Guest guest Posted February 19, 2005 Report Share Posted February 19, 2005 , Check out the web site http://www.kidswithtubes.org/ there is a lot of good info here. My reply is in CAPS in your text. , Dad to Grant > > Dear Friends, > > Well, next Friday Connor gets the g-tube. Today it just dawned on > me that I have a lot of specific questions that I hope you all will > respond to in the next few days. I have to admit that in the past I > always skipped the posts that dealt with g-tubes, pyroplasty surgery > and the nissen fundoplication. Connor was an " eater " and we didn't > have to learn that. Well, now, I have to play catch up. > > So, in the Spirit of Letterman (Drum Roll Please!!!), Here are > my Top 10 Questions on how to rearrange your family's life around a > g-tube fed child. > > 1. Connor is a belly sleeper. Will he have to change this for the g- > tube to work properly? Will I have to manipulate his crib in any way > to assist the feed? I DON'T HAVE A LOT OF TIME TO REPLY SO PLEASE FORGIVE THE BREVITY OF MY ANSWERS. CHANGING THE CRIB WAS NOT NECESSARY FOR US, THEY FIND THEIR OWN COMFORT POSITION. WHEN I WATCH GRANT ROLL IN HIS SLEEP HE WILL REACH DOWN AND GRAB HIS TUBE WHILE HE ROLLS SO IT DOESN'T PULL – THESE KIDS ADAPT FAST. > > 2. How long does it usually take for the surgery site to heal? ABOUT A WEEK, I CANT REMEMBER THE TYPE OF TUBE YOU GET RIGHT AWAY BUT IT HAS A TUBE ATTACHED TO IT PERMINATLY, AFTER A MONTH OR SO THEY WILL REPLACE IT WITH A BUTTON WHICH OFFERS A LOT MORE FLEXABILITY. > 3. How do you handle infection at the site. BAD INFECTION=ORAL ANTIBIOTIC MINOR INFECTION=TOPICAL CREAM ANTIBITIC (BACTOBAN) > 4. How do you handle tissue granulation at the site? GRANT'S HAS ALWAYS BEEN BAD. THERE ARE STEROID CREAMS TO PUT ON TO REDUCE THE TISSUE, OTHERWISE YOU CAUTERIZE IT WITH A SILVER NITRATE STICK – AFTER USING A NUMBING CREAM, > 5. Is it Prevacid or Prilosec that you can get in a liquid form that > can be injected into the tube? PREVACID CAN BE FORMULATED BUT THEY HAVE THE SOLUTAB NOW, IF CONNER WOULD TAKE THAT IT'S EASY, FOMULATED PREVACID HAS TO BE REFRIGERATED. > 6. If the slow feeds overnight cause a lot of vomiting, would that > indicate that Connor needs a Pyroplasty or the NF procedure? THIS IS VERY COMPLICATED, IT COULD INDICATE THE NEED FOR CORRECTIVE SURGURY BUT ONLY THE SCANS CAN TELL FOR SURE. > 7. How will the feeds affect his oral feeding? We worked for 2 1/2 > long years to get Connor's mouth desensitized and get him to > lateralize and chew his food. Even though the malocclusion of his > jaw is prohibiting full digestion of his food, AT LEAST WE CAN GET > IT IN HIM! Is he going to lose this function due to a lack of > hunger? ONLY TIME WILL TELL, BEING AWARE THAT HE MAY IS REALLY PROBEBLY THE MOST IMPORTANT GUARD AGAINST IT. MOST ALL THE TUBE FED KIDS STILL EAT SO THE OPPORTUNITY TO WORK WITH HIM WILL REMAIN. WE HAVE GRANT CHEW GUM REGULARLY TO HELP MAINTAIN FUNCTION. > > 8. When do you get to take the tube out? What medical criteria > determines that your child is thriving enough without it? I'LL LET YOU KNOW IN THE FUTURE, OTHERS WILL HAVE TO FILL IN HERE. > 9. What do I tell my son? He's two and a half and very self aware. > In a few days he's going through a surgery