Guest guest Posted October 23, 2001 Report Share Posted October 23, 2001 I was reading the book " Aspergers syndrome and Difficult moments " and they talk about the rage cycle and how to prevent it, but I noticed they dont really go into how to handle it when it is happening. has been doing better at school, but once in a while (3 times in the last 4 weeks) something sets him off (usually transitions or fine motor tasks) and he gets to the point where he is so out of control that he destroys property, and becomes unsafe, and I usually get called to come get him. THey made a safe room for him, but it isnt safe enough to leave him in when he is like this (counters, only a couple of mats, phones, shelves, a window, etc). How do your schools handle when your child gets like this. What plans do they have for dealing with the rage cycle when nothing calms them down and they have to work it out of their system? I know the key is prevention and I keep giving them suggestions for teaching him self management skills, but they still need to know what to do on those few occassions when self management doesnt work. Everytime I come get him he gets the message that he cant be there all day and all he has to do is act out and he gets to go home, which is where he is right now. ANy tips, or is my son the only one who gets like this? also, the past several days s excema has suddenly come back (has had none since we stopped dairy this past spring) and he is waking up in the middle of the night crying and very restless (something he hasnt done since we started the Feingold diet 1 1/2 yrs ago). Any ideas? COuld it be that we have gone a little off the Feingold diet in favor for a GFCF diet? Or could it be that I gave him some cookies that seemed okay, but then later I noticed that it had a K-D symbol on it. THey were Pamela's Peanut Butter Cookies, and Midel Ginger Snap cookies - both which said Gluten Free and didnt have any obvious dairy in them. HELP!!! ===== Phyllis Parmelee Visit my website: THE 100 ACRE WOOD CHILD CARE - My Brand New Website Like my website? Want to know how you can get one, too? If you are interested in having me build one for you, send me an email. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2001 Report Share Posted October 23, 2001 Phyllis, Epsom salts certainly is able to rescue my daughter from sudden rage or weeping or accusations...These behaviors are terribly out of character for her and occur rarely. Because the epsom salts can pull her out of these episodes in minutes, I'm trying to teach her that the INTENSITY of her feelings at this sort of time is a treatable biological issue, and that when she feels these things coming on, she needs to be careful about issues that effect her chemistry (foods and fumes), and try to get epsom salts or meat ASAP. She's fallen apart after eating high phenolic foods before, and even after walking in a restaurant that had just cleaned the floors with Pinesol. There is no amount of TALKING that can resolve this issue when it happens...but helping her chemistry resolves the issue rapidly! (As I tell my daughter, it is not that there wasn't some real thing happening to make her upset, but the level of her response far exceeds the seriousness of whatever offense when her chemistry is off.) The epsom salts worked the same for my father with Alzheimers disease. For him, these rages were really scarey and would happen whenever we skipped a day of using epsom salts, but as long as we kept him on daily application of epsom salts (for 4 years until he died and prescribed by his doctor), he had no need of drugs to manage his behavior, ie., his doctor never felt the need to prescribe a behavioral drug...quite an accomplishment! We did occasionally have episodes of his getting up in the middle of the night and wandering, but it usually seemed to relate to gluten accidents. These personal experiences with my father are what got me into studying sulfation six years ago, because I couldn't understand why magnesium sulfate could have that effect. If we see my daughter is completely out of control of her emotions, and we are at home, we whisk her off to the tub for an epsom salts bath, and within minutes she is back to her own sweet self. When that has been impossible, if we are out and about with no epsom salts available, sometimes a bit of protein can help. It may be that a more " portable " form of administering epsom salts would work...like a sponge bottle filled with solution that can be rubbed on the skin, or maybe Kirkman's mag. sulfate cream (which I have never used). Try these things at home first, if you'd like! These issues seem more likely to return when my daughter has had an immunological challenge, but doesn't occur at the same time as the illness, but in the days after she has gotten over the illness or soon after she was exposed but before she has gotten sick. That may have something to do with your observation about the eczema showing up...that maybe something had been happening to weaken his immune system. My daughter's immune system seems to shift to TH2, or antibody mediated immunity AFTER she has been sick, which gives candida (yeast) a friendlier environment to grow, adding its own problems. It is fairly usual for us to need to use an antifungal at such times. I wonder about the ginger. It has pharmaceutical properties, as the articles below report. It is used to treat dizziness, which is an inner ear thing...very much territory for sulfated macromolecules, but it would be surprising if it only affected molecules in the inner ear rather than also affecting other molecules systemically. I hope something here helps. 