Guest guest Posted July 25, 2006 Report Share Posted July 25, 2006 My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! Thanks, Lindsey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 25, 2006 Report Share Posted July 25, 2006 Lindsey, I don't think I have chimed in on your situation yet, but I've been following what's been going on with you guys -- I feel so bad for you, I know it is so hard to be in this position. I know that you've measured the width of the bar, but have you tried actually holding it up to his shoulders, or laying him down with his shoulders between the heels of the shoes to see if his shoulders actually fit in between the heels? Sometimes a tape measure measurement can be deceiving. As for the red marks, you'll want to keep a close eye on those, there are a couple different types of padding that can get for you and I'm sure that one of the moms who use the P/M shoes will chime in here with the best suggestions to avoid and heal these red spots. Now, I think our next step is to look at these feet and see if there's a reason your sunny disposition boy has turned into mister cranky pants. If you could get that survey back to us for CFPics we'll get you approved pronto! (The survey should have been in the automated email you received when you requested membership and I resent it to you this afternoon). Then just send some pics of his little piggies (and adorable face too) over to the CFPics group and hopefully we can really get to the bottom of this. I think 5 days still being miserable even in the P/M's is wrong, I don't really remember anyone offhand whose child took that long to adjust to those shoes. I do remember you sent some pics to Dr. Ponseti, what did he have to say? The best shots and angles for photos: 1. Weight bearing (holding him up), straight on front view of feet. 2. Weight bearing, looking down at top view of feet. 3. Weight bearing, straight on back view of feet. 4. Photo showing dorsiflexion, push the palm of your hand on the bottom of his foot to push it up past " L " as far as you can. Hope this helps Lindsey, hang in there! Mom to Jenna (4/7/01) & Sam (9/25/04, RCF, Dobbs brace 12 hrs/day) > > My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never > end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. > Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still > cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, > and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s > tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the > tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap > tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are > red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go > away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he > is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just > went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from > not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take > this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. > But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone > else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem > to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > > Thanks, Lindsey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 25, 2006 Report Share Posted July 25, 2006 You absolutely MUST not let the tongue fold. Don't pull against it when you cinch the buckle. Before you buckle it, pull the tongue HARD over the top of the foot and over the rubber. Pull it till it won't go any further and then hold it there. Then pull the strap up hard and lie it over the tongue (no cinching) and then hold BOTH the tongue and the strap tightly against each other so they do not move. Then buckle the strap. This way, you should have no cinching to be done and thus, no buckling. If it still folds on itself, after the strap is tight, pull the tongue straight under the strap. the hole in the tongue should be right above the top edge of the middle strap. This tells you that the tongue is in the right place. Where are his blisters?? The red mark should go away as long as you don't make that little fold again. It may take some time, due to the pressure on the area in the shoe but it will heal. If it's an open sore, that's a different story. Can you tell us more about (or show us) this sore so we can help you with healing? Are you 100% sure his feet are fully corrected? Other than the red mark from the fold, there' nothing really that should make him cry. However, if his feet aren't corrected he will not be happy in any brace. If you have pictures of his feet, I'd say let us take a peek at them. A little red mark usually won't make a babe that unhappy. I'm a bit concerned because these shoes usually do the trick. In fact, I haven't heard of anyone who had problems with crying after they got them so I'm more than a little concerned about correction. Kori At 05:01 PM 7/25/2006, you wrote: >My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never >end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. >Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still >cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, >and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s >tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the >tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap >tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are >red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go >away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he >is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just >went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from >not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take >this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. >But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone >else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem >to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > >Thanks, Lindsey > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 Hi Kori, Thanks for the tips. We will try to get the tongue as smooth as possible across his feet today. One of his shoes is too big, which is part of the problem. is supposed to be sending us a replacement any day now....can't wait to get it! After leaving our baby's shoes off for a while last night, his red marks started to go away. I don't think any of them actually turned into sores. We caught it in time. I can send pictures if you still want, but we've already sent pictures to Dr. Ponseti, and he thought our baby's affected foot looked good. We're starting to think maybe we're dealing with something else. Our son doesn't exactly have the easiest temperament in the world, and he also hasn't been sleeping well at all (which would make any baby crabby I suppose). We're lucky if he sleeps a total of 10 hours, day and night total. We've had him to his pediatrician just to see if there's anything else going on with him. We're really just having a time, and we're not sure why. Thanks for your help, and we'll try to make sure we have the tongue across his foot properly! Lindsey frogabog wrote: You absolutely MUST not let the tongue fold. Don't pull against it when you cinch the buckle. Before you buckle it, pull the tongue HARD over the top of the foot and over the rubber. Pull it till it won't go any further and then hold it there. Then pull the strap up hard and lie it over the tongue (no cinching) and then hold BOTH the tongue and the strap tightly against each other so they do not move. Then buckle the strap. This way, you should have no cinching to be done and thus, no buckling. If it still folds on itself, after the strap is tight, pull the tongue straight under the strap. the hole in the tongue should be right above the top edge of the middle strap. This tells you that the tongue is in the right place. Where are his blisters?? The red mark should go