that's going to change > his life for the better (we hope). What do I tell him? ???????????? PRAY FOR WISDOM ??????????????? > 10. As many of you know, Connor lives life at full throtle! He's > all " boy. " I remember a post from Judith about her son popping out > the tube while playing at leaping lizards. Besides not sliding on > your belly, what other things should Connor be careful of. (I.E. > The playgroud, wrestling with Daddy and brothers, karate, > gymnastics, etc, etc, etc.) I don't want to put my son in a bubble, > but I know that I don't want to deal with a popped out g-tube > either. You know the ole' saying, " An ounce of prevention... " GRANT IS JUST THE SAME, WE HAVE HAD A FEW MINI " HEAT ATTCAKS " WATCHING HIM IN SOME OF HIS ACTIVITIES. ONCE HE HAS A BUTTON PLACED IT IS A LOT EASIER. WE DRESSED GRANT IN COVERALLS FROM 2-3 YEARS OF AGE, THEY PROTECT THE ABDOMEN WELL. I AM CONVINCED THE REASON GRANT HAS A LOT OF GRANULATION TISSUE ISSUES IS FROM HIS CONSTANT MOTION. > So, that's all for now. I'm sure as I obsess about this for the > rest of the day, I'll probably come up with at least another twenty > questions. I would like to thank Maloy in Norfolk and Alison in > andria for helping me thus far. Your calmness has been greatly > appreciated (grin). > > Hugs to All! > > > Mom to Graham 8 ADD; Cameron 5; Connor 2 IUGR RSS Kyphosis, > Asymmetry, Periactin, Prevacid, Zantac Nutropin in two weeks; g- tube > in 6 days. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 19, 2005 Report Share Posted February 19, 2005 Hi , Here are some answers for you. Hope this helps. Best of luck with the surgery next week. > 1. Connor is a belly sleeper. Will he have to change this for the g- > tube to work properly? Will I have to manipulate his crib in any way > to assist the feed? COLIN SLEEPS ON HIS BACK, I DO THINK IT WOULD BE DIFFICULT TO SLEEP ON YOUR TUMMY WITH THE MICKEY BUTTON. HE WILL PROBABLY MAKE THIS CHANGE NATURALLY AS HIS TUMMY WILL BE SENSITIVE FOR AWHILE AFTER SURGERY. COLIN IS IN A TWIN BED AND WE HAVE THE PUMP ATTACHED TO THE WALL IN THE MIDDLE OF THE BED WITH A HOOK FOR THE BAG OF FORMULA. THIS WORKS REALLY WELL FOR US. WE HAD AN IV POLE WHEN HE WAS IN A CRIB. > > 2. How long does it usually take for the surgery site to heal? COLIN'S SURGERY WAS AT AGE 7 MO. AND HE HEALED VERY QUICKLY. THEY ONLY GAVE HIM TYLENOL FOR PAIN ONCE HE WAS OUT OF THE HOSPITAL AND HE DID VERY WELL. > > 3. How do you handle infection at the site. WE HAVEN'T HAD THIS PROBLEM > > 4. How do you handle tissue granulation at the site? NOT AN ISSUE > > 5. Is it Prevacid or Prilosec that you can get in a liquid form that > can be injected into the tube? WE USED TO USE PRILOSEC MADE INTO A LIQUID SUSPENSION BUT RECENTLY CHANGED TO PREVACID SOLUTABS. I DISSOLVE THESE IN WATER AND GIVE THROUGH THE TUBE WITH HIS PERIACTIN. > > 6. If the slow feeds overnight cause a lot of vomiting, would that > indicate that Connor needs a Pyroplasty or the NF procedure? COLIN ONLY VOMITED AT NIGHT WHEN HE WAS SICK WITH A COUGH. HIS PUMP IS SET AT 70ML PER HOUR DURING THE NIGHT AND HE TOLERATES IT FINE. HE HAS NOT HAD A PYLOROPLASTY. > > 7. How will the feeds affect his oral feeding? We worked for 2 1/2 > long years to get Connor's mouth