Guest guest Posted September 9, 2004 Report Share Posted September 9, 2004 Hello Family, I was wondering if anyone could clear something up for me. Is this site for us to post or problems AND our ACCOMPLISHMENTS, or is it not? I ask because there was a post that upset me. I posted a few days ago on my 100 pound goal in 3 1/2 months. This is a goal I am DAMN proud of and thought that my gastric bypass family would be proud to. I was not trying to gloat or anything of that nature. I am just proud. A message was posted after my post. I will not say who posted it, as that is not important. What bothered me about the post was at the end, it read... " I would rather lose slow so I can tone my skin than to lose 100 pounds in 3 1/2 months and have a bunch of sagging, loose skin. " Now maybe I took it the wrong way, but it made me feel like this person was putting me down on my accomplishment. We are not all going to lose the same way and in the same amount of time. We are all DIFFERENT. Isn't the purpose of this online support group to support each other rather than rain on someones parade. Sorry to go on, but this has been bothering me and I just had to say my piece. Thanks for listening. Jenn Open RNY 5/26/04 339/239/140 DOWN 100 POUNDS!!!! WOO HOO!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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