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Carole,

Respectfully, you are not understanding what I, and others, have been

saying. Although Ren has her reservations about the DS, when people have

told her that was the only procedure they wanted, she has done it, and well.

(And please don't bring up Deb; until ALL facts have been made public, let's

not hang Ren until she's been PROVED guilty. Even the great Gagner has lost

patients and hasn't been bashed the way that Ren has). I can only speak from

my experience and those of her patients I've spoken with.

Marcia

Re: Amazing!

In a message dated 10/21/01 10:18:37 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

duodenalswitch writes:

<< Please take into

consideration a person's particular problem might be other than what

YOU experience, and that they might need other treatment. >>

I find it incredibly amazing that the very people who got the DS because

they

decided it was right for them don't care that their surgeon doesn't want to

do it anymore. Instead of caring about her future patients so they can have

the same opportunity that YOU had, you ask others not to judge the surgeon

and you still stick up for her. Incredible. And, sorry, but I will judge

when I think a surgeon is wrong.

Its my right to have a choice of the surgery I want. its the right of any

future Ren or patients to have the same choice. But you seem to

think it isn't, and since you already " got yours " it doesn''t matter.

Carole

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Marcia,

What I think everyone is saying (as if I could be nominated spokes person for

anyone here) is that it seems a bit unethical (dont know if its the right word)

for Dr. Ren to substitute the DS for the BPD and somehow give the impression

that they have comprable results when they dont! If they did the BPD would have

never evolved to the BPD/DS Or maybe I am just misunderstanding what everyone

else is saying....

Lisbeth

Marty Kanter wrote: Carole,

Respectfully, you are not understanding what I, and others, have been

saying. Although Ren has her reservations about the DS, when people have

told her that was the only procedure they wanted, she has done it, and well.

(And please don't bring up Deb; until ALL facts have been made public, let's

not hang Ren until she's been PROVED guilty. Even the great Gagner has lost

patients and hasn't been bashed the way that Ren has). I can only speak from

my experience and those of her patients I've spoken with.

Marcia

Re: Amazing!

In a message dated 10/21/01 10:18:37 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

duodenalswitch writes:

<< Please take into

consideration a person's particular problem might be other than what

YOU experience, and that they might need other treatment. >>

I find it incredibly amazing that the very people who got the DS because

they

decided it was right for them don't care that their surgeon doesn't want to

do it anymore. Instead of caring about her future patients so they can have

the same opportunity that YOU had, you ask others not to judge the surgeon

and you still stick up for her. Incredible. And, sorry, but I will judge

when I think a surgeon is wrong.

Its my right to have a choice of the surgery I want. its the right of any

future Ren or patients to have the same choice. But you seem to

think it isn't, and since you already " got yours " it doesn''t matter.

Carole

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The problem is, Lizbeth, that people ARE misunderstanding Dr. Ren's ethics

and motives. She has explained that she feels that there are risks inherent

in the DS, not inherent in BPD. She explains ALL options available and if

the patient, the INFORMED patient, then wishes to continue on with the DS, I

haven't heard of her refusing to do it yet. That's the point I've been

trying to make!

Marcia

Re: Amazing!

In a message dated 10/21/01 10:18:37 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

duodenalswitch writes:

<< Please take into

consideration a person's particular problem might be other than what

YOU experience, and that they might need other treatment. >>

I find it incredibly amazing that the very people who got the DS because

they

decided it was right for them don't care that their surgeon doesn't want to

do it anymore. Instead of caring about her future patients so they can have

the same opportunity that YOU had, you ask others not to judge the surgeon

and you still stick up for her. Incredible. And, sorry, but I will judge

when I think a surgeon is wrong.

Its my right to have a choice of the surgery I want. its the right of any

future Ren or patients to have the same choice. But you seem to

think it isn't, and since you already " got yours " it doesn''t matter.

Carole

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> Even the great Gagner has lost patients and hasn't

> been bashed the way that Ren has).

I know that the great Gagner has lost patient. What he hasn't done, to

my knowledge, is tell a patient that we DSers are a little too attached

to our pyloric valve, or that we " put them on a pedestal " . That attitude

is what bothers me more than anything.

M.

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in Valrico, FL, age 39

Lap DGB/DS by Dr. Rabkin 10/19/99

Starting weight 299, now 155

Starting BMI 49.7, now 25.8

Starting size 26/28, now 10/12

http://www.duodenalswitch.com/Patients/_M_/melanie_m_.html

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Marcia -

Have you read the information on Deb's site? We're not in a court of law

here. It clearly points out that there may be unexpected risks with the

fully lap DS.

I think that the method used to perform the procedure is what should be

being questioned, not the DS itself. It is a very complex surgery and

making it even more difficult by going fully lap may not make a lot of

sense.

Everyone loves their surgeon and I love mine as much as you love yours.

However, it is foolhardy to dismiss every bit of information that comes your

way that threatens your paradigm.

Best -

Nick

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Carol, I'm sorry that you signed on at a time when a debate was going on

that wasn't 100% comfortable for you. However, this is precisely why

this group exists. We are here to support each other and to learn about

this procedure, but also to hash out issues that could affect our choice

and expectation of positive outcome. You are welcome here, and I hope

you stay to read and learn.

Magruder (DS list moderator)

> Last Thursday I saw the surgeon (#2), I was determined I wanted the

> RNY. He mentioned the DS and explained all about it. He told me to

> go home and research it and decide which I wanted by this Thurs.

> (25). He recommended duodenalswitch.com but it is down. So I

> started reading everything else and came across this site. After

> lurking several days, I must say for a SUPPORT group you do more

> nitpicking and bickering than helping!!! I was looking for what to

> expect after surgery, diet, restrictions etc., etc. There are some

> very helpful posts but......... Please remember there are people out

> here who need your help. I'm sure that was the intention when this

> site was started. I think many people on here need to refocus on why

> they came to this site and help each other. Carol Beam---

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Dear Carol: Welcome to the group. Sometimes you will

see discussions/debates as many of the people here are

strongly opinionated (to say the least) and most are

quite intelligent with keen minds. However, you'll

also see a lot of information and support being

exchanged. It all works to make this a lively and

informative forum. Please continue to lurk and/or

participate. Tell us some more about yourself and what

your needs are. Who is your surgeon???

--- Carol wrote:

> Last Thursday I saw the surgeon (#2), I was

> determined I wanted the

> RNY. He mentioned the DS and explained all about

> it. He told me to

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+Doris in PA+

Hoping for DS

BMI 54

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