Wendi

[Guest guest]

Wendi,

Maybe when you quit " trying " it will happen. Seems like that's the

way it goes. One of my aunts tried for 13 years with no success.

They finally decided that they were getting too old and they quit

trying. Within the next two years they had three babies (twin boys

and a girl).

Gale

> After my daughter's diagnosis my husband and I thought long and

hard

> about whether to have more children. We both always wanted 3

kids.

> After a year of soul searching, and weighing all the options, we

> decided that Peyton has been such a blessing that we definately

> wanted more children. We have learned so much from her. I'm not

> trying to start a debate about whether parents of children with CF,

> should continue to have children. We have decided we want more.

But

> this is where the problem comes in. We have been trying for almost

2

> years now. We had a miscarriage last November, and have had no

luck

> conceiving since then. I am to the point where it has become such

an

> emotional toll on me I no longer want to continue trying. Every

> month I get my hopes up and then I am crushed when I find out I am

> not pregnant. Then I start saying " next month it will happen " ,

which

> only gets my hopes up that much more, only to be dissappointed

> again. Maybe it's not meant to be?? We have discussed In vitro and

> adoption, but as this time, due to money it is not an option. I'm

> not really looking to the group for answers, as I know there is not

> much that can be done. I guess I just need to vent. Thanks for

> listening!