Guest guest Posted October 5, 2000 Report Share Posted October 5, 2000 Congratulations on your date ..............maybe that won't be the only date you'll be having!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Love your humor. Its good medicine. Debbie In Colorado Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2000 Report Share Posted October 7, 2000 Your ceremony idea is great. When I started to think about it, I realized how much of life I watch instead of live. Many times I don't go or do what I want to because of being so self concious. My list will be long....I may start now. Burning the paper is a wonderful symbol that old things have passed away and all things have become new! Gods best to you on your dancing day. Most Sincerely, Debbie Lawson, 234/40bmi pre-op Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2000 Report Share Posted October 7, 2000 Thanks Debbie, I actually took the idea of a having some kind of ceremony the night before surgery from another pre-op. She burnt old fat clothes. But when I started thinking, like you, about how much my life has been affected by my weight I decided I needed to focus on that. Sooooo....here we go through the looking glass. I'm planning on leaving the old behind and creating a new one, with some help from Dr. R!! Dancing in 5 days!!! MGB 40 > Your ceremony idea is great. When I started to think about it, I realized > how much of life I watch instead of live. Many times I don't go or do what I > want to because of being so self concious. My list will be long....I may > start now. Burning the paper is a wonderful symbol that old things have > passed away and all things have become new! Gods best to you on your dancing > day. > Most Sincerely, > Debbie Lawson, > 234/40bmi > pre-op Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 8, 2001 Report Share Posted October 8, 2001 , Thanks for sharing that with us. It made me feel so wonderful inside when I read your results. What an inspiration you are to me, and I'm sure to many others on this list!!! Thanks for giving us yet another reason to keep the faith!! Hugs, Pam in MD BPD/DS - July 9, 2001 Dr. Vanguri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 Thats wonderful Tammy, sometimes just taking positive steps forward can alleviate so much of the frustration thats comes with this condition. Make sure they send it to Rob Hawes MD. He's Dr. Cotton's right hand man and a really nice guy. Let me know when they send it and I will send a little note to Hawes to keep his eyes open. You hit that right on the head with the elusive nature of this condition. Sometimes I can eat toast and sometimes I cant. I have not been doing very well at all. I believe my peg tube is infected and my son has gratiously given me his bad cold. So pile all that on top of the other joys; I am a real mess today. Hopefully it will be short lived. Good luck with the doc tomorrow. Sometimes I would take notes with me to make sure I dont forget anything. Last time I saw my doc I forgot a lot of what I wanted to discuss, and I 'm a nurse, trained to know what to say to a doc; must be the affect of all the drugs!..lol I'm glad your coming to MUSC, it really bothered me that the doc up there had you all scoped and didn't do manometry. That just does not make one bit of sense to me. Let me know how it goes. Warmly, > OK. I made the appointment to see my family doc tomorrow. I'll talk > to him about faxing my stuff to MUSC and also about getting my > triglycerides checked. I also have to get something for the pain. He > gave me davocet and it isn't even touching it. The pain is so > elusive. On Sunday, I had very little pain, and now today it is > pretty severe. Hope you're doing well today. Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2004 Report Share Posted April 7, 2004 Glad your pain meds are working. I too itch like crazy when I'm on pain meds...nurses laugh when I come into the hospital with my back scratcher..and it doesn't get a chance to leave my hand *LOL*..I sleep with it in my hand resting on my belly *L* One nurse thought it strange that I said it was the pain meds itching (dilaudid) yet it is in the Morphine range, and I remember seeing my sister react to Morphine after her surgery and she was scratching the daylights out of her skin. She didn't realise it, but they had to put hospital mittens on her the scratching was so bad. A researcher came into the room whilst I was there and woke her up to do some tests. They were resulting the differences between Morphine and Pethadine. It took my sister 18 minutes to connect 10 dots numbered from one to 10, and the itching, the falling to sleep and nausea. I was able to give her some insight to the symptoms of Pethadine because that was the pain medicine my surgeon had me on when I had the same surgery. It