alcohol related pancreatitis....

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my husband was recently diagnosed with what the doctors think is

alcohol related pancreatitis...he partied a little too much in

college and beyond. He has since stopped drinking altogether and has

been sober for about 7 months. I'm so proud of him that he's been

able to get this far. He understands that he can't drink for health

reasons and hasn't had an episode of pancreatitis since he stopped

drinking.

He is doing really well, but having a hard time coping with the

reality that he can no longer drink. He feels like he's been cheated

and he isn't the same fun person he used to be. It seems like he's

almost lost his identity, he's not sure who he is without alcohol. I

am trying the best that I can, but I'm not sure what to do for him.

I've suggested AA or a therapist, but he doesn't want to go. He's the

type to handle things on his own. I think he might be depressed, but

I'm not sure. I just wanted to see if any of you who have alcohol

related pancreatitis can relate to this and have any advice. I'm at a

loss for what I can do or suggest he do at this point. Any

suggestions will be welcomed.

thanks, -L