Guest guest Posted September 9, 2001 Report Share Posted September 9, 2001 Hello extended family!! Last night hubby an I totally had it out...then we made up which was fun but anyway lol.We were talking about weight loss surgery and he was being honest even though he knew how I would feel so i give him credit for that.He has a problem with the tons of extra skin and the scars that will be left after its removed.Were talking about a guy who didnt want back surgery because he would have a scar from his butt crack to his rib cage.Yes he had his surgery though.He says that hes afraide that first of all we wont have the money to have tucks all over which i will need and he knows that i wont feel good about myself with the extra skin.I think also because hes obease that he figures if I have wls and begin to lose that either I will pressure him into surgery or that i wont be attracted to him anymore...hes never said it but getting him to talk sometimes is a joke! His compromise to this is that in between dr apts and meeting the surgeon and getting a date for wls we will join a gym and try eating better,if I begin to lose a good amount of weight I will wait on the surgery and if not he will support the surgery.If i begin losing weight wont i be denied surgery ? I only have 100 pounds to lose. Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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