Guest guest Posted September 30, 2000 Report Share Posted September 30, 2000 Dear " senior " . As one to another, seems to me the bigger risk is not having this surgery. And this from one who has never done any of those risky things you've described. Given what silliness you've already experienced, for you this will be a piece of cake. Don't let that fear thing get a hold inside your head. Pretend it's an airplane, Jump from it! Best wishes. . . you've got so much more life to live . . PhillyJude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2000 Report Share Posted September 30, 2000 Hey ette, I am 56 and I had the MGB last Jan 10, 2000. I weighed 242 lbs at the time and I am almost 5 ft 2 inches tall. Now I am at 145 lbs and feeling great. Age has nothing to do with it. I had no pain after surgery, only some soreness for a few days and then nothing!!! You'll be fine. Just follow Dr R's instructions exactly and all will be well. You just get right up there and have your surgery and get that weight off so you can enjoy all the things you love to do!!! It is well worth it and I'd do it all again if I had to. Carring all that weight around is a far greater risk to your life than the surgery. Bye now. Blessings, in Missouri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2000 Report Share Posted September 30, 2000 Hi ette: I'm 57 and will be 58 soon. I had my surgery four months ago. Your quality of life will drastically improve although it sounds like you're not a shrinking violet. I'm not daring in the least and was scared to death to have the surgery. But I was more scared of remaining as heavy as I was an being in pain every day. You sound like a lady who know what she wants and knows how to get there! I made up my mind that I would not live the next X number of years of life limping, in pain, with high blood pressure, sleeping sitting in a recliner, depressed and barely able to stand moving. So at 57 and 304 pounds I just went for it. Best decision I ever made! Flo in land (still posting from Raleigh) > Hello-I am 56 which seems to be somewhat older than alot of the > patients I have read about. Really anxious to have my surgery. The > only thing that gives me butterflys is the risk of death. Now this > comes from a person who rides motorcycles, has jumped out of a > perfectly good airplane, gets put to sleep to have her teeth worked > on,still rides roller-coasters (the badder-the better) worked in a > functioning ammo plant and was a policewoman. (Maybe I used all my > bravery up?)Any encouragement/information/reassurances you can give > me > would be greatly appreciated. I cannot continue to carry this > " mass " of a body around for the rest of my life-the last straw was the > embarrassment I felt when I had to do some poking and shoving of fat > around just to fit into the roller-coaster seats. I want to enjoy > the > time I have left. Thanks to all you unseen and for now, unknown > brothers and sisters out there. ette Kershner > elvira@b... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2000 Report Share Posted September 30, 2000 > Dear " senior " . As one to another, seems to me the bigger risk is not having > this surgery. And this from one who has never done any of those risky things > you've described. Given what silliness you've already experienced, for you > this will be a piece of cake. Don't let that fear thing get a hold inside > your head. Pretend it's an airplane, Jump from it! Best wishes. . . you've > got so much more life to live . . PhillyJude Ditto Irma in Raleigh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2000 Report Share Posted October 1, 2000 Dear ette, I use to love roller-coasters, too. I am 52 and I gave that up when I wouldn't fit into one,and everyone had to wait to ride until they got me back off the ramp.. Just too embarrassing!!! I keep saying after I loose the weight, I'm going to Great America, and my kids say I'll probably have a heart-attack from fright,now! You sound as though you've always been active. So I am sure you'll be a great sucess with this surgery.. I am a comedian/entertainer. And I have used the weight as part of the humor.. Keep your fingers crossed that I will still be funny without it.. LOL Trudy Strong Getting my nerve up Hello-I am 56 which seems to be somewhat older than alot of the patients I have read about. Really anxious to have my surgery. The only thing that gives me butterflys is the risk of death. Now this comes from a person who rides motorcycles, has jumped out of a perfectly good airplane, gets put to sleep to have her teeth worked on,still rides roller-coasters (the badder-the better) worked in a functioning ammo plant and was a policewoman. (Maybe I used all my bravery up?)Any encouragement/information/reassurances you can give me would