Re: Jacques advise to Regina

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Regina~

Definitely NOT more woman...more stupid is the word here! I had a family

that would stare at me blankly when I went off on them for the utter filth and

chaos that they created. Do you have a Mr. Nobody that lives at your house? I

did for 21 or so years, until the last kid moved out...and Mr. Nobody moved

out with them!! All of a sudden, when I went to go retrieve an item that I had

placed in a certain spot...miracle of miracles, it was THERE! Yet, when all

three were at home, Nobody touched a thing! I felt very badly that I had to

come home to a dirty house after surgery. But seems in my family, everyone

turns very obtuse....they don't " get it. " My hubby's idea of clean and mine are

way different. The kids have all gone and moved into their own little pig

sties...So, be happy that you can lay the guilt trip, and it WORKS....it never

worked for my crew. It's always been... " if you don't like it, do it yourself! "

Guess there is some truth to that. So, I have learned to become blind to

many things. If I didn't, I'd be upset a lot.

I think that is too funny, what you did to the cheater. Hey, if he's going

to cheat...might as well teach him a lesson! Maybe you will actually " help "

him get back on the straight and narrow. I love the way your mind works...and I

think your professor is fascinated with it too....I'm sure he'd love to get

you down and pick your brain to pieces. Hey, why not...you will be horizontal,

and resting, like you should be! There's that word again....heh heh!!!

Take care~

Regards~

Jacque

Distal RNY, 5/30/00

Drs. Fox and Oh

310~126

Beginning BMI 50.0

Current BMI 20.3

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> Maybe that couch would not be such a bad place to do a little R & R and

> get something done at the same

> time?!?

>

> Jacque. You are more woman than I. I would never pick up a mop to do the

> floors after coming home from surgery. Hell, I don't do that now. If I

> come home and the house is a mess, I get upset and tell Tim I can't

> believe he would let me come home to a house looking like this and then

> he and the kids scramble to clean it up due to guilt. The wash dry fold

> is the answer for Tim. Last time I had surgery, I had almost six weeks

> of laundry to catch up on, that won't happen again. What's that saying

> " live and learn " . Tim is great, but only seems to get motivated when it

> suits his purpose. You have to see how motivated he gets when he runs

> out of underwear and food.

>

> As for the couch, my professor caught me leaving class yesterday to

> discuss a few things. He said he noticed the kid next to me cheating off

> my paper. Told him not to worry about that and he got upset and said

> that you work very hard for your grades and this kid is cheating off of

> you. Told him I was fully aware of the kid cheating off of me as he has

> been doing so all semester and that yesterday when he was passing out

> the answer sheets for the test, I took two of them. One I put all my

> answers on and the other one, well, lets just say, I doubt this kid is

> going to get anyting higher than a 20 or 30. Not the nicest thing I've

> ever done, but boy did we get a laugh out of it after class. The

> professor was laughing so hard. Said in 20 years of teaching he has

> never had anything like that happen. He called me last night because he

> was still laughing about it and had to know if I had that planned. Told

> him it was a spur of the moment thing. He definitely wants me on that

> couch now. : )

>

> Hope you don't think poorly of me.

>

> Regina