Guest guest Posted August 10, 2003 Report Share Posted August 10, 2003 Lorraine, although they are strong words, my kudos to Dr. Oh. I have a huge issue with surgeons telling patients a goal weight number. To me, it sets the patient up for disappointment and feelings of failure if they do not reach that goal. Also, the surgeons not allowing for the huge differences in genetics, yo-yo dieting, body type, lifestyles, whatever, and frankly, they're just not that good! Don't beat yourself up for chosing the wrong surgery. None of us ever know where our bodies will settle after surgery. Some have very short proximals, and are able to get down to the MetLife " normal " chart weights, others never will through no fault of their own. Just do what you need to do, and know that we're here for you whenever you need us. Hugs, in NJ ************************* > When I told him my doc said I would get down to 131 lbs, > Dr. Oh asked me (very matter-of-factly) did my surgeon not have > enough experience to know this wasn't true or did he just lie to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2003 Report Share Posted August 10, 2003 Thanks so much, . Your encouragement & support are needed & appreciated. Lorraine > > When I told him my doc said I would get down to 131 lbs, > > Dr. Oh asked me (very matter-of-factly) did my surgeon not have > > enough experience to know this wasn't true or did he just lie to > me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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