Guest guest Posted April 18, 2004 Report Share Posted April 18, 2004 Hello Everyone, I got the call on Friday that gave me my consult date on Monday April 23, 2004. I live in Bakersfield, CA and have to drive to san Diego, CA. I am so excited...they told me that since my insurance has approved this then I have to wait about a week and a half and then if all went well in the " marathon consultation day " I should get a call abou 1-2 weeks after that for a surgery date. I have lost 10 lbs since I attended the lecture. Since my doctor and I have been trying to get this surgery my husband is being a *$ & #. He has told me that he wants to sell our house and go our seperate ways. I said NO!!! I am not selling anything, for once I am being selfish..I am thinking only about myself. I have raised my kids by myself and my husband of 4.5 years is of the old school as each day goes by. I am sticing to my guns and taking care of myself and looking forward to this surgery. I don't need this now, nor do I diserve this type of treatment. He left yesterday to ride his motorcyle at 10AM and it is now 24 hours later and he has not returned nor called. I guess he thinks I am going to sit down and feed my face and worry..That would have been the old me...The new me went for a walk, did my ceramics, ate fresh pinapple and watched a good movie. Had the whole bed to myself and said * & * & *# ...If anything happened, God non't like ugly.... I am not going to let selfish people rule my life. I am going to live for myself. My kids are grown and are supporting me 110%. My neighbors are ralling behind me and will pitch in and help me make it through this.. Besides I have you guys right to support me? I knew it...Thanks in advance. Cherie 284 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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