Guest guest Posted August 14, 2002 Report Share Posted August 14, 2002 --- grandm4@... wrote: > Years ago my husband and I went to counceling. He > was one of those guys who > just didn't enjoy life much...Not the kids, not me, > not anything. He always > planned for the worst. If we went on any vacation or > whatever if we got home > it was a good trip. He always said No to the kids > because he was so afraid > something might happen to them. > Anyway the counceler asked him if he was a > worrier...he said absolutely! For > me it was like a lighting bolt hit me...for some > reason it all made sense. > She said to ask yourself, while you worry, what can > I do about it right now? > Usually nothing. If its something you can take care > of later, write it down > and put it in your pocket. When you take the note > out you'll realize you > still can't do anything about it. > It changed his life...and our marriage...Love, Sue M > Good advice, Sue! Thanks, squeek ===== __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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