Guest guest Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 Gosh, I am so sorry about your setback, I know only too well how you must be feeling. I am going through other problems where the other person just doesn't " react " . Does she understand that to let her pancreas go till the end will guarantee diabetes? and if that happens, and that is something that you just can't let go. At least if the TP is done before hand, she has a chance...even if only a small one, to be so much better off than now. I truly do feel for you. At least try and keep in your heart that you can be there for her and the children when they need you. Is any type of counselling out of the question? for both her and your husband..even if someone could go to the house? I might be wrong, but it sounds like he just doesn't want to stand up verbally and help for the sake of his family. Sometimes that is all it takes to make a person realise. I know he is ill also, but he sounds as though he hasn't resigned himself to her fate yet. Gawd,...here I go sounding all morbid again...that good ole girl..the voice of doom and gloom *L* I wish I could say something magical to you that she would listen to, but I don't know..I haven't had to go down this route with my pancreatitis yet...I just hate to hear when someone has given up...and that is probably because I've become so strong to fight for my own medical problems. Take care, and know that I am thinking of you and your family... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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