A MO man's view of intimacy.

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For my fiancee and I intimacy was never an issue. Even with all the

extra poundage I carried and still carry we have an active and

intimate life. There were times when I couldn't deliver and there

were times when the love making was less than fair. We discussed this

at great length and we realized that intimacy includes many things

holding, cuddling, talking about our future lives together and

listening to each others past loves and lost hopes. I am not saying a

healthy and motivated sex life isn't important blieve me I cannot

wait to totally satisfy not just orally. God knows she deserves

it she has been a saint through the last 3 yrs.

For my DS sister let it go take his hand for as long as it's extended

and if he takes his hand away you have still beat the first of your

intimate fears. We look at this trip as a marathon not a sprint. For

the lady that started this thread I see you mentioned sleep apnea. Do

you use a CPAP?

old me right before my surgery if things go wrong and you need

100% care remember intimacy is between the ears. I will love you

always.

After a first marriage of 18 yrs which the last 5 were totally love

less I am truly blessed. I am 42 yrs. old and have met the love of my

life we talked last night and we were tossing around what makes this

thing of ours work. We came to the conclusion we both accept that we

are not perfect.

Be good,

7/24/01

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