Guest guest Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 My RNY was 3/5/04. As I explained in previous posts, I have been VERY sick since. Husband has not been very supportive (he's been doing laundry and cleaning and such but not there for me emotionally). He is now saying some really mean things to me like " I don't even know why you had this stupid surgery " . I had this " stupid surgery " because, at 43, I weighed 357, I couldn't walk up the stairs without being winded and having my knees and ankles hurt, I couldn't fit in most seats, and I HATED MYSELF! I think he thinks I am gonna leave him when I get thin... WHICH IS SO NOT TRUE! I don't know why he's being so insecure... he is attractive and NOT fat... he is being sooooo mean to me. I am so sad... I feel alone... I don't have support from the one person who should be supporting me. Has anyone else experienced this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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