Guest guest Posted April 2, 2004 Report Share Posted April 2, 2004 Hello all, This maybe unusual request, but I need you all to pray for my best friend. Her husband drowned yesterday in a freak accident. She is only 32 and now a widow. I am trying to help her the best I can but this all has brought back all the grief I have been feeling since my mom just passed away last month on my son's birthday. Now her husband drowns on my husbands birthday. I am feeling a little...help me out here, I don't know how to say it. 2 people I love die on my sons birthday and my husbands birthday. I wonder now who will be next on my birthday. Ok, it's real now. I am depressed. I can see that from writing now. Anyway, please pray for my friend that she has the strength to carry on as I don't know that I have the strength to give to her going through the same thing myself already. Thank you, Sandy in California > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2004 Report Share Posted April 2, 2004 Sandy, I'll be praying for both you and your friend, as you both sound like you need whatever help you can get.. Kimber -- Kimber Vallejo, CA hominid2@... Note: All advice given is personal opinion, not equal to that of a licensed physician or health care professional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2004 Report Share Posted April 2, 2004 Kimber, Since you live in Vallejo you will be able to read the story. The lead story on the front page is my friends husband. And thank you yes, we both can use some help. I can't get my mind of her and it just brings my moms passing so real and fresh again. Sandy Kimber wrote: >Sandy, >I'll be praying for both you and your friend, as you both sound like you >need whatever help you can get.. >Kimber > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2004 Report Share Posted April 3, 2004 Sandy, I'm afraid I don't really read the newspapers, but if you have a link to the website, I might be able to find it since I don't get the paper. I'm so sorry that this has brought up such sad memories. Kimber -- Kimber Vallejo, CA hominid2@... Note: All advice given is personal opinion, not equal to that of a licensed physician or health care professional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 Kimber, Its not something you need to go look for. I just thought if you had the paper then you would know who you were reading about. It's the Vallejo Times Harold.com The viewing of the body is going on right now. The funeral is tomorrow and I am not sure I can make it. Heck, I don't know Vallejo all the well and don't know where Rollingwood dr. is. I posted yesterday that I was wishing a pancreatic attack on myself to give me an excuse as to why I can't make it. Well today I have had bacon, fake eggs, sausage, soda, club chalupas, hash browns, french toast with a little butter and Mike and Ikes. I know this is crazy, but hey! I simply cannot handle this and I have still not yet buried my mom. That won't be until July. I am so tied up in knots that I find it hard to breathe. I am so overcome with grief for myself and my friend that I am finding it hard to go through my own day. I truly don't know what to do. But I guess I will be going to this funeral tomorrow alone. I can feel my sphincter of Oddi kicking in from what I have eaten. The pancreatic pain can't be that far behind. I know what I ate today was a no no. I am finding out I am a eater when I get upset. Hey Kimber and everyone else, thanks for caring and listening. I have been feeling so alone since my moms death and now with this it has made it all new again. Sandy in California Kimber wrote: >Sandy, >I'm afraid I don't really read the newspapers, but if you have a link to >the website, I might be able to find it since I don't get the paper. I'm >so sorry that this has brought up such sad memories. >Kimber > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 Sandy, I live in Vallejo and I have no idea where Rollingwood drive is. I'm so sorry this is hitting you so hard, but it's never easy when you lose someone you love. I tend to eat when I'm depressed too and stuff I'm not usually supposed to eat too, so you aren't the only one who does that. All I can say is that the loss is a little easier to bear as time goes by, but it does take time. I'm so sorry that this has brought back all the loss from you're mother's passing as well. I'll be there in spirit with you though. Kimber -- Kimber Vallejo, CA hominid2@... Note: All advice given is personal opinion, not equal to that of a licensed physician or health care professional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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