Re: Don't Ask Don't Tell--Ronda

[Guest guest]

Hey Ronda,

Nice to meet ya! Where in this little ol' state can I find you

hiding? Sounds like you have a good surgeon...who is he? Mine is

really good too! I have my surgery on Tuesday, the 7th! I am

excited, nervous and trying to stay calm...not working too good!

Hugs, in AL.

[Guest guest]

i am getting nervous for you Hun hugss i will be praying for you . You are

such a doll i hope you just take it easy in the days to come not to pressure

yourself be stress free before the surgery.Because the house will always be

there you can always catch up when you are better trust me you will not die with

a messy house. So please just enjoy this time and make peace with yourself and

your new life to come i hope i am not over stepping any boundries.

In care always,

.

Lou wrote:

Hey Ronda,

Nice to meet ya! Where in this little ol' state can I find you

hiding? Sounds like you have a good surgeon...who is he? Mine is

really good too! I have my surgery on Tuesday, the 7th! I am

excited, nervous and trying to stay calm...not working too good!

Hugs, in AL.

[Guest guest]

,

Only overstepping your doing is getting over what my sweet Buddy

left for me this morning on the carpet...LOL!!! Dang pooch just

can't hold it a minute more and we overslept this morning too!! I

am trying to take it one day at a time and seems to be doing pretty

good. I have my moments of being weepy but not whiny yet...heehee!

Guess I'll save that for next week! My biggest problem is I am

going to miss you all so much when I am in the hospital and can't

get to this wonderful computer! Wish I could set it up at my

bedside but guess they wouldn't like that much. I am going to show

hubby how to get here and post my success on Tuesday! He's got to

work and will come by the hospital on the way home to let Buddy's

bladder and bowels relax. Thinks he's going to stay in the bed with

me but I think he's got another thing coming! Stay sweet cause I

need ya lots!

Hugs, in AL.

[Guest guest]

hehehe you are funny ! my pooch does the same shes just plain spoiled by

my kid.

Lou wrote:,

Only overstepping your doing is getting over what my sweet Buddy

left for me this morning on the carpet...LOL!!! Dang pooch just

can't hold it a minute more and we overslept this morning too!! I

am trying to take it one day at a time and seems to be doing pretty

good. I have my moments of being weepy but not whiny yet...heehee!

Guess I'll save that for next week! My biggest problem is I am

going to miss you all so much when I am in the hospital and can't

get to this wonderful computer! Wish I could set it up at my

bedside but guess they wouldn't like that much. I am going to show

hubby how to get here and post my success on Tuesday! He's got to

work and will come by the hospital on the way home to let Buddy's

bladder and bowels relax. Thinks he's going to stay in the bed with

me but I think he's got another thing coming! Stay sweet cause I

need ya lots!

Hugs, in AL.

[Guest guest]

I think having the surgery is a very personal decision and I did not want the

whole world to know. I think its hard to keep it secret though because it seems

you tell one person and then they tell one person and so on. My rny was lap

and I had my gallbladder removed at the same time so what I did try to do was

tell some people I had my gallbladder out and left it at that. Do what you

think is best for you. This is your body and your life and you're getting a

whole new chance to turn your life around so feel good about telling people as

much or as little as you want.

Take care and keep us posted.

Bridget

brooke sheilds wrote:

i am getting nervous for you Hun hugss i will be praying for you . You are

such a doll i hope you just take it easy in the days to come not to pressure

yourself be stress free before the surgery.Because the house will always be

there you can always catch up when you are better trust me you will not die with

a messy house. So please just enjoy this time and make peace with yourself and

your new life to come i hope i am not over stepping any boundries.

In care always,

.

Lou wrote:

Hey Ronda,

Nice to meet ya! Where in this little ol' state can I find you

hiding? Sounds like you have a good surgeon...who is he? Mine is

really good too! I have my surgery on Tuesday, the 7th! I am

excited, nervous and trying to stay calm...not working too good!

Hugs, in AL.

[Guest guest]

,

Before you go to the hospital stock up on sugar free popsicles (sp?)

I was having two or three a day. Very soothing.

Pat in RI

> ,

> Only overstepping your doing is getting over what my sweet Buddy

> left for me this morning on the carpet...LOL!!! Dang pooch just

> can't hold it a minute more and we overslept this morning too!! I

> am trying to take it one day at a time and seems to be doing

pretty

> good. I have my moments of being weepy but not whiny

yet...heehee!

> Guess I'll save that for next week! My biggest problem is I am

> going to miss you all so much when I am in the hospital and can't

> get to this wonderful computer! Wish I could set it up at my

> bedside but guess they wouldn't like that much. I am going to

show

> hubby how to get here and post my success on Tuesday! He's got to

> work and will come by the hospital on the way home to let Buddy's

> bladder and bowels relax. Thinks he's going to stay in the bed

with

> me but I think he's got another thing coming! Stay sweet cause I

> need ya lots!

> Hugs, in AL.