Guest guest Posted November 22, 2002 Report Share Posted November 22, 2002 Greetings Pamela! > Last week, mom asked dad (again!) " Why do you keep telling people that I'm > getting better? " Dad's answer, " How can you blame me for being excited if I > see some sign of improvement? " Mom's reply, " Well, according to you I have > gotten better every day for the last two years. I must be nearly well now! " What a hoot! And it sounds as if your Mom and Dad (with just gender reveral) could be conversations I have with my wife. I'm not saying I am gloomy. I do try to do the best possible. But since I often need two hiking poles to stay upright, especially in busy environments, saying " I am doing much better " is almost hurtful to me. I understand your father's optimism. Of course the other extreme is also hurtful. According to my mother, I am death's door. I don't think so. Also, don't try to baby me. I am a very stubborn (and probably proud) person. I've done well for my family. I am STILL a good provider, even in difficult times. So, please treat me with respect and at least allow me to try to be independant. When I need help, I will request it. Oh, well. I suspect I would behave no differently than either. But we do need to remember that the illness does not define us. Rather it refines us. Regards, =jbf= B. Fisher Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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