Failed weight loss

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Ok everyone involved and others who are watching. does not want to hear

anything that remotely smacks of criticism. She just wants to vent with out any

responses unless they are sympathetic. She did not give me permission to speak

on her behalf. This is Shelly in Jax., Fla speaking. This is my opinion

concluded after posting to her privately. Give her time to vent, pray for her

if you have a mind to. I speak PEACE to this list. Shelly

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> Ok everyone involved and others who are watching. does not

want to hear anything that remotely smacks of criticism. She just

wants to vent with out any responses unless they are sympathetic.

She did not give me permission to speak on her behalf. This is

Shelly in Jax., Fla speaking. This is my opinion concluded

after posting to her privately. Give her time to vent, pray for her

if you have a mind to. I speak PEACE to this list. Shelly

**Shelly,

Thank you ever so much for this post. I too have posted privately to

and she is only looking to vent. She did not ask for help, nor

did she ask why? Her purpose was to simply inform that is all.

Speaking from a pre-ops position I am GRATEFUL for s post

because she makes me aware of what could happen. If it botheres me

then perhaps I am not a candidate for the MGB. Me personally I want

the MGB and am more than willing to face whatever comes after it. As

a pre-op I feel very strongly that we need to have some post-ops here

to ask questions to and to keep us informed on their progress. I

plan to stay on the pre-op list and tell people my experiences and

hope that I can help someone else. has helped many people here

and has never ever asked for anything in return except for us to be

non-judgemental and listen. is very upset. And this could

have happened just as easily to any of us. She deserves the right to

rant and rave and if you are offended by it do not read her posts.

Like I said before I for one NEED to hear these things. Please stop

yelling at each other and pointing fingers and lets embrace each

other and keep peace between us all.

With Love,

Lara Akin

Still fighting the good fight!!!!