Re: Husband gaining weight

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Yes. Don was only 85# over when I had my surgery. By my 1st anniversary, he

was 110 over.

At which point he also had surgery. NO more arguing, no more blaming ME for

his eating too much or making boring (healthy) meals or whining when I told

him to fend for himself. LOL!

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Husband gaining weight

> Hello to all. I have a dilema and need some feed back. Have any of you

> experienced a significant other meaning husband, wife, girl friend,

boyfriend ect

> gaining alot of weight after your surgery?

> I am concerned for my husband as he has really shot up and I don't know if

> there is anything I can do. he already complains(mildly) about his back,

legs

> hurting sometimes hard to breathe. he has beginning signs of asthma and

has had

> high B/P long before putting on wieght as this runs on his fathers side of

the

> family.

> Watching this tears me to pieces and we do talk and try to catch myself

when

> i become nagging as I know this is the worst thing you can do to someone

who

> is overwieght. I am really scared that I will be a widow before the age of

> 40(1.5 years away)

> Any suggestions, anything I can do? I need help

>

> Oh one more important thing we are in marital counseling and address this

> everytime we go and I recently started WW and try and get him to do the

point

> system along with me and he seems to like it but still makes horrible food

> choices,

> Again any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

>

>

>

> Always be Optimistic as a good Positive Attitude takes us a long way and

> remember our new motto " a little bit of something is better than a whole

lot of

> nothing " .

> Please feel free to Email me or call me as I am always here for you and

you

> have been for me.

>

> Ronit ( Row-Neet) Kalmanor

> Dr.Andrei SPMC New Brunswick,NJ

> 11/10/00-LAP RNY

> (H)

> (Cell)

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

My " Normal? " husband has gained a little weight --- I think it has to do with

him eating my leftovers in restaurants! I finally said that I wanted my

leftovers.

I consider myself lucky that I didn't have a lot of family and friends

issues--- but I was prepared! What I have noticed that I have moved to a new

town

that people's perception of me changed. For instance, I had a colleague make a

comment about a not THAT over weight woman needing to order salads.... I

asked him if he saw the pictures of me and he said " oh yeah but you were

pregnant... " I didn't enlightened him since we work together --- but I feel sad

for

the little fat girl inside me who still hears the hurtful words.

big sigh....

J.J.

Medial Lap RNY

May 10, 2000

Tricare, Navy Dr. Spencer

300/179/160

Nursing Baby Girl C-Section 9/12/02

In a message dated 7/26/03 12:20:23 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

Patientadv@... writes:

> Hello to all. I have a dilema and need some feed back. Have any of you

> experienced a significant other meaning husband, wife, girl friend,

> boyfriend ect

> gaining alot of weight after your surgery?

> I am concerned for my husband as he has really shot up and I don't know if

> there is anything I can do. he already complains(mildly) about his back,

> legs

> hurting sometimes hard to breathe. he has beginning signs of asthma and has

> had

> high B/P long before putting on wieght as this runs on his fathers side of

> the

> family.

> Watching this tears me to pieces and we do talk and try to catch myself when

>

> i become nagging as I know this is the worst thing you can do to someone who

>

> is overwieght. I am really scared that I will be a widow before the age of

> 40(1.5 years away)

> Any suggestions, anything I can do? I need help

>

> Oh one more important thing we are in marital counseling and address this

> everytime we go and I recently started WW and try and get him to do the

> point

> system along with me and he seems to like it but still makes horrible food

> choices,

> Again any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

>

>

>

> Always be Optimistic as a good Positive Attitude takes us a long way and

> remember our new motto " a little bit of something is better than a whole

> lot of

> nothing " .

> Please feel free to Email me or call me as I am always here for you and you

> have been for me.

>

> Ronit ( Row-Neet) Kalmanor

> Dr.Andrei SPMC New Brunswick,NJ

> 11/10/00-LAP RNY

> (H)

> (Cell)

>

>

>