away as long as you don't make that little fold again. It may take some time, due to the pressure on the area in the shoe but it will heal. If it's an open sore, that's a different story. Can you tell us more about (or show us) this sore so we can help you with healing? Are you 100% sure his feet are fully corrected? Other than the red mark from the fold, there' nothing really that should make him cry. However, if his feet aren't corrected he will not be happy in any brace. If you have pictures of his feet, I'd say let us take a peek at them. A little red mark usually won't make a babe that unhappy. I'm a bit concerned because these shoes usually do the trick. In fact, I haven't heard of anyone who had problems with crying after they got them so I'm more than a little concerned about correction. Kori At 05:01 PM 7/25/2006, you wrote: >My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never >end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. >Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still >cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, >and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s >tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the >tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap >tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are >red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go >away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he >is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just >went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from >not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take >this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. >But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone >else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem >to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > >Thanks, Lindsey > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 Thank you, . I will try to get the survey done today. As you can imagine, things have been pretty crazy around here. I'm certainly going crazy!! My son's shoulders do not fit in between his shoes. Is that what you mean? The heels are a little further apart than should-width, but I can't lay him down in between the shoes. He won't fit. I've heard that babies can be uncomfortable if the bar is too short OR too long. How in the world do you know if you have it just right?!?! We did hear back from Dr. Ponseti (he's probably sick of getting e-mails from us) and he though Christian's foot looked good, although we did not have a doriflexion shot. Thanks for helping us troubleshoot, and we'll try to get some pictures on soon. Lindsey wrote: Lindsey, I don't think I have chimed in on your situation yet, but I've been following what's been going on with you guys -- I feel so bad for you, I know it is so hard to be in this position. I know that you've measured the width of the bar, but have you tried actually holding it up to his shoulders, or laying him down with his shoulders between the heels of the shoes to see if his shoulders actually fit in between the heels? Sometimes a tape measure measurement can be deceiving. As for the red marks, you'll want to keep a close eye on those, there are a couple different types of padding that can get for you and I'm sure that one of the moms who use the P/M shoes will chime in here with the best suggestions to avoid and heal these red spots. Now, I think our next step is to look at these feet and see if there's a reason your sunny disposition boy has turned into mister cranky pants. If you could get that survey back to us for CFPics we'll get you approved pronto! (The survey should have been in the automated email you received when you requested membership and I resent it to you this afternoon). Then just send some pics of his little piggies (and adorable face too) over to the CFPics group and hopefully we can really get to the bottom of this. I think 5 days still being miserable even in the P/M's is wrong, I don't really remember anyone offhand whose child took that long to adjust to those shoes. I do remember you sent some pics to Dr. Ponseti, what did he have to say? The best shots and angles for photos: 1. Weight bearing (holding him up), straight on front view of feet. 2. Weight bearing, looking down at top view of feet. 3. Weight bearing, straight on back view of feet. 4. Photo showing dorsiflexion, push the palm of your hand on the bottom of his foot to push it up past " L " as far as you can. Hope this helps Lindsey, hang in there! Mom to Jenna (4/7/01) & Sam (9/25/04, RCF, Dobbs brace 12 hrs/day) > > My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never > end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. > Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still > cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, > and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s > tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the > tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap > tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are > red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go > away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he > is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just > went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from > not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take > this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. > But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone > else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem > to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > > Thanks, Lindsey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 Lindsey, I've missed some of your other posts, so I'm not sure how old your baby is,but I know my daughter, Maddie, had trouble with reflux, especially at night time. Does he spit up a lot? Just a thought. I hope things get easier quickly. Michele LINDSEY L SHEPPARD wrote: Hi Kori, Thanks for the tips. We will try to get the tongue as smooth as possible across his feet today. One of his shoes is too big, which is part of the problem. is supposed to be sending us a replacement any day now....can't wait to get it! After leaving our baby's shoes off for a while last night, his red marks started to go away. I don't think any of them actually turned into sores. We caught it in time. I can send pictures if you still want, but we've already sent pictures to Dr. Ponseti, and he thought our baby's affected foot looked good. We're starting to think maybe we're dealing with something else. Our son doesn't exactly have the easiest temperament in the world, and he also hasn't been sleeping well at all (which would make any baby crabby I suppose). We're lucky if he sleeps a total of 10 hours, day and night total. We've had him to his pediatrician just to see if there's anything else going on with him. We're really just having a time, and we're not sure why. Thanks for your help, and we'll try to make sure we have the tongue across his foot properly! Lindsey frogabog wrote: You absolutely MUST not let the tongue fold. Don't pull against it when you cinch the buckle. Before you buckle it, pull the tongue HARD over the top of the foot and over the rubber. Pull it till it won't go any further and then hold it there. Then pull the strap up hard and lie it over the tongue (no cinching) and then hold BOTH the tongue and the strap tightly against each other so they do not move. Then buckle the strap. This way, you should have no cinching to be done and thus, no buckling. If it still folds on itself, after the strap is tight, pull the tongue straight under the strap. the hole in the tongue should be right above the top edge of the middle strap. This tells you that the tongue is in the right place. Where are his blisters?? The red mark should go away as long as you don't make that little