Guest guest Posted December 23, 2003 Report Share Posted December 23, 2003 ; this sometimes happens; I have sent another post to the list detailing what my kids, all cf carriers, did! Love to you, n Rojas anyone adopted a child? Our 2nd round of In Vitro didn't work. For some reason, although I am normally fertile, the little embryos just didn't want to stick. We were using IVF using pre implantation genetic diagnosis to avoid having another child with cf. We spent nearly $30,000 and have NOTHING to show for it except for a bruised butt from injections. Anyway, we have 2 choices left to provide a sibling for our 2 and 1/2 yr old son wcf. 1. Get pregnant naturally and do a CVS test. We did that over the summer and the test results indicated an even more rare chromosomal problem (1 in 5000) so we chose not to continue with the pregnancy. I likely would have miscarried anyway. 2. Adopt. I don't know if I am real excited about adopting. We have been through so much with our son that I don't think I could love another child as much. And what birthmother would want to give their child to a couple who has to spend so much time attending to their biological child. They would also be frightened of the words " Cystic Fibrosis " . They'd probably think it was contagious. So any advice? Anyone have a biological child and then adopted and infant domestically? We are at a total loss. Very devastated by the negative pregnancy test results and still desperately want a healthy child. Why does this all have to be so hard? Damn damn damn CF. mom to Ashton 2 1/2 wcf ------------------------------------------- The opinions and information exchanged on this list should IN NO WAY be construed as medical advice. PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR TREATMENTS. ------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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