is being a *$ & #. He has told me that he wants to sell our house and go our seperate ways. I said NO!!! I am not selling anything, for once I am being selfish..I am thinking only about myself. I have raised my kids by myself and my husband of 4.5 years is of the old school as each day goes by. I am sticing to my guns and taking care of myself and looking forward to this surgery. I don't need this now, nor do I diserve this type of treatment. He left yesterday to ride his motorcyle at 10AM and it is now 24 hours later and he has not returned nor called. I guess he thinks I am going to sit down and feed my face and worry..That would have been the old me...The new me went for a walk, did my ceramics, ate fresh pinapple and watched a good movie. Had the whole bed to myself and said * & * & *# ...If anything happened, God non't like ugly.... I am not going to let selfish people rule my life. I am going to live for myself. My kids are grown and are supporting me 110%. My neighbors are ralling behind me and will pitch in and help me make it through this.. Besides I have you guys right to support me? I knew it...Thanks in advance. Cherie 284 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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