worked wonders for the pain, but everytime I pushed the button, I'd get violently sick with it..but that might have just been me. I still get nauseated with the Dilaudid, and only Phenergen seems to help control that. I hold Dr Lehman in high esteem when it comes to communication with his patients. I have only had 4 doctors willing to talk to me over the phone. He was one of them, Dr Cotton, and my now surgeon and another GI I used to see. It really makes a difference being able to talk or email them directly instead of having to go through their personal assistants or voicemails. When I had my stent or stents placed by Dr Lehman, the nurse who came to check on me when I was admitted as I had an attack immediately after, was kind enough to go and retrieve the information on what was done when I asked her. She came back and told me that I had extreme pressure around my pancreatic duct, it took Dr Lehman 2 hours to find the duct, he put in 2 stents and the whole procedure took 3 1/2 hours. Yet before I left, his partner came in to discharge me, as Dr Lehman had had to leave immediately after my procedure for a conference, and told me that the stent should pass within a week. I corrected him saying I had 2 stents placed, but he said no, Dr Lehman's nurse practitioner looked it up for me also and said I had two...no one stent sorry...and when I spoke directly with Dr Lehman, he was positive he only put in one stent. A week later I had a KUD xray because the attack started again, and was told that nothing was showing so it had passed through my system, but 18 months later after many more stents going in and out and all accounted for because each procedure they would remove one and then place another one a couple of weeks later, they found a stent dislodged further into my pancreas. It only makes sense to me now that perhaps I did have 2 stents placed, and they forgot about that one..hence it was helping to cause further attacks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2004 Report Share Posted April 7, 2004 Dear , You GO girl, AGAIN!! I'm so happy for you that you've gotten the response you wished for from Dr. Sutherland. And that you got your first plane ride. My husband is an airline pilot, , I could have told you how much fun it can be. The apple juice affair WASN'T fun, though, but what I might suggest is that you take some car sickness tablets for the next trip, just in case. There's also a patch that you can wear behind your ear, it's about the size of a dime, that lasts for three days and will stop any signs of travel sickness. I have to get them for my grandson Austin, who's 12. He LOVES to fly, but apparently the anxiety and excitement he gets about flying causes him to get sick, so our doctor prescribed those patches for him to use, and the work perfectly. You might ask your mom to talk to your doctor about them if you are going to be flying back out to Minnesota next month. No doubt that you'll be anxious and excited then, too! This would just make the trip more enjoyable for you if you didn't have to worry about what your stomach was doing. It does sound like the Callalily was a sign. I think it means that your grandmother is looking out for you, , isn't that special? Please keep us up to date with all your news and let us know what the official date is. Meanwhile, enjoy the rest of your trip and don't drink any more apple juice! With love, hope and prayers, Heidi Heidi H. Griffeth South Carolina SC & SE Regional Rep. PAI Note: All advice and comments are personal opinion only, and should not be substituted for professional medical consultation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2004 Report Share Posted April 8, 2004 Thanks Tammy. Thats a good question, I dont know. I think I need to resolve myself that I will never have back the life I once had. But can I go back to work, eat a cheeseburger and have sex with out pain, diahrrea, nausea and fatigue from malnutrition. I think I would be happy. I never realized how fatigued I was from the malnurishment untl I started the tube feedings and actually absorbed it. Oh yeah and I want the peg tube out and a tummy tuck too. Seriously, I am scared to death and hope to God I am not making another mistake. Once he cuts that panc there is no turning back. It will either work or wont. have you talked with your doc about going to MUSC yet. Have they sent your chart. Let me know now and I will send Hawes a note with a heads up for you. How have you been feeling? How is work going? I had a big rush of energy this morning, took a long walk with my dogs throwing the frisbee, then cleaned up the house, had the stereo cranked up and was dancing around, over did it a little and am feeling pretty damn sore, but it was fun, and felt good to work up a sweat. I even cooked a real nice dinner for the family. I think I will be laying down as soon as the kids dad gets home and let him serve, I'm quite achey. It was worth it; get my heart pumping. Take care Tammy and have a Blessed Easter, > , that's wonderful news. Are you pleased with the decision? > I hope everything works out and you can get your life back. Take > Care. Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2004 Report Share Posted April 25, 2004 Hey there..don't get worried about me Chrissy, I'm doing okay. Very sore but my pain meds are helping to cope with that. Yesterday the pain was on the left, but today my right side is agony..guess that's my fallopian tubes taking turns to see which one can hurt me the most. The doc gave me Lortab script for pain, but the Percocet helps with the pain more for me. I still have a few of them left over from my surgery in January. Was hoping to go without them today, but I can't get up from my chair without walking bent over so guess will have to try for tomorrow. I will be thinking of you tomorrow, and especially at 1pm. I shall say a little prayer for you right on the dot of 1. I know that you will sail through this surgery with flying colours. If it is okay with you, I shall find your room at the hospital and give you a call a few days after your op to check up on you *s* I'm going to look up reasons why my platelets might have dropped so low the other day. I woke up this morning and my nose had been bleeding, not bad, but the only time I've ever suffered a bleeding nose was when I fell and landed on it..that really hurt *L* I don't know if it has something to do with my platelets, or if they put a NG tube in during my ligation. Look ahead of this surgery to a time without pain and having some semblance of normalcy be returned to you. I wish nothing but the best outcome for you, as that is what I wish for all of my friends... Take care, and warmest wishes to you....and if you want to recover in a mountain retreat with someone else to wait on you hand and foot, you can spend some time at my place *L* . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2004 Report Share Posted April 25, 2004 Wow a Mountain Resort, I can handle that!! Can I have the big good lookin Massuse named Swven...lol and hot tub at 3 sharp. They would not have needed to used an ng tube in the or unless you started to regergitate anything from your stomach. Fairly good change that didn't happen since you went home. They probably had oxgen via a nasal cannula and they can blow a steady stream right in the nose and can irritate those tiny cappillaries, they dry out and pop. Sounds more likely, especially if it is just a little blood. You can call me at the room later in the week if you like. Thanks for the thoughts, Strange, I still dont feel so good about this, dont know why. Just scared I guess. Love, Chrissy > Hey there..don't get worried about me Chrissy, I'm doing okay. Very > sore but my pain meds are helping to cope with that. Yesterday the > pain was on the left, but today my right side is agony..guess that's > my fallopian tubes taking turns to see which one can hurt me the > most. The doc gave me Lortab script for pain, but the Percocet helps > with the pain more for me. I still have a few of them left over from > my surgery in January. Was hoping to go without them today, but I > can't get up from my chair without walking bent over so guess will > have to try for tomorrow. > > I will be thinking of you tomorrow, and especially at 1pm. I shall > say a little prayer for you right on the dot of 1. I know that you > will sail through this surgery with flying colours. If it is okay > with you, I shall find your room at the hospital and give you a call > a few days after your op to check up on you *s* > > I'm going to look up reasons why my platelets might have dropped so > low the other day. I woke up this morning and my nose had been > bleeding, not bad, but the only time I've ever suffered a bleeding > nose was when I fell and landed on it..that really hurt *L* I don't > know if it has something to do with my platelets, or if they put a > NG tube in during my ligation. > > Look ahead of this surgery to a time without pain and having some > semblance of normalcy be returned to you. I wish nothing but the > best outcome for you, as that is what I wish for all of my friends... > > Take care, and warmest wishes to you....and if you want to recover > in a mountain retreat with someone else to wait on you hand and > foot, you can spend some time at my place *L* > > . