Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 Are you worried about having the surgery? Do you ask yourself is this the right thing? Even though you say this is what you want, are you scared? Is anyone who loves you against it? Or is it just behavior eating, old habits, stress? Is there people around you close supporting what you are doing? Just some things you might ask yourself, find the answers and be able to get on with it. Take care. Donna Jdamaris wrote: dumb.....i have to lose the 10% but i find my self not working hard at it......i live in hayward...who can come to slap me..lol....thanks,dama..i keep telling myself--why am i blowing it? what do you guys think? all comments are much appreciated.... Donna JordonDSJordon@... Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 i have to lose the 10% but i find my self not working hard That was me in Feb! I took from 2003 until Feb of this year to really get ready in my mind to do it. I think in the back of my mind I just wasn't ready. I didn't really want to 'lose' the food part of my life. Now I am so happy that I did it. Not everyday mind you but just about every day I thank God that I had the surgery. Good luck and really think about your motivation for the surgery. Bobbie 2003 228 lbs surgery 4-10-2006 weight on that date was 199 as of today 164!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 it is behavior, old habits and stress that do it for me....i am going to start writing in my journal again...i am sure that the surgery is what i want........hugs,dama dumb.....i have to lose the 10% but i find my self not working hard at > it......i live in hayward...who can come to slap > me..lol....thanks,dama..i keep telling myself--why am i blowing it? > what do you guys think? all comments are much appreciated.... > > > > > > > Donna Jordon > > DSJordon@... > > --------------------------------- > Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 thanks Bobbie....i really want the surgery, i know that it is a tool that will help me......old habits die hard........i can't believe i have come this far and not be really working at it...i am doing baby steps but i am expecting more from myself.....hugs,dama > i have to lose the 10% but i find my self not working hard > > That was me in Feb! I took from 2003 until Feb of this year to really > get ready in my mind to do it. > I think in the back of my mind I just wasn't ready. I didn't really > want to 'lose' the food part of my life. Now I am so happy that I did > it. Not everyday mind you but just about every day I thank God that I > had the surgery. > Good luck and really think about your motivation for the surgery. > Bobbie > 2003 228 lbs > surgery 4-10-2006 weight on that date was 199 > as of today 164!!!! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 Dama - You have a great attitude but sometimes it seems like you're so in love with your own voice that you start loving complaining - which leads you to change behaviors so you have something to complain about. Routine is your friend at this point; create one and stick to it! Best of luck I know you can do it! Randy > > dumb.....i have to lose the 10% but i find my self not working hard at > it......i live in hayward...who can come to slap > me..lol....thanks,dama..i keep telling myself--why am i blowing it? > what do you guys think? all comments are much appreciated.... > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 I forgot when i was slapping you before, Dama - havve a heart-to- heart with your family and immediate support group and tell them you need help - gentle positive help - sticking to the goal. That help will inspire you. Randy > dumb.....i have to lose the 10% but i find my self not working hard > at > > it......i live in hayward...who can come to slap > > me..lol....thanks,dama..i keep telling myself--why am i blowing > it? > > what do you guys think? all comments are much appreciated.... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Donna Jordon > > > > DSJordon@ > > > > --------------------------------- > > Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. > Great rates starting at 1¢/min. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 7, 2006 Report Share Posted July 7, 2006 Thanks Randy for the slap.......hugs, Dama yeah i am in love with my voice--you are right...something to work on........ > > dumb.....i have to lose the 10% but i find my self not working > hard > > at > > > it......i live in hayward...who can come to slap > > > me..lol....thanks,dama..i keep telling myself--why am i blowing > > it? > > > what do you guys think? all comments are much appreciated.... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Donna Jordon > > > > > > DSJordon@ > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. > > Great rates starting at 1¢/min. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 7, 2006 Report Share Posted July 7, 2006 Me too, in case you couldn't tell! You'll be great, dama, hang in there! Randy > > > dumb.....i have to lose the 10% but i find my self not working > > hard > > > at > > > > it......i live in hayward...who can come to slap > > > > me..lol....thanks,dama..i keep telling myself--why am i > blowing > > > it? > > > > what do you guys think? all comments are much appreciated.... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Donna Jordon > > > > > > > > DSJordon@ > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > > Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. > > > Great rates starting at 1¢/min. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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