Fat, hating yourself -- was twinkle, twinkle etc

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In a message dated 10/9/2003 2:59:33 AM Central Daylight Time, fbayuk@...

writes:

> There are many people out there who do not believe that fat people do not

> always hate themselves.

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We all see things thru the filter of our own experience. When you've always

hated yourself for being fat, it is extremely difficult to believe that others

who maintain they DON'T hate themselves for being fat aren't just in denial.

If you are able to love yourself regardless of how you look, you are indeed

blessed, and emotionally quite mature. We immatures just can't quite believe it

-- or understand how you got there --and certainly wish we knew how to get

there too.

Carol A

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In a message dated 10/10/2003 11:06:54 PM Eastern Standard Time,

tuesdynite@... writes:

We immatures just can't quite believe it

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It is not a matter of maturity, but self esteem.

Fay Bayuk

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