Thanks for all the advice but.....

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I am not having this surgery thinking that it is an easy way out of

many of my problem, but I do feel it will help in covering one major

problem. thank you all for your help and advice, but I know the

surgery will not fix all my problems but it will fix one major one,

One of my main reason for the surgery is to get a job, I feel if I

do get it and lose the weight I am going to be able to get a good

desent job and not have no one look at me at every interview I go

into and say well we are not hiring yet just putting a face with the

application. I am not taking the surgery because I feel it is an

easy way to weight lost, because I know many of the risk and

complication with this surgery. I am 37 and weigh over 380 pounds

and I have tried everything since 1995 to lose the weigh but never

can. I also have a tendency to over eat when I am depress or upset,

but with this surgery I know that if I do that I will definitely

suffer and I am the one that will have to go through recovering. I

think I am ready and I will have a lot of support with you guys in

this group and my family, my family is and will be my biggest

support. And I am just gonna also rely on God and prayer first and

fore most.

Again thank all of you for your responses.