Re: A MO man's view of intimacy.

October 16, 2001

Thank you ,.. I loved hearing your thoughts. )

> For my fiancee and I intimacy was never an issue. Even with all the

> extra poundage I carried and still carry we have an active and

> intimate life. There were times when I couldn't deliver and there

> were times when the love making was less than fair. We discussed

this

> at great length and we realized that intimacy includes many things

> holding, cuddling, talking about our future lives together and

> listening to each others past loves and lost hopes. I am not saying

a

> healthy and motivated sex life isn't important blieve me I cannot

> wait to totally satisfy not just orally. God knows she

deserves

> it she has been a saint through the last 3 yrs.

> For my DS sister let it go take his hand for as long as it's

extended

> and if he takes his hand away you have still beat the first of your

> intimate fears. We look at this trip as a marathon not a sprint. For

> the lady that started this thread I see you mentioned sleep apnea.

Do

> you use a CPAP?

> old me right before my surgery if things go wrong and you need

> 100% care remember intimacy is between the ears. I will love you

> always.

> After a first marriage of 18 yrs which the last 5 were totally love

> less I am truly blessed. I am 42 yrs. old and have met the love of

my

> life we talked last night and we were tossing around what makes this

> thing of ours work. We came to the conclusion we both accept that we

> are not perfect.

>

> Be good,

>

> 7/24/01

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