Re: How much should you tell? [cammie]

[Guest guest]

Cammie,

The dating scene has changed dramatically... everyone is going for

looks, especially women... maybe I'm just dating superficial women,

but it sure appears that women want " hot " guys... nice personality

is important, but without looks they'll look elsewhere...

Maybe I'm generalizing, but I don't think I'm too far off the mark!

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I have a personal question to ask related to this entire

> > > > process.

> > > > > I

> > > > > > will be getting my braces on in a month or so and then

> > > eventually

> > > > > > having upper and lower surgery to correct an underbite.

I

> > was

> > > > > hoping

> > > > > > to already have the braces on, but had to delay it a

little

> > > bit

> > > > > due

> > > > > > to needing dental work first.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Here's where my question comes in...I just recently

started

> > > > dating

> > > > > > someone I was set up with. We don't know each other

very

> > well

> > > > > yet,

> > > > > > but so far we have hit it off and have a lot in common.

> > > Because

> > > > > we

> > > > > > have not known each other very long, I have not told him

> > > anything

> > > > > > about the braces/surgery. I am actually a little

nervous

> > > about

> > > > > > telling him because I am afraid it will overwhelm him.

It

> > > would

> > > > > be

> > > > > > different if we had been friends for awhile first or

> > > something.

> > > > > When

> > > > > > I get my braces on in a month, he is obviously going to

> > > > > notice.

> > > > > > My question is, How much should I tell him or not tell

> him?

> > > > Also,

> > > > > > has anyone else been in a situation similar to mine and

how

> > > did

> > > > > you

> > > > > > handle it?

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

I reckon I should be grateful that I am an old woman, then... I

really think that what endures over the years is the person

underneath... At least for me.

C.