desensitized and get him to > lateralize and chew his food. Even though the malocclusion of his > jaw is prohibiting full digestion of his food, AT LEAST WE CAN GET > IT IN HIM! Is he going to lose this function due to a lack of > hunger? WELL WE HAVE GONE THE OPPOSITE ROUTE STARTING WITH THE TUBE AND GOING TO ORAL FEEDS. NOW COLIN EATS DURING THE DAY WITH ONE BOLUS AFTER LUNCH AND THE REST COMES AT NIGHT. HIS PUMP RUNS FROM 8PM TO 4AM AND IT ALLOWS HIM ENOUGH TIME TO GET HUNGRY FOR BREAKFAST. THOUGH IT ISN'T HIS BEST MEAL OF THE DAY. USUALLY HE IS FED THROUGH THE TUBE AFTER A MEAL SO IT DOESN'T INTERFERE WITH HUNGER AT THE NEXT MEAL. I WOULD THINK SINCE CONNOR EATS NOW THAT HE WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO. > > 8. When do you get to take the tube out? What medical criteria > determines that your child is thriving enough without it? WHEN HE IS ABLE TO GAIN WEIGHT WITHOUT USING THE TUBE FOR 6 MONTHS. I FORSEE THIS HAPPENING AROUND AGE 7???? HE IS 4 NOW AND WE STILL HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO. I AM NOT IN A HURRY TO GET RID OF IT BECAUSE IT MAKES OUR LIVES SO MUCH EASIER NOT HAVING TO STRESS OVER HOW MUCH HE EATS AT EACH MEAL. > > 9. What do I tell my son? He's two and a half and very self aware. > In a few days he's going through a surgery that's going to change > his life for the better (we hope). What do I tell him? THIS IS TOUGH. HOPEFULLY SOME OTHERS CAN OFFER ANSWERS FOR YOU. JUDITH'S SON GOT HIS TUBE AROUND THE SAME AGE AND MAYBE SHE WILL RESPOND. > > 10. As many of you know, Connor lives life at full throtle! He's > all " boy. " I remember a post from Judith about her son popping out > the tube while playing at leaping lizards. Besides not sliding on > your belly, what other things should Connor be careful of. (I.E. > The playgroud, wrestling with Daddy and brothers, karate, > gymnastics, etc, etc, etc.) I don't want to put my son in a bubble, > but I know that I don't want to deal with a popped out g-tube > either. You know the ole' saying, " An ounce of prevention... " COLIN IS A VERY ACTIVE GUY TOO AND WE HAVE HAD NO LIMITATIONS FOR COLIN WITH THE BUTTON. HE DOES EVERYTHING THAT HIS TWIN SISTER DOES. AND KNOCK ON WOOD, WE'VE NEVER HAD A BUTTON BREAK AND HE HAS HAD IT FOR ALMOST 4 YEARS. THE ONLY THING HE CAN'T DO IS THE SLIP AND SLIDE ON HIS TUMMY, BUT HE FIGURED OUT TO DO IT ON HIS KNEES. Colin (RSS, gtube) and Hayden - 4 year 2 mo. twins Grant - 13.5 mo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2005 Report Share Posted February 20, 2005 Dear I'll try and answer the questions that I can add too rather than go over the same suggestions. Charlie had a Gtube placed at 14mths (6 months ago. He has had a couple of bouts of granulation tissue, the first just after surgery, the second when his button came out and had to be replaced in day surgery and occasionally if it leaks a bit, granulation tissue will build up. The BEST thing we have found is copper sulphate crystals (rub or hold for a few seconds on granulation tissue and it won't harm other skin around it). Tim is a high school tissue and he can get this really easily in the science lab, so you could try schools or chemists. We also used mylanta mixed as a powder to alleviate acid build up