Re: Re: I need to blow some steam off!!!!!!/Deb/Joe

[Guest guest]

I never thought about this before, but my eldest sister who was 14.5 years older

than I, and who lost a son when he was 12 years old to cf, never got over the

denial thing with me, and smoked right in my face--needless to say, we did not

see one another often. She died of lung cancer, to no one's surprise--in a

family

in which the noncf folks live to past 100 and those wcf often survive into their

70's.

We would go out to dinner, and even though we were both diabetic, she would

blow her diet to pieces--some people can live with denial even as the conse

quences affect THEM! n, still de-oxygenated and a bit loopy!

Re: Re: I need to blow some steam off!!!!!!

In a message dated 12/26/2003 8:09:11 AM Central Standard Time,

reamsfarm@... writes:

Really though, confront it NOW. Just don't be too mean right off the

bat. Do let him know you are upset, though. Good luck and keep us

posted.

Joe

I'm afraid if I go over there now I will not be very nice so I really think I

need time to cool off. But you are right I need to address this to him

because I have done everything else but address him. I have talked to my

husband

step Mom and it went through one ear and then the other. I am tired of this

fight! I am tired of being nice! I am ready to tell him exactly how I feel but

I am

afraid my girls will lose a Grandfather but I guess that is better then

losing them!! Deb A