Guest guest Posted June 26, 2003 Report Share Posted June 26, 2003 I think I must be living the week from heck this week. Either that or there has been a full moon. The first thing that happened was that a home health aide was suppose to be here on Friday. She called and said she couldn't make it but would be here on Saturday @ 1pm. Needless to say she didn't show up and didn't call. I called the agency on Monday and asked if she could be replaced. The aide finally got ahold of me at 3 PM on Monday afternoon. I explained that since she had not called or come on Saturday I had requested she be replaced. It may take two weeks if I am lucky. Fortunately we had already done my monthly grocery shopping. I do volunteer work with MHMR. I work with a young woman who is developmentally delayed. She decided to refuse getting on her van on Monday. I explained that if she didn't stop, I would not be able to work with her the following day. It took her 2 1/2 hours to get on the van to go home. On Tuesday when I showed up she figured everything was fine. I reinforced what I had told her the day before at which point she threw a temper tantrum for 2 hours which included cussing everyone of us out and threatening to kill everybody. She also decided to go outside and cut herself in the process. After 2 hours and having to call on reinforcements, she finally calmed down. She did apologize to me for misbehaving. I said that was fine but she would have to do 3 things consistently for me to continue working with her - get on the van everyday, stop cussing at everybody, and stop threatening to kill everybody. She was fine the next two days and I was able to work with her again today. Yesterday, however, her mother came over to find out what happened. Her mother lives 2 doors down from my apartment. Her mother tried to explain that her daughter didn't know what she was doing (uh NO). My client also insists upon coming over here and spending 1 to 2 hours with me when she is suppose to visiting her Mom on Thursday afternoon. I have become the baby sitter. I really resent this. It is a major conflict of interest. I am having to keep my door closed just so she won't come down this afternoon. I don't know which drives me crazier, not being able to keep my door open or my client invading my space. Actually it feels like an invasion of my space either way. The ironic thing is that this is truly the first time I have been angry and upset for any length of time since I had surgery. I feel like I am going nuts. I know I'm not but it sure feels like insanity. Reminds me of my life prior to wls and it doesn't feel good. I have most definitely mellowed over the last two years. Lori Owen - Denton, Texas SRVG 7/16/01 Dr. Ritter/Dr. Bryce 479/335/??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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