after surgery. Charlie has had no infection and the site looks great 99% of the time. The only time Charlie's button has " popped out " was when he had a very bad cough and coughed constantly all night, this decreased the water in the balloon and the button came out. If he has a cough we always check the amount of water in the balloon before he goes to bed. Charlie has been much more resiliant to illness and more energetic and happy since he has been getting more calories via the g tube. Hope it all goes really well - Alison in Sydney ( 3yrs, Charlie 20mths RSS G Tube Zantac just about to start GH) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2005 Report Share Posted February 20, 2005 , It looks like you've gotten a lot of responses. I'll try to add my 2 cents without being too repetitive. > 1. Connor is a belly sleeper. Will he have to change this for the g- > tube to work properly? Will I have to manipulate his crib in any way > to assist the feed? MY SON SLEEPS IN THE MOST AWKWARD POSITIONS. HE SLEEPS ON HIS BELLY A LOT, AND IT DOESN'T INTERFERE WITH HIS TUBE FEEDING, EXCEPT CAUSING THE PUMP TO ALARM OCCASIONALLY DUE TO THE TUBING BEING KINKED. > > 2. How long does it usually take for the surgery site to heal? IT HAS BEEN A LONG TIME FOR US (ALMOST 11 YEARS AGO), BUT I AGREE WITH EVERYONE ELSE'S RESPONSES - ABOUT A WEEK. > > 3. How do you handle infection at the site. THIS ISN'T TOO COMMON, BELIEVE IT OR NOT. MATTHEW MAY HAVE HAD 1 INFECTION IN 11 YEARS, BUT I DON'T REMEMBER WHAT WE DID FOR IT. > > 4. How do you handle tissue granulation at the site? WE HAVEN'T DEALT WITH THIS FOR AWHILE, BUT WHEN WE DID, WE USED SILVADENE CREAM (THIS IS REALLY A PRESCRIPTION BURN CREAM, BUT IT DID THE TRICK). THERE IS ALSO SOMETHING CALLED STOMAHESIVE POWDER, WHICH I THINK YOU CAN GET AT A MEDICAL SUPPLY STORE OR SPECIALIZED PHARMACY. > > 5. Is it Prevacid or Prilosec that you can get in a liquid form that > can be injected into the tube? I DON'T KNOW THE ANSWER TO THIS, AS MATTHEW TAKES THIS BY MOUTH. IS CONNOR TAKING THIS TYPE OF MED NOW? IF SO, WHY NOT CONTINUE GIVING IT TO HIM THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN? > > 6. If the slow feeds overnight cause a lot of vomiting, would that > indicate that Connor needs a Pyroplasty or the NF procedure? MATTHEW HAD THE FUNDO DONE AT THE SAME TIME AS HIS G-TUBE SURGERY. I WAS TOLD THAT IF YOU WERE PUTTING A G-TUBE IN THAT YOU ALSO HAD TO DO THE FUNDO. I KNOW NOW THAT THIS IS NOT ALWAYS THE CASE. I NEVER EVEN HEARD OF A PYLORPLASTY UNTIL JOINING THIS LISTSERVE & ATTENDING THE CONVENTIONS. MY FEELING IS THAT IF YOU AND THE DOCTOR FELT THERE WAS A NEED FOR EITHER OF THESE PROCEDURES, YOU SHOULD DO THEM AT THE SAME TIME AS THE G-TUBE INSERTION TO AVOID ANOTHER SURGERY. > > 7. How will the feeds affect his oral feeding? We worked for 2 1/2 > long years to get Connor's mouth desensitized and get him to > lateralize and chew his food. Even though the malocclusion of his > jaw is prohibiting full digestion of his food, AT LEAST WE CAN GET > IT IN HIM! Is he going to lose this function due to a lack of > hunger? THIS WILL DEPEND ON THE SCHEDULE HE IS ON. WILL HE USE THE TUBE ONLY AT NIGHT OR WILL IT BE CONTINUOUS THROUGHOUT THE DAY TOO? MY SON NEVER WAS AN