Guest guest Posted November 26, 2009 Report Share Posted November 26, 2009 ... Geeta is right, we are all here for you and some understand the fear of dying better than others. It's such a helpless feeling isn't it. Hangs on us like an Albatross around our neck. Are you a spiritual person? Not necessarily 'religious' but believe that there is something or someone greater than we are? A spiritual belief helps me and to what ever degree I do believe I try to read to strengthen what I already have faith in, instead of reading to 'convince' myself of something new. , all of us here care about you and we do support you and I think we understand the fear that hangs on when we are facing a fatal disease. Do you think you may have some strong denial goin' on? Denial can be so strong when we are not able to accept the things that cannot be changed. I wish we could tell each other that it's 'gonna be ok' but it just isn't possible. None of us know what's ahead and relinquishing control when we've always been in control is nearly unbearable for some... Since you live 'one day at a time' then enjoy today, have a nice Thanksgiving and enjoy the people around you. Worry about tomorrow's stuff tomorrow. Remember, it's not 'your time' yet to die. Your time may not come for years and when it gets close you will feel differently because your body will feel differently and your emotions will know and you won't be so afraid.... Sorry I went on so long . A big hug to you! ) MamaSher; 71, IPF 3-2006, OR.Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Re: die ,Its gonna be ok, do not worry,you sulk or vent ,cry or laugh, we are with you.We are all in the same boat.We want you to come back to us.We are all moms here and give you our shoulders to weep on, the biggest of us of course is Mama Sher, the large hearted mama!Happy Thanks Giving !Geeta>> Guys> sory I got off to a bad start in this group> I read all to the posts today, been several dayys since I read them> I too have no support here, nobody understands or wants to.> I have always feared death, My Mom died when I was 4 and I've been terrified since. I want you all to tell me it's gonna be ok.> I know you can't > I've always lived y the " one-day-at-a-time" thing but this seems different,.> I'm scared, confused, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2009 Report Share Posted November 26, 2009 Sher........I LOVE you you're a great person......If i were stright I'd ask you to marry me <FONT face="comic sans ms" color=#40007f size=3> Soulliere & nbsp; <IMG src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/tsmileys2/50.gif"></FONT> To: Breathe-Support Sent: Thu, November 26, 2009 2:10:00 PMSubject: Re: Re: die> ... Geeta is right, we are all here for you and some understand the fear of dying better than others. It's such a helpless feeling isn't it. Hangs on us like an Albatross around our neck. Are you a spiritual person? Not necessarily 'religious' but believe that there is something or someone greater than we are? A spiritual belief helps me and to what ever degree I do believe I try to read to strengthen what I already have faith in, instead of reading to 'convince' myself of something new. , all of us here care about you and we do support you and I think we understand the fear that hangs on when we are facing a fatal disease. Do you think you may have some strong denial goin' on? Denial can be so strong when we are not able to accept the things that cannot be changed. I wish we could tell each other that it's 'gonna be ok' but it just isn't possible. None of us know what's ahead and relinquishing control when we've always been in control is nearly unbearable for some... Since you live 'one day at a time' then enjoy today, have a nice Thanksgiving and enjoy the people around you. Worry about tomorrow's stuff tomorrow. Remember, it's not 'your time' yet to die. Your time may not come for years and when it gets close you will feel differently because your body will feel differently and your emotions will know and you won't be so afraid.... Sorry I went on so long . A big hug to you! ) MamaSher; 71, IPF 3-2006, OR.Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Re: die ,Its gonna be ok, do not worry,you sulk or vent ,cry or laugh, we are with you.We are all in the same boat.We want you to come back to us.We are all moms here and give you our shoulders to weep on, the biggest of us of course is Mama Sher, the large hearted mama!Happy Thanks Giving !Geeta>> Guys> sory I got off to a bad start in this group> I read all to the posts today, been several dayys since I read them> I too have no support here, nobody understands or wants to.> I have always feared death, My Mom died when I was 4 and I've been terrified since. I want you all to tell me it's gonna be ok.> I know you can't > I've always lived y the " one-day-at-a- time" thing but this seems different,.> I'm scared, confused, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2009 Report Share Posted November 26, 2009  ... lol! ) if I were gay I'd run away with you! lol Thanks , you are a doll. You'll be ok...one day at a time. MamaSher; 71, IPF 3-2006, OR.Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Re: die ,Its gonna be ok, do not worry,you sulk or vent ,cry or laugh, we are with you.We are all in the same boat.We want you to come back to us.We are all moms here and give you our shoulders to weep on, the biggest of us of course is Mama Sher, the large hearted mama!Happy Thanks Giving !Geeta>> Guys> sory I got off to a bad start in this group> I read all to the posts today, been several dayys since I read them> I too have no support here, nobody understands or wants to.> I have always feared death, My Mom died when I was 4 and I've been terrified since. I want you all to tell me it's gonna be ok.> I know you can't > I've always lived y the " one-day-at-a- time" thing but this seems different,.> I'm scared, confused, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2009 Report Share Posted November 26, 2009 TOO SWEET!! ;-)To: Breathe-Support Sent: Thu, November 26, 2009 3:19:36 PMSubject: Re: Re: die> Sher........ I LOVE you you're a great person...... If i were stright I'd ask you to marry me <FONT face="comic sans ms" color=#40007f size=3> Soulliere & nbsp; <IMG src="http:// us.i1.yimg. com/us.yimg. com/i/mesg/ tsmileys2/ 50.gif"></FONT> From: Sher Bauman <bofus6 (AT) verizon (DOT) net>To: Breathe-Support@ yahoogroups. comSent: Thu, November 26, 2009 2:10:00 PMSubject: Re: Re: die> ... Geeta is right, we are all here for you and some understand the fear of dying better than others. It's such a helpless feeling isn't it. Hangs on us like an Albatross around our neck. Are you a spiritual person? Not necessarily 'religious' but believe that there is something or someone greater than we are? A spiritual belief helps me and to what ever degree I do believe I try to read to strengthen what I already have faith in, instead of reading to 'convince' myself of something new. , all of us here care about you and we do support you and I think we understand the fear that hangs on when we are facing a fatal disease. Do you think you may have some strong denial goin' on? Denial can be so strong when we are not able to accept the things that cannot be changed. I wish we could tell each other that it's 'gonna be ok' but it just isn't possible. None of us know what's ahead and relinquishing control when we've always been in control is nearly unbearable for some... Since you live 'one day at a time' then enjoy today, have a nice Thanksgiving and enjoy the people around you. Worry about tomorrow's stuff tomorrow. Remember, it's not 'your time' yet to die. Your time may not come for years and when it gets close you will feel differently because your body will feel differently and your emotions will know and you won't be so afraid.... Sorry I went on so long . A big hug to you! ) MamaSher; 71, IPF 3-2006, OR.Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Re: die ,Its gonna be ok, do not worry,you sulk or vent ,cry or laugh, we are with you.We are all in the same boat.We want you to come back to us.We are all moms here and give you our shoulders to weep on, the biggest of us of course is Mama Sher, the large hearted mama!Happy Thanks Giving !Geeta>> Guys> sory I got off to a bad start in this group> I read all to the posts today, been several dayys since I read them> I too have no support here, nobody understands or wants to.> I have always feared death, My Mom died when I was 4 and I've been terrified since. I want you all to tell me it's gonna be ok.> I know you can't > I've always lived y the " one-day-at-a- time" thing but this seems different,.> I'm scared, confused, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2009 Report Share Posted November 26, 2009 , You are certainly entitled to your feelings, but try not to get caught up in the doom and gloom. As I see that everyone has said no one has a date stamped on our foot or butt. We are here for you to vent and express concerns so hang in there. On another note I am curious as to why the following shows up on your messages: <FONT face="comic sans ms" color=#40007f size=3> Soulliere & nbsp; <IMG src="http:// us.i1.yimg. com/us.yimg. com/i/mesg/ tsmileys2/ 50.gif"></FONT> AB To: Breathe-Support Sent: Thu, November 26, 2009 4:19:36 PMSubject: Re: Re: die> Sher........ I LOVE you you're a great person...... If i were stright I'd ask you to marry me <FONT face="comic sans ms" color=#40007f size=3> Soulliere & nbsp; <IMG src="http:// us.i1.yimg. com/us.yimg. com/i/mesg/ tsmileys2/ 50.gif"></FONT> From: Sher Bauman <bofus6 (AT) verizon (DOT) net>To: Breathe-Support@ yahoogroups. comSent: Thu, November 26, 2009 2:10:00 PMSubject: Re: Re: die> ... Geeta is right, we are all here for you and some understand the fear of dying better than others. It's such a helpless feeling isn't it. Hangs on us like an Albatross around our neck. Are you a spiritual person? Not necessarily 'religious' but believe that there is something or someone greater than we are? A spiritual belief helps me and to what ever degree I do believe I try to read to strengthen what I already have faith in, instead of reading to 'convince' myself of something new. , all of us here care about you and we do support you and I think we understand the fear that hangs on when we are facing a fatal disease. Do you think you may have some strong denial goin' on? Denial can be so strong when we are not able to accept the things that cannot be changed. I wish we could tell each other that it's 'gonna be ok' but it just isn't possible. None of us know what's ahead and relinquishing control when we've always been in control is nearly unbearable for some... Since you live 'one day at a time' then enjoy today, have a nice Thanksgiving and enjoy the people around you. Worry about tomorrow's stuff tomorrow. Remember, it's not 'your time' yet to die. Your time may not come for years and when it gets close you will feel differently because your body will feel differently and your emotions will know and you won't be so afraid.... Sorry I went on so long . A big hug to you! ) MamaSher; 71, IPF 3-2006, OR.Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Re: die ,Its gonna be ok, do not worry,you sulk or vent ,cry or laugh, we are with you.We are all in the same boat.We want you to come back to us.We are all moms here and give you our shoulders to weep on, the biggest of us of course is Mama Sher, the large hearted mama!Happy Thanks Giving !Geeta>> Guys> sory I got off to a bad start in this group> I read all to the posts today, been several dayys since I read them> I too have no support here, nobody understands or wants to.> I have always feared death, My Mom died when I was 4 and I've been terrified since. I want you all to tell me it's gonna be ok.> I know you can't > I've always lived y the " one-day-at-a- time" thing but this seems different,.> I'm scared, confused, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2009 Report Share Posted November 27, 2009 I have no idea.............I'm not very puter smart <FONT face="comic sans ms" color=#40007f size=3> Soulliere & nbsp; <IMG src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/tsmileys2/50.gif"></FONT> To: Breathe-Support Sent: Thu, November 26, 2009 10:09:07 PMSubject: Re: Re: die> , You are certainly entitled to your feelings, but try not to get caught up in the doom and gloom. As I see that everyone has said no one has a date stamped on our foot or butt. We are here for you to vent and express concerns so hang in there. On another note I am curious as to why the following shows up on your messages: <FONT face="comic sans ms" color=#40007f size=3> Soulliere & nbsp; <IMG src="http:// us.i1.yimg. com/us.yimg. com/i/mesg/ tsmileys2/ 50.gif"></FONT> AB From: Soulliere <johnsbatik (AT) yahoo (DOT) com>To: Breathe-Support@ yahoogroups. comSent: Thu, November 26, 2009 4:19:36 PMSubject: Re: Re: die> Sher........ I LOVE you you're a great person...... If i were stright I'd ask you to marry me <FONT face="comic sans ms" color=#40007f size=3> Soulliere & nbsp; <IMG src="http:// us.i1.yimg. com/us.yimg. com/i/mesg/ tsmileys2/ 50.gif"></FONT> From: Sher Bauman <bofus6 (AT) verizon (DOT) net>To: Breathe-Support@ yahoogroups. comSent: Thu, November 26, 2009 2:10:00 PMSubject: Re: Re: die> ... Geeta is right, we are all here for you and some understand the fear of dying better than others. It's such a helpless feeling isn't it. Hangs on us like an Albatross around our neck. Are you a spiritual person? Not necessarily 'religious' but believe that there is something or someone greater than we are? A spiritual belief helps me and to what ever degree I do believe I try to read to strengthen what I already have faith in, instead of reading to 'convince' myself of something new. , all of us here care about you and we do support you and I think we understand the fear that hangs on when we are facing a fatal disease. Do you think you may have some strong denial goin' on? Denial can be so strong when we are not able to accept the things that cannot be changed. I wish we could tell each other that it's 'gonna be ok' but it just isn't possible. None of us know what's ahead and relinquishing control when we've always been in control is nearly unbearable for some... Since you live 'one day at a time' then enjoy today, have a nice Thanksgiving and enjoy the people around you. Worry about tomorrow's stuff tomorrow. Remember, it's not 'your time' yet to die. Your time may not come for years and when it gets close you will feel differently because your body will feel differently and your emotions will know and you won't be so afraid.... Sorry I went on so long . A big hug to you! ) MamaSher; 71, IPF 3-2006, OR.Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Re: die ,Its gonna be ok, do not worry,you sulk or vent ,cry or laugh, we are with you.We are all in the same boat.We want you to come back to us.We are all moms here and give you our shoulders to weep on, the biggest of us of course is Mama Sher, the large hearted mama!Happy Thanks Giving !Geeta>> Guys> sory I got off to a bad start in this group> I read all to the posts today, been several dayys since I read them> I too have no support here, nobody understands or wants to.> I have always feared death, My Mom died when I was 4 and I've been terrified since. I want you all to tell me it's gonna be ok.> I know you can't > I've always lived y the " one-day-at-a- time" thing but this seems different,.> I'm scared, confused, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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