Guest guest Posted April 20, 2002 Report Share Posted April 20, 2002 Well it is 11:30 and I am just getting back from the hospital. My father had a heart attack and he is in ICU. They said he was stable for the night and for us to go home instead of sitting in the waiting room. Which I did against my will. He died last year from an arteriagram right before my eyes and they brought him back. But he has so much blockage that there is nothing they can really do. SO the Dr. wanted my sister and I to make some life or death decisions. He is looking at her (which is another story but he is her Dr.also because she has already had 4 open heart surgeries and just last year he put stints in because she had blockage.. and this Tues she is suppose to have a liver biopsy because they just put her on the liver transplant list) and at me with my bald head because in the rush I forgot I didnt have my hat on and is trying to figure out of the 3 of us who is well enough to make a decision. We just had to laugh on that one,I said just dig a big hole and throw us all in. She is my only sister and is only 43. Well my dad said he didnt want any test, machines or cpr. I am totaly devastated he is only 77 and my mom died at 59.So it looks like I will be busy crawling (not kidding) thru the halls of the hospital for awhile between her and my dad. I just pray thats all I will be doing and nothing worse. Heaven knows where I am going to find the strength, because I have been having such extreme fatigue, muscle weakness and nausea. But if God is giving me yet another test I just hope I at least make a C average on it. I dont need to pass with honors.haaha Sorry if I am rambling on but I dont think I can take anymore stress right now and this was my only way of letting go of some.We always have one disater after another in our family and it just seems no let up. I always told Kim my daughter that God gives only the strong ones the problems because he knows that they can handle them. Well she told me to tell him that we are not strong anymore. But he knows that we are so good at it that he just keeps them coming. Oh well I am going to try and get some rest (no sleep) and let God take over , I'm tired. Please remember my family in your prayers and I will be doing the same for each of you since it seems like we are all having our own personal crisis. Love, prayers and hugs (which I could use alot of right now) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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