So Nice To Be Back

[Guest guest]

It is so nice to see myself talking again, was getting a really bad

complex there. Don't know where the bottleneck was but to whomever

fixed it THANKYOU. Bye-the-bye I am not as windy as those messages

make me seem, they just all backed up into one another. Well-On with

the show: Thankyou, thankyou ,thankyou to all of you positive people

out there who are doing so well, and sharing with us. I have printed

each heartfelt testimonial out and placed it in a binder so when I

begin with the doubts I can open my 'Dreams Can Come True Book'and

change my direction of thinking. I am also keeping the down side,

much thinner book, so I have a perspective. As far as insurance

goes-I found out in my early 20's that unless you learn to stand up

and fight the things that are trying to stand in your way you will

never get anywhere. I used to be a little mild, don't make waves

type

of girl and found out very quickly I would never be allowed to go

anywhere if it were to be left up to others. I learned to speak my

mind out, be it in public, private, meetings or letters and let me

tell you things changed fast. I have worked in several jobs that up

until the time I took them only men had worked in them. I was the

first woman mechanic to be allow to work in the race car pits by

USAC.

I sued a race track for posting a sign that women had to wear bras

(I

didn't and I won). Not blowing my horn here but instead saying that

if you question authority over and over again you will usually come

out ahead. This goes double for the insurance companies. Play their

game, fight their fight, you have paid for the right to use the

benefits as you need them not as they think you should use them.

Believe me I have won several appeals over BC/BS and others for

myself

and my husband. I am still doing pros and cons over having this

surgery but it is leaning more toward pro. Phew!!!!!!!!I am winded,

will sit back and lurk and let others talk for the rest of the night.

ette in Souther Indiana