be greatly appreciated. I cannot continue to carry this " mass " of a body around for the rest of my life-the last straw was the embarrassment I felt when I had to do some poking and shoving of fat around just to fit into the roller-coaster seats. I want to enjoy the time I have left. Thanks to all you unseen and for now, unknown brothers and sisters out there. ette Kershner elvira@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2000 Report Share Posted October 1, 2000 Hi ette, I am 53 and had surgery one month ago today. I had out of control diabetes, HBP, and heart problems that I had to have a letter from my cardiologist that I wouldn't die on the table. My surgery was only 28 minutes long and although uncomfortable was not terrible. Afterwards I regretted that I used up so much energy worrying about the surgery because it was way easier than I had expected. I'll tell you that I was way more scared the last time I rode a roller coaster, I have a very big stomach and I did fit in the ride but with the bar placed on top of my stomach it was pretty tight, but as soon as the g forces took control my stomach was on top of the bar. I had so much travel space then that I was just about flying out of the coaster when it came to the top of hills. This coaster went 90 miles an hour and I truly felt I was going to die. I have never been as scared in my entire life; I would have won any scream contest I'll tell you. Of course you can die but Dr Rutledge has such a low mortality rate that your chances are excellent that you will survive this surgery. I know my life will be longer now than before surgery. I am feeling very good and feel like I finally have hope for a longer and more healthful life. I am off all my meds except my thyroid pills. Sincerely Marjory 1st Ca girl 8/30/00 285/257 > Hello-I am 56 which seems to be somewhat older than alot of the > patients I have read about. Really anxious to have my surgery. The > only thing that gives me butterflys is the risk of death. Now this > comes from a person who rides motorcycles, has jumped out of a > perfectly good airplane, gets put to sleep to have her teeth worked > on,still rides roller-coasters (the badder-the better) worked in a > functioning ammo plant and was a policewoman. (Maybe I used all my > bravery up?)Any encouragement/information/reassurances you can give > me > would be greatly appreciated. I cannot continue to carry this > " mass " of a body around for the rest of my life-the last straw was the > embarrassment I felt when I had to do some poking and shoving of fat > around just to fit into the roller-coaster seats. I want to enjoy > the > time I have left. Thanks to all you unseen and for now, unknown > brothers and sisters out there. ette Kershner > elvira@b... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2000 Report Share Posted October 1, 2000 Hi Marjory...i see where you posted that you are on thyroid medication..I am also on this type of med (Synthroid)...after surgery have you found that your dosage needed to be decreased or changed in any way? Congrats on your weight loss to date Kendra in WV 9-21-00 new life began Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2000 Report Share Posted October 1, 2000 Majory, Please may I use you as a contact? You have said so much that has already helped me. I'm getting my package ready as we speak... Thanking you in advance, Trudy Strong Re: Getting my nerve up Hi ette, I am 53 and had surgery one month ago today. I had out of control diabetes, HBP, and heart problems that I had to have a letter from my cardiologist that I wouldn't die on the table. My surgery was only 28 minutes long and although uncomfortable was not terrible. Afterwards I regretted that I used up so much energy worrying about the surgery because it was way easier than I had expected. I'll tell you that I was way more scared the last time I rode a roller coaster, I have a very big stomach and I did fit in the ride but with the bar placed on top of my stomach it was pretty tight, but as soon as the g forces took control my stomach was on top of the bar. I had so much travel space then that I was just about flying out of the coaster when it came to the top of hills. This coaster went 90 miles an hour and I truly felt I was going to die. I have never been as scared in my entire life; I would have won any scream contest I'll tell you. Of course you can die but Dr Rutledge has such a low mortality rate that your chances are excellent that you will survive this surgery. I know my life will be longer now than before surgery. I am feeling very good and feel like I finally have hope for a longer and more healthful life. I am off all my meds except my thyroid pills. Sincerely Marjory 1st Ca girl 8/30/00 285/257 > Hello-I am 56 which seems to be