ORAL EATER, BUT AFTER YEARS OF INTENSIVE THERAPY & ATTENDANCE AT A FEEDING PROGRAM, HE HAS THE ABILITY TO EAT BY MOUTH NOW. HE DOESN'T PREFER THIS THOUGH & STILL GETS PROBABLY 95% OR MORE OF HIS CALORIES VIA G-TUBE. HE RECENTLY WENT ON CONTINUOUS FEEDS DURING THE DAY, BUT WE STOP THE PUMP FOR 2 HOURS DURING LUNCHTIME AND THEN HE IS OFF FOR 4 HOURS FROM DINNERTIME TO BEDTIME. MATTHEW RARELY IS HUNGRY, & THIS WAS TRUE EVEN WHEN HE WAS ONLY ON CONTINUOUS FEEDS AT NIGHT. FOR CONNOR THOUGH, I THINK IF YOU COULD ESTABLISH A SCHEDULE THAT WOULD ALLOW HIM TO CONTINUE EATING MEALS & SNACKS, YOU WILL HAVE A NICE BALANCE. > 8. When do you get to take the tube out? What medical criteria > determines that your child is thriving enough without it? UNFORTUNATELY FOR US, WE ARE A LONG WAY FROM THIS. I THINK THE CRITERIA IS 6 MONTHS OF NO USE OF THE G-TUBE WITH CONTINOUS WEIGHT GAIN. > 9. What do I tell my son? He's two and a half and very self aware. > In a few days he's going through a surgery that's going to change > his life for the better (we hope). What do I tell him? TOUGH QUESTION - I DIDN'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS. I WILL TELL YOU THOUGH MATTHEW IS VERY CONCERNED WITH HOW HE PRESENTS TO OTHERS, BUT HIS G-TUBE HAS NEVER BEEN IN ISSUE WHEN IT COMES TO MAKING FRIENDS OR BEING MADE FUN OF, ETC. I AM SO THANKFUL FOR THAT! > 10. As many of you know, Connor lives life at full throtle! He's > all " boy. " IN THE BEGINNING, HE MAY NEED TO BE MORE CAREFUL UNTIL HE IS ABLE TO GET A BUTTON. AFTER THAT, HE REALLY SHOULD BE ABLE TO DO MOST OF WHAT HE HAS ALWAYS DONE. MATTHEW IS VERY ACTIVE. HE ROLLER BLADES & SKATE BOARDS WITH HIS FEEDING PUMP. WE TRIED KARATE WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER, BUT HE DIDN'T LIKE IT TOO MUCH. HE BELLY FLOPS INTO THE POOL. THERE REALLY AREN'T TOO MANY LIMITATIONS FOR HIM HAVING A G-TUBE. I WOULD RECOMMEND THAT CONNOR GET THE ZEVEX ENTERALITE PUMP IF HE WILL BE WEARING IT DURING THE DAY. IT IS LIGHTWEIGHT & IS CARRIED IN A SMALL BACKPACK THAT HAS THE WEIGHT EQUALLY DISTRIBUTED ON THE SHOULDERS/BACK. SINCE CONNOR HAS KYPHOSIS LIKE MATTHEW (MATTHEW ALSO WEARS A BACK BRACE), THIS WOULD BE PREFERRED OVER THAN KANGAROO PET, WHICH IS HEAVIER & IS CARRIED IN A SHOULDER BAG (THIS BAG WOULD BE TOO BIG FOR CONNOR ANYWAY). WE HAD THE KANGAROO PUMP FOR OVER 10 YEARS AND JUST SWITCHED TO THE ZEVEX LAST MONTH WHEN HE WENT BACK ON CONTINUOUS FEEDS DURING THE DAY. THE KANGAROO PET WAS FINE FOR USE AT NIGHT, BUT I COULD NOT USE THIS FOR DAYTIME FEEDS FOR HIM. I HAD A LOT OF TROUBLE GETTING THE ZEVEX. OUR DME COMPANY & INSURANCE COMPANY DOES NOT PROVIDE " BRAND SPECIFIC " PUMPS. WE NEEDED A LETTER FROM DR. H JUSTIFYING WHY HE NEEDED THIS PUMP ALONG WITH HIS MEDICAL RECORDS & THEN HAD TO WAIT FOR IT TO GO THROUGH THE MEDICAL REVIEW BOARD. THIS PUMP PROBABLY COSTS 2-3 TIMES THE COST OF THE KANGAROO PET. THE BIGGEST REASON WE WERE ABLE TO GET THIS PUMP APPROVED WAS BECAUSE OF MATTHEW'S KYPHOSIS/SCOLIOSIS. I WISH YOU & CONNOR LOTS OF LUCK & FEEL FREE TO THROW MORE QUESTIONS OUR WAY AS THEY ARISE! KIM C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2005 Report Share Posted February 20, 2005 , Thanks for sharing this wonderful website. There is a lot of relevant