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> Yep, my grandmother was the same way. " Just one piece of cake won't hurt

> ya. " Well, some 40 lbs ago that is what my home health aid was saying

> and it wasn't 40 lbs in the right direction either. :o) Lori O.

What is the home health aide for except to care for YOUR health? If she

won't cooperate with what works for your body, can you fire her or request a

different aide who will do what you want? As you say, she's spending YOUR

money on groceries, they should be groceries that are good for YOU, not what

she wants you to eat.

Maybe she has a hidden agenda -- if she can keep you obese she can keep you

helpless, and then she can keep her job.

~~ Lyn

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I think I'm not quite clear on what a home health aide does becuase I

thought that they were for elderly people or people who weren't able to take

care of themselves medically (like when you have an open incision, the HHA

comes in to help clean it and change the bandages).

Who pays for the groceries that she buys? You or her? If it's your money,

then only pay for the items that YOU need, not the ones that she chooses

against your wishes. One thing that I've learned since my WLS is that no

one can force me to eat something that I don't want to eat - just as this

woman can't force you to buy and eat anything that you don't want to buy and

eat. If you don't want her to buy these things, tell her exactly what you

expect of her and if she refuses to abide by your wishes, fire her. File a

complaint with whatever agency she works for. Do SOMETHING. But don't

allow her to help you sabotage yourself. We're all good enough at

sabotaging ourselves without outside help, right She can't do anything for

you or to you that you don't allow her to do.

I think that Lyn has a point with what she said. If you don't need her to

do your shopping for you, then she's out of a job.

Terry

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> > Yep, my grandmother was the same way. " Just one piece of cake won't

hurt

> > ya. " Well, some 40 lbs ago that is what my home health aid was saying

> > and it wasn't 40 lbs in the right direction either. :o) Lori O.

>

> What is the home health aide for except to care for YOUR health? If she

> won't cooperate with what works for your body, can you fire her or request

a

> different aide who will do what you want? As you say, she's spending YOUR

> money on groceries, they should be groceries that are good for YOU, not

what

> she wants you to eat.

>

> Maybe she has a hidden agenda -- if she can keep you obese she can keep

you

> helpless, and then she can keep her job.

>

> ~~ Lyn

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I have the movie on VHS, and I have the cookbook. LOVED the movie....so

real! The cookbook is pretty good too. Love the risotto recipe in it. Also

the

one with the beans and pasta. Pasta Fagolio??? Something like that anyhoo.

I haven't cooked anything out of that cookbook since WLS. Wonder why? LOL~

Regards~

Jacque

> Did you ever see " Fatso " with Dom Dee? Same situation -- the ones who

> ate the most made the mommas so happy. That was one of those movies that made

> me laugh and cry, too much truth. And of course his cookbook had a name on

> the order of " Eat this, it will make you feel better. "

>

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Home health aides can be used for various reasons including wound

care as well as elderly or disabled individuals who can not completely

care for themselves. This home health aide is my original aide that I

had starting a little over a year ago. She has gone from 24 hours a week

down to 8 hours a week. We are really down to minimal stuff that I don't

have the energy to complete such as laundry and grocery shopping.

My biggest problem is that this particular aid is very

bullheaded. She does a wonderful job but I have had to really pick my

battles with her otherwise we would be fighting all of the time. She had

gone on maternity leave and wasn't sure that she wanted to come back

because she plans on going to work for the school district. However, her

replacement decided one day not to show up. If this aide had not come

back, I would still be without one. Now, the good news is that I only go

shopping once a month. Secondly, she has really mellowed some since her

baby was born (I wonder if this was part of the problem) and our

arguments are now down to my shopping list and not everything else.

I have often wondered if she had an agenda. She understands the

basic problems of the comorbidities that I have but doesn't quite

understand the addictive process. She also has started AA meetings

because of her drug addiction slip and alcohol issues. Having been

through OA, AA, and various other anonymous' plus a degree in social work

I think I understand the process. I have been without sugar in my house

as well as mashed potatoes. My cracker intake is about 1/3 of what it

was 2 months ago and I am now loosing. My other saving grace is she

loves to get me out walking and swimming which means I will be doing more

exercising. I just have to stick to my food guns.

Lori Owen - Denton, Texas

SRVG 7/16/01

Dr. Ritter/Dr. Bryce

479/335/???

On Sun, 6 Jul 2003 13:18:26 -0400 " Terry Mayers "

writes:

> I think I'm not quite clear on what a home health aide does becuase

> I

> thought that they were for elderly people or people who weren't able

> to take

> care of themselves medically (like when you have an open incision,

> the HHA

> comes in to help clean it and change the bandages).

>

> Who pays for the groceries that she buys? You or her? If it's your

> money,

> then only pay for the items that YOU need, not the ones that she

> chooses

> against your wishes. One thing that I've learned since my WLS is

> that no

> one can force me to eat something that I don't want to eat - just as

> this

> woman can't force you to buy and eat anything that you don't want to

> buy and

> eat. If you don't want her to buy these things, tell her exactly

> what you

> expect of her and if she refuses to abide by your wishes, fire her.

> File a

> complaint with whatever agency she works for. Do SOMETHING. But

> don't

> allow her to help you sabotage yourself. We're all good enough at

> sabotaging ourselves without outside help, right She can't do

> anything for

> you or to you that you don't allow her to do.

>

> I think that Lyn has a point with what she said. If you don't need

> her to

> do your shopping for you, then she's out of a job.

>

> Terry

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Re: Swimsuits

I am white as a cracker, mom from Texas. She knew that food was comforting,

and fat babies were healthy babies. Boy, was I healthy!! lol

Margie in NM

RNY 9-7-01

252/133ish

Jewish mommas are the same, plus I have learned that Spanish Mommas are too.

I really believe that some of the older folks who grew up poor and hungry

believe they are doing the right thing.

Fay Bayuk

**300/168

10/23/01

Dr.

Open RNY 150 cm

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