somewhat older than alot of the > patients I have read about. Really anxious to have my surgery. The > only thing that gives me butterflys is the risk of death. Now this > comes from a person who rides motorcycles, has jumped out of a > perfectly good airplane, gets put to sleep to have her teeth worked > on,still rides roller-coasters (the badder-the better) worked in a > functioning ammo plant and was a policewoman. (Maybe I used all my > bravery up?)Any encouragement/information/reassurances you can give > me > would be greatly appreciated. I cannot continue to carry this > " mass " of a body around for the rest of my life-the last straw was the > embarrassment I felt when I had to do some poking and shoving of fat > around just to fit into the roller-coaster seats. I want to enjoy > the > time I have left. Thanks to all you unseen and for now, unknown > brothers and sisters out there. ette Kershner > elvira@b... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2000 Report Share Posted October 2, 2000 I am a 52 year old assistant principal who is preparing paperwork for surgery. Please send advise and support. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2000 Report Share Posted October 2, 2000 Hi: All I can tell you is that this is a drastic step...that I didn't have one more diet in me...that I'm nearly 58 and have been overweight for 50 years...that I no longer have sleep apnea, I no longer take arthritis medication, I no longer have high blood pressure, the edema in my feet and legs is gone, my acid reflux is gone....and 67 pounds are gone in four months...what more can I say. This is the best thing I have ever done for myself. All we can do is tell you what our experience has been. Make sure you understand that this is a major step..a major surgery..and make sure that you want to change your life..that you want a new life...because you will have a new life, a different life..and hopefully a wonderful life like the overwhelming majority of us! I was scared to have surgery. I was scared to stay fat. I waffled and waivered for a long time before I committed. And once I did, I lived with my decision..and it turns out it was one of my best decisions ever! We're here and we'll be here to support you every step of the way no matter what you decide. Cuz we're fat folks..and we stick together! And we're glad you're here and hope you'll stick around and get to know us until you can make your decision! Flo in land > ** Original Subject: RE: Re: Getting my nerve up > ** > ** Original Date: Mon, 02 Oct 2000 19:53:43 -0600 > ** Original Message follows... > > I am a 52 year old assistant principal who is preparing paperwork for > surgery. Please send advise and support. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2000 Report Share Posted October 3, 2000 Flo, You are a trip, I enjoyed meeting you at the picnic. Phyllis florence@... wrote: > Hi: All I can tell you is that this is a drastic step...that I didn't have one more diet in me...that I'm nearly 58 and have been overweight for 50 years...that I no longer have sleep apnea, I no longer take arthritis medication, I no longer have high blood pressure, the edema in my feet and legs is gone, my acid reflux is gone....and 67 pounds are gone in four months...what more can I say. This is the best thing I have ever done for myself. > > All we can do is tell you what our experience has been. Make sure you understand that this is a major step..a major surgery..and make sure that you want to change your life..that you want a new life...because you will have a new life, a different life..and hopefully a wonderful life like the overwhelming majority of us! > > I was scared to have surgery. I was scared to stay fat. I waffled and waivered for a long time before I committed. And once I did, I lived with my decision..and it turns out it was one of my best decisions ever! > > We're here and we'll be here to support you every step of the way no matter what you decide. Cuz we're fat folks..and we stick together! And we're glad you're here and hope you'll stick around and get to know us until you can make your decision! > > Flo in land > > > ** Original Subject: RE: Re: Getting my nerve up > > ** > > ** Original Date: Mon, 02 Oct 2000 19:53:43 -0600 > > > ** Original Message follows... > > > > > I am a 52 year old assistant principal who is preparing paperwork for > > surgery. Please send advise and support. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2000 Report Share Posted October 3, 2000 Gosh when I get to the point of foods I hope I can take at least a bite...one of my favorites...when did you start with regualr foods again...I love rice have you tried it yet Kendra in WV Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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