information on here. Of particular interest to me was under kids with tubes news. If you click there, you get a choice of a few topics. Click on the nutrition for the tube-fed child link. I found answers to a lot of questions I had there, such as the # of calories/kilo a child needs to grow ( Pat, wasn't this a question we were just discussing?) & how to calculate the amount of fluid a child needs at various weights (good to know when your child is dehydrated). It also tells you the amount of vitamins & minerals recommended by the RDA and things you can add to foods to increase calories. Of recent debate, the food pyramid is there & a bit of info about good fasts vs. bad fats. Information comparing various types of formula & how to choose the right formula is discussed as well as a recipe for blended tube feeding formula. The link for therapies is also good too. Just wanted to give a quick summary in case anyone missed this. Jenn, there is a lot of info in here that would be good for the RSS guidebook. Check out the web site http://www.kidswithtubes.org/ Kim C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2005 Report Share Posted February 21, 2005 HI MARY, BEST OF LUCK TO YOU, CONNOR AND YOUR FAMILY THIS WEEK. ALL I CAN SAY IS THE G-TUBE HAS BEEN A MIRACLE FOR HENRY. I PUT SOME THOUGHTS IN CAPS NEXT TO YOUR QUESTIONS. DENISE HENRY 4 1/2 YRS RSS, GTUBE, FUNDO,PYLORO,NUTROPIN,PRILOSEC,ZANTAC,PERIACTIN CATHERINE 9YRS NONRSS Dear Friends, Well, next Friday Connor gets the g-tube. Today it just dawned on me that I have a lot of specific questions that I hope you all will respond to in the next few days. I have to admit that in the past I always skipped the posts that dealt with g-tubes, pyroplasty surgery and the nissen fundoplication. Connor was an " eater " and we didn't have to learn that. Well, now, I have to play catch up. So, in the Spirit of Letterman (Drum Roll Please!!!), Here are my Top 10 Questions on how to rearrange your family's life around a g-tube fed child. 1. Connor is a belly sleeper. Will he have to change this for the g- tube to work properly? Will I have to manipulate his crib in any way to assist the feed? WE JUST LET HENRY GO - THEY SEEM TO FIGURE OUT WHAT WORKS BEST FOR THEMSELEVES 2. How long does it usually take for the surgery site to heal? HENRY HEALED VERY QUICKLY AFTER SURGERY BUT THE AMOUNT OF TIME HE WAS ON THE PUMP (ZEVEX IS THE BEST IF CONNOR IS GOING TO BE ON THE PUMP WHILE HE IS AWAKE)WAS WHAT WE STRUGGLED WITH. HENRY WAS ON FOR ABOUT 18HOURS A DAY WHICH IS A LARGER EFFORT THAN JUST AT NIGHT. I NEEDED TO MAKE SURE HENRY'S CAREGIVER WAS COMFORTABLE WITH THE WHOLE PROCESS. I ENDED UP TAKING MORE TIME FROM WORK THAN I THOUGHT AFTER SURGERY. IT TOOK SOME TIME GETTING THE ROUTINE DOWN 3. How do you handle infection at the site. WE NEVER HAD TO DEAL WITH INFECTION 4. How do you handle tissue granulation at the site? HENRY STILL HAS GRANULATION TISSUE AND DRAINAGE TWO YEARS LATER IF WE DON'T MANAGE THE SITUATION. I AVOID THE CORTIZONE IF THE SIGHT IS RAW (IT HURTS) BUT LATELY WE HAVE HAD FANTASTIC LUCK WITH CALMOSEPTINE CREAM. WE APPLY THE CREAM AFTER A BATH AND PLACE A NON-STICK PAD AROUND THE TUBE AND IT HAS KEPT THE DRAINAGE AND TISSUE LOOKING GREAT. 