Guest guest Posted November 7, 2001 Report Share Posted November 7, 2001 My husband is beside himself, because I am going into Manhattan. Dear , My husband would probably react that way too if I were going to NY instead of Eugene!! He hates big cities, and of course NY seems even more fearful these days. But I'll bet that really his stress about going to NY is more a way to express his fears that YOU are going to have a surgery and he probably is very afraid of losing you, or having a bad complication and he doesn't know how to express it in any other way. Maybe you could get him to tell you his biggest worries about going to NY are and you could have a think tank/negotiating time together where you can figure out ways to do what YOU need to do that HE will feel more comfortable with. Kathy sen BMI 58, 352.5 lbs Surgery scheduled Nov 19th Dr. Welker {{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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