Guest guest Posted October 3, 2000 Report Share Posted October 3, 2000 Thanks Rhonda and Tricia for the insurance insight! I appreciate your fast responses. Deb in NC --------------------------------------------------- Get your free web based email from Crosswalk.com: http://mail.crosswalk.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 4, 2000 Report Share Posted October 4, 2000 Trudy, I do understand what you feel is a one sided view of 's experience. But they are her experiences and they are real to her. I don't think being nasty and calling her names because of it is something that this board or any other needs to focus on. Take me for example.... I come to this board and others to get helpful information. If I feel that the message being posted has no value for me...I move on. However, I don't respond to someone's email to me on a public board and then decide they need to be called names. If I have something to say to you that is between you and I, I will take it to email and leave it there. wrote a personal email and it should have been responded to in the same manner. I choose not to judge or name call, because where is sitting any of us could have been sitting there, wanting to get revenge, and hurting because of what we feel is an injustice. Who am I to judge how she does that. You commented that you did not know her personal; haven't talked with her. Then why would you think it is your right to judge her behavior. How many times have we all been judged because of our weight? How many times have people named called because they thought you were lazy; how many times have you seen something that no one else has seen and you wish you knew how to make others see it? Your comment about her scaring people...Well, let's just say, if major surgery and it's complications don't scare you, then neither should . She is talking about the complications. Why is that scarry? Bottom line is this...I don't care who is fighting with ...if she took it to email...so should U! Jai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 4, 2000 Report Share Posted October 4, 2000 Sorry...that response was directed to Alan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 4, 2000 Report Share Posted October 4, 2000 essage: 14 Date: Tue, 3 Oct 2000 21:55:35 -0500 Subject: Re: In response to Jai... Sheeish.... le " you go girl!! " Trudy, Indiana In response to Jai... In a message dated 10/3/00 6:47:16 PM Central Daylight Time, MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com writes: << Was this necessary to bring to the list. What are you trying to prove? That you can tell off? This did not need to be forwarded to this list. Somehow I know my response will not get through. But it is ok. I am not one of 's militia's either, however, it is not necessary to call her names to tell her not to write to you. Have you all lost so much judgement that name calling is the only way to talk to one another. has a different opinion. Unlike the people here on this list. I for one don't agree with her however, I will not stoop to the level of name calling and bashing her because her opinion differs from mine. A nice " thank you, but I have made my own decision " would have sufficed. Or is that too mature? >> Jai No one has to sit idly by and allow someone to insult their intelligence. " No one is asking you or telling any one to sit idle while their intelligence is being insulted! Take it to email where it orginated! " <You say there was another way to handle this...perhaps so...but it's NOT the ONLY way. This list is not being moderated any more so, ALL posts go through. You have already been affected by the propaganda, and believe this list is censored. It is NOT. > It was being moderated and I know it for a fact. Please don't unsult my intelligence by saying it was not! <The " spawn of Satan " > And what name did she call you le???? is singling out ALL new approvals and others that she feels are weak to bombard with unsolicited email. Not only is this harassment...but it is criminal. So, don't malign or berate those who attempt to stand up for themselves.> I never malign or berated anyone. Stand up for yourself. Shout it to the hills! She took it to email and that's where it should have stayed! < " evil incarnate " > Again, what names is she calling you le? < Your sarcastic response wasn't so positive or sensitive.> If my tone was sarcastic I do apologize. It was not meant to be...only to show once again, this does not need to be dealt with here. did not bring it here and it should have been left off this board. <BUT, WHAT SHE IS NOT FREE TO DO IS IMPOSE HER WARPED VIEWS ON OTHERS! Some other place, maybe...but NOT HERE. So she and her followers can take that BULL $* (rhymes with HIT) SOMEWHERE else.> So in essence what you are saying is that free speech is not something you will tolerate here? LOL She didn't bring it here! Someone else did! LOL And as far as she and her followers are concern...I am not sure who you are referring to, but I don't follow anyone. I make up my own mine. Very eloquently stated. (BULL $ rhymes with HIT) When comes to this board and starts calling you and everyone else the names that she has been called, I will tell her the same thing...TAKE IT TO EMAIL!!! Ya know it is so funny...You keep talking about wanted this board to be positive, but it's ok to come here and post a private email to her maligning her! Call me whatever you want dearie. Follower, one of 's militia...etc. I will and HAVE done the same for bashing people. <I would have written you privately, but you chose to castigate another list member publicly, so it was only fitting that the response you receive be public as well. So, you may email me privately if you feel the need to respond...negative rhetoric is not needed on this list.> But it is ok when you respond negatively...LOL Never did I castigate anyone on this list...I stated and will state again. IT WAS A PERSONAL EMAIL AND IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN DEALT WITH THERE. AND THANK YOU DANIELLE I HAVE BEEN THROUGHLY PUT IN MY PLACE!!!! Lol My whole point was stop the D----(rhymes with Sam)! name calling. Dang... Jai le (I need a cold glass of water...Sheesh) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 4, 2000 Report Share Posted October 4, 2000 Jai, You are absolutley right. I must admit that I am sorry for fighting back. I am usually more even tempered and can only think that being under so much stress myself, with the MGB desicion and the getting my package together, the waiting for accredidation from my insurance (which by the way never came) has me alittle defensive. I learned to live with my weight by not having such " thin " skin, and lately it has been extremely hard to control my emotions. Thank you for having the sense of mind to notice how nasty I was becoming. And again, I am very sorry! Trudy, Indiana pre-op Re: Digest Number 2230 Sorry...that response was directed to Alan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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