1: Acta Otolaryngol 1988 Jan-Feb;105(1-2):45-9 Ginger root against seasickness. A controlled trial on the open sea. Grontved A, Brask T, Kambskard J, Hentzer E. Department of Oto-Rhino-Laryngology, Svendborg Hospital, Denmark. In a double-blind randomized placebo trial, the effect of the powdered rhizome of ginger (Zingiber officinale) was tested on seasickness. Eighty naval cadets, unaccustomed to sailing in heavy seas reported during voyages on the high seas, symptoms of seasickness every hour for 4 consecutive hours after ingestion of 1 g of the drug or placebo. Ginger root reduced the tendency to vomiting and cold sweating significantly better than placebo did (p less than 0.05). With regard to vomiting, a modified Protection Index (PI) = 72% was calculated. Remarkably fewer symptoms of nausea and vertigo were reported after ginger root ingestion, but the difference was not statistically significant. For all symptom categories, PI = 38% was calculated. Publication Types: Clinical Trial Randomized Controlled Trial PMID: 3277342 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE] 2: ORL J Otorhinolaryngol Relat Spec 1986;48(5):282-6 Vertigo-reducing effect of ginger root. A controlled clinical study. Grontved A, Hentzer E. The effect of powdered ginger root (Zingiber officinale) upon vertigo and nystagmus following caloric stimulation of the vestibular system was studied in 8 healthy volunteers in a double-blind crossover placebo trial. The results reported are based upon 48 vertigo scores and 48 electronystagmograms. Ginger root reduced the induced vertigo significantly better than did placebo. There was no statistically significant action upon the duration or the maximum slow phase velocity of nystagmus. Publication Types: Clinical Trial Randomized Controlled Trial PMID: 3537898 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE] At 10/23/2001 -070001:54 PM, you wrote: >I was reading the book " Aspergers syndrome and >Difficult moments " and they talk about the rage cycle >and how to prevent it, but I noticed they dont really >go into how to handle it when it is happening. >has been doing better at school, but once in a while >(3 times in the last 4 weeks) something sets him off >(usually transitions or fine motor tasks) and he gets >to the point where he is so out of control that he >destroys property, and becomes unsafe, and I usually >get called to come get him. THey made a safe room for >him, but it isnt safe enough to leave him in when he >is like this (counters, only a couple of mats, phones, >shelves, a window, etc). How do your schools handle >when your child gets like this. What plans do they >have for dealing with the rage cycle when nothing >calms them down and they have to work it out of their >system? I know the key is prevention and I keep >giving them suggestions for teaching him self >management skills, but they still need to know what to >do on those few occassions when self management doesnt >work. Everytime I come get him he gets the message >that he cant be there all day and all he has to do is >act out and he gets to go home, which is where he is >right now. ANy tips, or is my son the only one who >gets like this? > >also, the past several days s excema has >suddenly come back (has had none since we stopped >dairy this past spring) and he is waking up in the >middle of the night crying and very restless >(something he hasnt done since we started the Feingold >diet 1 1/2 yrs ago). Any ideas? COuld it be that we >have gone a little off the Feingold diet in favor for >a GFCF diet? Or could it be that I gave him some >cookies that seemed okay, but then later I noticed >that it had a K-D symbol on it. THey were Pamela's >Peanut Butter Cookies, and Midel Ginger Snap cookies - >both which said Gluten Free and didnt have any obvious >dairy in them. HELP!!! > > >===== >Phyllis Parmelee >Visit my website: >THE 100 ACRE WOOD CHILD CARE - My Brand New Website >Like my website? Want to know how you can get one, too? If you are >interested in having me build one for you, send me an email. > >__________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 24, 2001 Report Share Posted October 24, 2001 Phyllis, Not sure about Pamela's but the Midel's contain butter or at least the last time I checked they did. I made the same mistake because the way the ingredients are written its easy to miss. Lori > >I was reading the book " Aspergers syndrome and > >Difficult moments " and they talk about the rage cycle > >and how to prevent it, but I noticed they dont really > >go into how to handle it when it is happening. > >has been doing better at school, but once in a while > >(3 times in the last 4 weeks) something sets him off > >(usually transitions or fine motor tasks) and he gets > >to the point where he is so out of control that he > >destroys property, and becomes unsafe, and I usually > >get called to come get him. THey made a safe room for > >him, but it isnt safe enough to leave him in when he > >is like this (counters, only a couple of mats, phones, > >shelves, a window, etc). How do your schools handle > >when your child gets like this. What plans do they > >have for dealing with the rage cycle when nothing > >calms them down and they have to work it out of their > >system? I know the key is prevention and I keep > >giving them suggestions for teaching him self > >management skills, but they still need to know what to > >do on those few occassions when self management doesnt > >work. Everytime I come get him he gets the message > >that he cant be there all day and all he has to do is > >act out and he gets to go home, which is where he is > >right now. ANy tips, or is my son the only one who > >gets like this? > > > >also, the past several days s excema has > >suddenly come back (has had none since we stopped > >dairy this past spring) and he is waking up in the > >middle of the night crying and very restless > >(something he hasnt done since we started the Feingold > >diet 1 1/2 yrs ago). Any ideas? COuld it be that we > >have gone a little off the Feingold diet in favor for > >a GFCF diet? Or could it be that I gave him some > >cookies that seemed okay, but then later I noticed > >that it had a K-D symbol on it. THey were Pamela's > >Peanut Butter Cookies, and Midel Ginger Snap cookies - > >both which said Gluten Free and didnt have any obvious > >dairy in them. HELP!!! > > > > > >===== > >Phyllis Parmelee > >Visit my website: > >THE 100 ACRE WOOD CHILD CARE - My Brand New Website > >Like my website? Want to know how you can get one, too? If you are > >interested in having me build one for you, send me an email. > > > >__________________________________________________ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 24, 2001 Report Share Posted October 24, 2001 I'm glad to see I'm not alone. I thought I was doing good buying cookies from Mi-Del's. On the weekend, I was looking at the Miss Roben's catalog and noticed the arrowroot cookies did not show free of dairy. I quickly looked at the bag and there is was plain as day - butter. I looked at the other 3 bags of cookies from them and again - butter. I was only looking for milk and never noticed. It's a good thing that my son didn't actually like them. I realize now that he only likes soft cookies. Any ideas? > > >I was reading the book " Aspergers syndrome and > > >Difficult moments " and they talk about the rage cycle > > >and how to prevent it, but I noticed they dont really > > >go into how to handle it when it is happening. > > >has been doing better at school, but once in a while > > >(3 times in the last 4 weeks) something sets him off > > >(usually transitions or fine motor tasks) and he gets > > >to the point where he is so out of control that he > > >destroys property, and becomes unsafe, and I usually > > >get called to come get him. THey made a safe room for > > >him, but it isnt safe enough to leave him in when he > > >is like this (counters, only a couple of mats, phones, > > >shelves, a window, etc). How do your schools handle > > >when your child gets like this. What plans do they > > >have for dealing with the rage cycle when nothing > > >calms them down and they have to work it out of their > > >system? I know the key is prevention and I keep > > >giving them suggestions for teaching him self > > >management skills, but they still need to know what to > > >do on those few occassions when self management doesnt > > >work. Everytime I come get him he gets the message > > >that he cant be there all day and all he has to do is > > >act out and he gets to go home, which is where he is > > >right now. ANy tips, or is my son the only one who > > >gets like this? > > > > > >also, the past several days s excema has > > >suddenly come back (has had none since we stopped > > >dairy this past spring) and he is waking up in the > > >middle of the night crying and very restless > > >(something he hasnt done since we started the Feingold > > >diet 1 1/2 yrs ago). Any ideas? COuld it be that we > > >have gone a little off the Feingold diet in favor for > > >a GFCF diet? Or could it be that I gave him some > > >cookies that seemed okay, but then later I noticed > > >that it had a K-D symbol on it. THey were Pamela's > > >Peanut Butter Cookies, and Midel Ginger Snap cookies - > > >both which said Gluten Free and didnt have any obvious > > >dairy in them. HELP!!! > > > > > > > > >===== > > >Phyllis Parmelee > > >Visit my website: > > >THE 100 ACRE WOOD CHILD CARE - My Brand New Website > > >Like my website? Want to know how you can get one, too? If you > are > > >interested in having me build one for you, send me an email. > > > > > >__________________________________________________ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 24, 2001 Report Share Posted October 24, 2001 If it's K-D, there's dairy somewhere. Mi-del has butter. I don't know about Pamela's, but that company recently had a recall b/c of cross-contamination. The return of eczema is certainly a sign of a diet infringement. Have you tried pepcid AC tablets to counteract the infringement? My son's rages/meltdowns/mood-swings greatly reduced with GFCFRF. Also, reduced chemicals, no nutrasweet, lower phenols. We avoid obviously frustrating situations. Also chelation, which ended the full-on meltdowns completely. ....> also, the past several days s excema has > suddenly come back (has had none since we stopped > dairy this past spring) and he is waking up in the > middle of the night crying and very restless > (something he hasnt done since we started the Feingold > diet 1 1/2 yrs ago). Any ideas? COuld it be that we > have gone a little off the Feingold diet in favor for > a GFCF diet? Or could it be that I gave him some > cookies that seemed okay, but then later I noticed > that it had a K-D symbol on it. THey were Pamela's > Peanut Butter Cookies, and Midel Ginger Snap cookies - > both which said Gluten Free and didnt have any obvious > dairy in them. HELP!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 24, 2001 Report Share Posted October 24, 2001 > My son's rages/meltdowns/mood-swings greatly reduced with GFCFRF. Can you please explain gfcfrf? Cheryl ________________________________________________________________ GET INTERNET ACCESS FROM JUNO! Juno offers FREE or PREMIUM Internet access for less! Join Juno today! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/web/. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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