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2004 Report Share Posted May 17, 2004 Thanks Tammy but doesn't the chicken broth bother your stomach? I know it would mine...even the smallest intake of anything remotely related to " meat " causes big time problems. He**, lately, anything remotely related to anything other than bread products causes problems as in my " experiment failed " email of last night. I had a Weight Watchers Smart Ones frozen italian dinner consisting of only angel hair pasta, some tomato sauce and zucchini and mushrooms. Yep, in exactly the timeframe it takes (20-40 mins) I was in agony. This is horrible......thanks I s'pose I could try rice anyway. > Hey . I saw your post on your eating difficulties. You may want > to make a little rice substituting the water with chicken broth. Rice > is real easy to digest. Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2004 Report Share Posted May 19, 2004 Hmmmm....that's interesting, I hope I get a better result than that. They're still hemming and hawing in my opinion.....we told the doc today that I'm losing pay, etc., not to mention that I'm in daily pain and he basically says come see me next week......however, he did mention ERCP and possibly ERCP/w/manometry to my husband. So, if that's the case (I wasn't present, and hubby THINKS that what he said) then at least it sounds like he's headed in the right direction.....ERCP w/manometry is for Sphincter of Oddi dysfunction I think...and I bet (if I was a betting woman that is!) that that is what my problem is. thanks again > I took Levbid last fall for about a month. It knocked me for loop. > It's part valium, part anti-spasmodic. It made calm as heck, but > didn't help with anything else. Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 8, 2004 Report Share Posted July 8, 2004 Hi , I saw you were asking for info about TP/ICT. I had a TP - but not ICT back in August, 2000 at The Royal Liverpool Hospital, UK. I had 48 hours in the ICU and a few days in the HDU. I spent a total of 5 weeks in hospital, but, as well as recovering from the surgery i had to learn to manage my diabetes. It isn't really possible to say how long you would be in hospital, as it depends on the exact procedure you have, and how you progress. I went back to work 15 weeks after my surgery. I work 30 hours / week as a qualified nurse, caring for sick children, and i work shifts, inclduing nights. Since having the surgery, my quality of life is much improved, and i am really glad that i had it done. Even with the diabetes, that is still preferable to coping with the pain of CP. If i can help with any more info, please contact me. Good luck with your decision. I would recommend obtaining as much info as you can to help you decide if the surgery is right for you. Take care. Sue (UK) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2004 Report Share Posted July 21, 2004 , The last I knew, Keri's email address was: jandcsmomma@.... I don't have a telephone #. I hope you can still reach her at that address. She was doing fine after her TP/ICT and too busy living life to the fullest last we heard, and that, of course, was wonderful news to hear. If you do get in touch with her, please send her my love and tell her we all miss her. , I hope that you're doing the same as Keri..... With love, hope and prayers, Heidi Heidi H. Griffeth South Carolina SC & SE Regional Rep. PAI Note: All advice or comments are based on personal experience or opinion, and should not be substituted for consultation with a medical professional. > Can anyone give me Keri Becks email or phone number. We need to get ahold of her. If so that would be great. If you could email me directly with it please. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 15, 2005 Report Share Posted May 15, 2005 Oh, do I ever understand what you mean about the questions about age and size. I've lived it for almost 17 years now - and am still going through it. As you've probably read, Max is now 5'3 " and you would think the questions and comments would end, but they don't. Even my own students commented on his size - and they are in grades 1-3! I took Max to school with me one day and they could not believe he was 16 (will be 17 on July 2). They insisted he was 10. Max took it all in stride. I just told them that he was lucky to look young for his age, that he would appreciate it when he is old like I am. They laughed. When Max was younger and could not speak up for himself, I would just tell people that he had a growth disorder called RSS. Often that led to other questions, but I would just try to keep it to the fact that he has trouble growing. I hate nosy people. Off topic, I have never been to Hilton Head, but we vacation every summer in Ocean Isle Beach, NC, almost on the SC border and we always drive down to ton. My husband used to live there and we are in love with that city. I hope to make it to HH someday. It's a trip my husband and I will take when our kids are on their own. Jodi Z Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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