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Hi Lee,

I am very hard on myself. It's so easy for me to gain 5 lbs.

Just a couple of days of giving in to temptaion, or of being to lazy

to get on the bike. I still get high praises from people on

occasion. But not as frequently as before.

There is a group called TOPS. It's simular to Weight Watchers but it

is much less expensive, but is also less structured. There is no

prescribed diet. They do offer lots of support. But this varies by

chapter as well. TO find a chapter that meets near you goto

www.tops.org and enter your zip code.

> I am really stuggling to lose the last of my weight. I have

> considered trying Weight Watchers. Recently I spoke with someone

I

> know who is a group leader at Weight Watchers. Her attitude was

> that Weight Watchers is for people who want to lose weight the

right

> way not the easy way....

>

> I am sure many of you have heard such comments from people who

> resent that you have lost weight " the easy way " . I always find

> those comments very hard to respond to because I feel like in many

> ways it has been easy since surgery. The hard part will be losing

> the last 5 or so pounds and keeping it off for the rest of my

life.

>

> Even friends and family members seem to be eagarly waiting for me

to

> start gaining weight back. Anyone else feel people are doing that

> to them? Why do people want to see us fail again?

>

> Lee

> 250/155/150

> Lap RNY 6/4/02

> 5'6 "

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I too have considered attending Weight Watchers, but hesitated for fear

of just such a response. I decided I would just go and attend, but not

tell anyone. What business is it of theirs anyway? Anyway, I have YET

to actually do this, but that is the plan. I am fortunate that most

of the people around me who are in anyway vocal about this (WLS) are

very supportive and I get nothing but compliments all the time

(still!). I suspect that there are people around me at work and in my

social circle who are quietly hoping that I fail, but they aren't being

obvious about it. Most people have been really supportive throughout

my journey.

Good Luck to you!

Re: Weight Watchers....

> Lee,

> I have had people tell me that I was taking the easy way

> out with

> this surgery. They did not see the struggles I had prior to

> surgery.

> They didn't see the struggles I was having keeping food down that

> firstyear. They didn't have to worry about the congestive heart

> failure,chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, hypothyroidism,

> diabetes, high

> cholesterol, sleep apnea, severe arthritis or any other of the

> consequences of being morbidly obese. I sometimes wonder why

> these same

> people don't consider the other tools like exercising and eating

> sensiblyto be the easy way out.

> Weight Watchers is not for everybody. It will teach you

> how to

> eat sensibly but I suspect you may already know how to do that.

> Some of

> the things that I did that help me (when I let it) is to do a food

> journal on fitday and share it with friends. Also just plan

> journalinghelps me a lot too. It helps get rid of some of my

> emotional baggage.

> And something else to consider is that the last 5 or 10 lbs is

> always the

> hardest to loose, normal or previously MO.

> Lori Owen - Denton, Texas

> SRVG 7/16/01

> Dr. Ritter/Dr. Bryce

> 479/335/???

>

> On Wed, 25 Jun 2003 05:52:22 -0000 " leedeniz "

> writes:

> > I am really stuggling to lose the last of my weight. I have

> > considered trying Weight Watchers. Recently I spoke with

> someone I

> >

> > know who is a group leader at Weight Watchers. Her attitude was

> > that Weight Watchers is for people who want to lose weight the

> right

> >

> > way not the easy way....

> >

> > I am sure many of you have heard such comments from people who

> > resent that you have lost weight " the easy way " . I always find

> > those comments very hard to respond to because I feel like in

> many

> > ways it has been easy since surgery. The hard part will be

> losing

> > the last 5 or so pounds and keeping it off for the rest of my

> life.

> >

> >

> > Even friends and family members seem to be eagarly waiting for

> me to

> >

> > start gaining weight back. Anyone else feel people are doing

> that

> > to them? Why do people want to see us fail again?

> >

> > Lee

> > 250/155/150

> > Lap RNY 6/4/02

> > 5'6 "

> >

> >

> >

> > Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG

> >

> > Unsubscribe: Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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> Her attitude was

> that Weight Watchers is for people who want to lose weight the right

> way not the easy way....

I really resent it when people try to infer that a gastric bypass is taking the

easy way out. Just because they haven't reached the point when all the diets

in the world don't work, they turn their noses up at us because we opted to do

something that, gasp, actually has more of a chance of success. (I'll take the

85% success rate over their measly 5% any day of the week.)

Yeah, I'd like to see these people eat 1/4 portions of food they usually eat.

I'd

like to see them deal with the supplementation issues, the dumping, pouch

rules, all the things that go along with this surgery and then come tell me it's

easy? I don't think so.

I hope next time you speak with this person that you aprise her of her

ignorance. And, that this surgery isn't ever an easy choice or lifestyle option.

But, it is worth it. A point I am sure you'll be able to make to her when she is

still yo-yoing years from now and you are the same weight.

BTW, welcome to the group,

M

Amarillo, TX

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because that's what diets do and everyone knows it's inevitable. they're

waiting for us to prove that surgery is nothing more than an expensive diet

that will fail in time, too

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Weight Watchers....

> I am really stuggling to lose the last of my weight. I have

> considered trying Weight Watchers. Recently I spoke with someone I

> know who is a group leader at Weight Watchers. Her attitude was

> that Weight Watchers is for people who want to lose weight the right

> way not the easy way....

>

> I am sure many of you have heard such comments from people who

> resent that you have lost weight " the easy way " . I always find

> those comments very hard to respond to because I feel like in many

> ways it has been easy since surgery. The hard part will be losing

> the last 5 or so pounds and keeping it off for the rest of my life.

>

> Even friends and family members seem to be eagarly waiting for me to

> start gaining weight back. Anyone else feel people are doing that

> to them? Why do people want to see us fail again?

>

> Lee

> 250/155/150

> Lap RNY 6/4/02

> 5'6 "

>

>

>

> Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG

>

> Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe

>

>

>

>

>

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In a message dated 6/25/2003 6:42:44 AM Central Daylight Time,

leedeniz@... writes:

> Even friends and family members seem to be eagarly waiting for me to

> start gaining weight back. Anyone else feel people are doing that

> to them? Why do people want to see us fail again?

>

perhaps they're the same ones who disapprove of the whole surgery idea in the

first place, because they don't understand the truth about morbid obesity.

~stacey

Lap RNY 4/1/02

Dr. Srungarum

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