Re: Tobi question/baby stuff

[Guest guest]

I just had my baby girl I have a two yr old with cf a one yr old and now a 2

month old. I chose not to have any testing done b/c I wanted to enjoy being

pregnant I always feel like people judge me b/c i took a chance with my children

having cf.. I just knew i would feel even worse if i knew the baby had cf i

figured id enjoy being pregnant b/c if the baby did have cf I probably wouldnt

be happy for a long time so I had at least my nine months of being

happy.....as it turns out Sara does have cf and I do feel so guilty but God

doesnt create

babies for nothing I just am so sad lately I dont understand this...Im 21 I

was married but he couldnt cope with the cf and left I now have 3 kids and it

doesnt look like Adam even cares Im in college fulltime basicly survivng on

madison ssi check and financial aid and all i can say is why? why my girls? ive

tried being possitive I just cant anymore Sara was diagnosed 3 days ago and it

all takes me back to the day maddie was born...im tired im sad i hate this i

dont understand how something so wonderful and pure has to go through this

horrible disease i never imgined my life this way i always pictured the happy

marriage healthy kids and now im divorced pratically it doesnt look like ill

ever

be off welfare and healthy kids what a dream...

cfmommy21@...

[Guest guest]

Ditto! I think it's a great idea.

Tina Mom to Christian 12 yowcf

[Guest guest]

you know maddie was on tobi when i was preg and nobody told me not to be

around it

cfmommy21@...

[Guest guest]

I suspect that your are just a little stressed right now. What with 3

children 2 and under. That in itself would be a chore not to mention the

added fun of CF. It is not to late to change the way your life is going.

What do you want realistically?

Decide what it is and go after it. Good things do not happen overnight.

You have come this far and you are still young. If you love your husband,

concentrate on helping him to cope with the cf. Some of us just need a

little more time than others. At least then you will have another person to

help out with whatever might come your way. I wish the best for you and

know that it is not easy to be a wife, mother and all other things involved.

We just do it because we are MOM's. And I know you are a great Mom. Hug

your babies and get to whatever it is you want to do.

Best wishes, Tina W., mother of Steph, 18yo wcf

Re: Tobi question/baby stuff

I just had my baby girl I have a two yr old with cf a one yr old and now a 2

month old. I chose not to have any testing done b/c I wanted to enjoy being

pregnant I always feel like people judge me b/c i took a chance with my

children

having cf.. I just knew i would feel even worse if i knew the baby had cf i

figured id enjoy being pregnant b/c if the baby did have cf I probably

wouldnt

be happy for a long time so I had at least my nine months of being

happy.....as it turns out Sara does have cf and I do feel so guilty but God

doesnt create

babies for nothing I just am so sad lately I dont understand this...Im 21 I

was married but he couldnt cope with the cf and left I now have 3 kids and

it

doesnt look like Adam even cares Im in college fulltime basicly survivng on

madison ssi check and financial aid and all i can say is why? why my girls?

ive

tried being possitive I just cant anymore Sara was diagnosed 3 days ago and

it

all takes me back to the day maddie was born...im tired im sad i hate this i

dont understand how something so wonderful and pure has to go through this

horrible disease i never imgined my life this way i always pictured the

happy

marriage healthy kids and now im divorced pratically it doesnt look like ill

ever

be off welfare and healthy kids what a dream...

cfmommy21@...

[Guest guest]

Wow! I don't even know how to reply. Times are definately hard for

you right now. I really believe that if you keep peddling, you and

your babies will be okay. It's hard enough that two of your babies

have CF, but I know that it is even much harder that your husband has

decided to leave you alone to deal with everything alone. I hope

that you have family close by to help.

I had Toni, my daughter, when I was just sixteen. I got married

because of it. He was abusive, unemployed and frequesntly in trouble

with the law. I guess that I was too young to think that there could

ever be anyone else for me. Well, eventually I got a divorce, a

G.E.D. and a two yr. degree in electronics (with the help of public

aid). Now (almost 30 years later) can hardly remember those days.

Just keep peddling.

You are obviuosly a loving mommy. Your children are your reward!!!

Good luck and please keep in touch with us.

Gale

Grandma to Abby (23 months wcf)

> I just had my baby girl I have a two yr old with cf a one yr old

and now a 2

> month old. I chose not to have any testing done b/c I wanted to

enjoy being

> pregnant I always feel like people judge me b/c i took a chance

with my children

> having cf.. I just knew i would feel even worse if i knew the baby

had cf i

> figured id enjoy being pregnant b/c if the baby did have cf I

probably wouldnt

> be happy for a long time so I had at least my nine months of being

> happy.....as it turns out Sara does have cf and I do feel so guilty

but God doesnt create

> babies for nothing I just am so sad lately I dont understand

this...Im 21 I

> was married but he couldnt cope with the cf and left I now have 3

kids and it

> doesnt look like Adam even cares Im in college fulltime basicly

survivng on

> madison ssi check and financial aid and all i can say is why? why

my girls? ive

> tried being possitive I just cant anymore Sara was diagnosed 3 days

ago and it

> all takes me back to the day maddie was born...im tired im sad i

hate this i

> dont understand how something so wonderful and pure has to go

through this

> horrible disease i never imgined my life this way i always pictured

the happy

> marriage healthy kids and now im divorced pratically it doesnt look

like ill ever

> be off welfare and healthy kids what a dream...

> cfmommy21@a...

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