5. Is it Prevacid or Prilosec that you can get in a liquid form that can be injected into the tube? WE USE LIQUID PRILOSEC, THE PREVACID WAS CLOGGING UP THE TUBE. 6. If the slow feeds overnight cause a lot of vomiting, would that indicate that Connor needs a Pyroplasty or the NF procedure? DOES CONNOR HAVE DELAYED GASTRIC EMPTYING AND REFLUX? HENRY HAS DELAYED GASTRIC EMPTYING AND HIS RATE IS PRETTY LOW AT 40ML PER HOUR. I REALLY WONDER HOW EFFECTIVE HIS PYLORO WAS FOR HIM? I DON'T THINK HIS DGE HAS CHANGED THAT MUCH MUCH. HIS REFLUX HAS CERTAINLY IMPROVED AFTER THE FUNDO AND WITH MEDS, BUT THE DGE???? 7. How will the feeds affect his oral feeding? We worked for 2 1/2 long years to get Connor's mouth desensitized and get him to lateralize and chew his food. Even though the malocclusion of his jaw is prohibiting full digestion of his food, AT LEAST WE CAN GET IT IN HIM! Is he going to lose this function due to a lack of hunger? I HEAR YOU LOUD AND CLEAR ON THAT ONE. WE STOP THE PUMP 2HOURS BEFORE HE EATS BREAKFAST AT A MINIMUM, OTHERWISE HE HAS RESIDUAL AND HAS NO HUNGER FOR BREAKFAST 8. When do you get to take the tube out? What medical criteria determines that your child is thriving enough without it? I THINK THERE ARE MANY CRITERIA, WEIGHT GAIN, EATING FOR NUTRITION, BEING ABLE TO MANAGE SICKNESS WITHOUT SUPPLEMENTAL FEEDING. 9. What do I tell my son? He's two and a half and very self aware. In a few days he's going through a surgery that's going to change his life for the better (we hope). What do I tell him? WE CALL HENRY'S AMT MINI BUTTON(WE SWITCHED FROM A MIC-KEY BECAUSE THE TUBING IS BETTER ON THE AMT AND THERE AREN'T AS MANY TANGLES AT NIGHT WITH THE PUMP BEEPING DUE TO NO FLOW) A TUMMY BUTTON. EVERYONE HAS A BELLY BUTTON BUT HE IS SPECIAL AND NEEDS A TUMMY BUTTON TO HELP HIM GROW. IT WAS WONDERFUL THE FIRST TIME WE WENT TO A MAGIC CONVENTION AND THERE WAS A POOL FULL OF KIDS WITH TUMMY BUTTON'S JUST LIKE HENRY. HE WAS 2 1/2YRS. 10. As many of you know, Connor lives life at full throtle! He's all " boy. " I remember a post from Judith about her son popping out the tube while playing at leaping lizards. Besides not sliding on your belly, what other things should Connor be careful of. (I.E. The playgroud, wrestling with Daddy and brothers, karate, gymnastics, etc, etc, etc.) I don't want to put my son in a bubble, but I know that I don't want to deal with a popped out g-tube either. You know the ole' saying, " An ounce of prevention... " LITTLE BOYS MUST BE LITTLE BOYS, THE FIRST TIME IT POPS OUT YOU FREAK OUT THEN THE NEXT TIME IT'S OKAY WE ALL KNOW THE DRILL. HENRY TAKES GYMNASTICS AND KARATE, LOVES TO PLAY HARD (INCLUDING SLIDING ON HIS TUMMY) - KIDS ADAPT, THEY ARE WIRED FOR IT BETTER THAN US! So, that's all for now. I'm sure as I obsess about this for the rest of the day, I'll probably come up with at least another twenty questions. I would like to thank Maloy in Norfolk and Alison in andria for helping me thus far. Your calmness has been greatly appreciated (grin). Hugs to All! Mom to Graham 8 ADD; Cameron 5; Connor 2 IUGR RSS Kyphosis, Asymmetry, Periactin, Prevacid, Zantac Nutropin in two weeks; g-tube in 6 days. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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