fold again. It may take some time, due to the pressure on the area in the shoe but it will heal. If it's an open sore, that's a different story. Can you tell us more about (or show us) this sore so we can help you with healing? Are you 100% sure his feet are fully corrected? Other than the red mark from the fold, there' nothing really that should make him cry. However, if his feet aren't corrected he will not be happy in any brace. If you have pictures of his feet, I'd say let us take a peek at them. A little red mark usually won't make a babe that unhappy. I'm a bit concerned because these shoes usually do the trick. In fact, I haven't heard of anyone who had problems with crying after they got them so I'm more than a little concerned about correction. Kori At 05:01 PM 7/25/2006, you wrote: >My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never >end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. >Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still >cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, >and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s >tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the >tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap >tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are >red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go >away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he >is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just >went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from >not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take >this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. >But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone >else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem >to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > >Thanks, Lindsey > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 Michele, Hi, yes, my son does spit up quite a bit. He's 3 1/2 months old. We actually took him to his Dr. earlier this week, and the Dr. thought reflux might be an issue, so he is now on prevacid. He's been taking it for about 2 days now, but we haven't noticed a huge change yet. Maybe it takes a while?? Thanks! Lindsey Michele Frye wrote: Lindsey, I've missed some of your other posts, so I'm not sure how old your baby is,but I know my daughter, Maddie, had trouble with reflux, especially at night time. Does he spit up a lot? Just a thought. I hope things get easier quickly. Michele LINDSEY L SHEPPARD wrote: Hi Kori, Thanks for the tips. We will try to get the tongue as smooth as possible across his feet today. One of his shoes is too big, which is part of the problem. is supposed to be sending us a replacement any day now....can't wait to get it! After leaving our baby's shoes off for a while last night, his red marks started to go away. I don't think any of them actually turned into sores. We caught it in time. I can send pictures if you still want, but we've already sent pictures to Dr. Ponseti, and he thought our baby's affected foot looked good. We're starting to think maybe we're dealing with something else. Our son doesn't exactly have the easiest temperament in the world, and he also hasn't been sleeping well at all (which would make any baby crabby I suppose). We're lucky if he sleeps a total of 10 hours, day and night total. We've had him to his pediatrician just to see if there's anything else going on with him. We're really just having a time, and we're not sure why. Thanks for your help, and we'll try to make sure we have the tongue across his foot properly! Lindsey frogabog wrote: You absolutely MUST not let the tongue fold. Don't pull against it when you cinch the buckle. Before you buckle it, pull the tongue HARD over the top of the foot and over the rubber. Pull it till it won't go any further and then hold it there. Then pull the strap up hard and lie it over the tongue (no cinching) and then hold BOTH the tongue and the strap tightly against each other so they do not move. Then buckle the strap. This way, you should have no cinching to be done and thus, no buckling. If it still folds on itself, after the strap is tight, pull the tongue straight under the strap. the hole in the tongue should be right above the top edge of the middle strap. This tells you that the tongue is in the right place. Where are his blisters?? The red mark should go away as long as you don't make that little fold again. It may take some time, due to the pressure on the area in the shoe but it will heal. If it's an open sore, that's a different story. Can you tell us more about (or show us) this sore so we can help you with healing? Are you 100% sure his feet are fully corrected? Other than the red mark from the fold, there' nothing really that should make him cry. However, if his feet aren't corrected he will not be happy in any brace. If you have pictures of his feet, I'd say let us take a peek at them. A little red mark usually won't make a babe that unhappy. I'm a bit concerned because these shoes usually do the trick. In fact, I haven't heard of anyone who had problems with crying after they got them so I'm more than a little concerned about correction. Kori At 05:01 PM 7/25/2006, you wrote: >My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never >end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. >Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still >cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, >and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s >tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the >tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap >tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are >red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go >away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he >is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just >went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from >not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take >this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. >But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone >else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem >to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > >Thanks, Lindsey > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 Lindsey, The brace will not be the answer if your son's foot is not corrected. If the foot is not fully corrected, forcing it into a brace will only cause them discomfort. The brace should not be a torture device at all! Are you sure that his foot is ready for the brace? Was he casted out to the 70° abduction angle in the last casts? (it would have almost looked like his foot was backwards in the cast) Do you think his foot changed at all initially when you were having problems in the first brace? There is a chance that it regressed in those first days/weeks. There are pictures of the progression of the casts and what they should have looked like in the Global HELP booklet if that helps you (not sure if you'll remember what his casts looked like). I know you were going to send pictures to Dr. P...did you hear back from him? I know you're not too far from Iowa City- I'd really encourage you to try to make the trip if possible (or St. Louis to see Dr. Dobbs). Email me if you want to! ('s mom) > > My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never > end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. > Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still > cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, > and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s > tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the > tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap > tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are > red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go > away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he > is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just > went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from > not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take > this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. > But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone > else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem > to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > > Thanks, Lindsey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 Hi , Yes, we did hear back from Dr. P and he said he thought Christian's foot looked good. We've sent him another e-mail telling him that we are continuing to have problems, and we told him we were more than willing to go to Iowa City if he thinks it would help. I think our Dr. in Springfield is good at what he does, but he just doesn't seem to have anymore answers for us. I'll keep you posted. Thanks, Lindsey jennyandkelly wrote: Lindsey, The brace will not be the answer if your son's foot is not corrected. If the foot is not fully corrected, forcing it into a brace will only cause them discomfort. The brace should not be a torture device at all! Are you sure that his foot is ready for the brace? Was he casted out to the 70° abduction angle in the last casts? (it would have almost looked like his foot was backwards in the cast) Do you think his foot changed at all initially when you were having problems in the first brace? There is a chance that it regressed in those first days/weeks. There are pictures of the progression of the casts and what they should have looked like in the Global HELP booklet if that helps you (not sure if you'll remember what his casts looked like). I know you were going to send pictures to Dr. P...did you hear back from him? I know you're not too far from Iowa City- I'd really encourage you to try to make the trip if possible (or St. Louis to see Dr. Dobbs). Email me if you want to! ('s mom) > > My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never > end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. > Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still > cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, > and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s > tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the > tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap > tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are > red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go > away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he > is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just > went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from > not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take > this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. > But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone > else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem > to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > > Thanks, Lindsey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 Lindsey, You want to be able to set the shoes down, lay him down with his shoulders between the heels of the shoes and have him fit perfectly in there - maybe even a tiny bit of space on either side. You'll know when you have the bar the right length because he won't be uncomfortable anymore. It's weird, but kind of a theory I have, that boys seem to like the bar more on the long side and girls can be comfortable with it a little shorter (by no means a hard and fast rule, just something that seems to be holding true in my own un-scientific observation) : ) You said he was sleeping through the night before right? If his feet are well corrected, which Dr. P is certainly the expert on that, then I think this really sounds like a classic case of bar too short. Adjust it to where his shoulders will fit comfortably between the heels as I described and let us know what happens, okay? > > > > My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never > > end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. > > Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still > > cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, > > and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s > > tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the > > tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap > > tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are > > red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go > > away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he > > is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just > > went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from > > not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take > > this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. > > But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone > > else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem > > to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > > > > Thanks, Lindsey > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 Lindsey, I'd be concerned that there were some issues with the foot that would not be able to be identified via photographs- only with a physical exam. That's why I asked about the 70° abduction angle. If the foot was never casted to 70 degrees, and now it's being forced into that position in the FAB (s are set up at 60° which is equivalent to 70° on the Markells I'm told), it would be very uncomfortable. Also the dorsiflexion- but you should be able to tell that by yourself- just by examination and also if you're having problems getting the heel down in the shoe. Hopefully you'll be able to troubleshoot the problem soon! I'm sorry you're not getting support from your current doctor. Do you know if he treats many clubfoot cases each year and what his success rate is? Do you know where he did his training on the Ponseti method? I know Dr. is in Springfield (he used to be in the Twin Cities in Minnesota) and he has been using the Ponseti method for quite a few years...but I haven't come across any families who have gone to him since he relocated to IL. > > > > My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will > never > > end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. > > Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he > still > > cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, > > and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the > s > > tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the > > tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle > strap > > tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are > > red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go > > away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he > > is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just > > went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from > > not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take > > this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. > > But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone > > else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem > > to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > > > > Thanks, Lindsey > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 I will try and let you know, ! Thanks! wrote: Lindsey, You want to be able to set the shoes down, lay him down with his shoulders between the heels of the shoes and have him fit perfectly in there - maybe even a tiny bit of space on either side. You'll know when you have the bar the right length because he won't be uncomfortable anymore. It's weird, but kind of a theory I have, that boys seem to like the bar more on the long side and girls can be comfortable with it a little shorter (by no means a hard and fast rule, just something that seems to be holding true in my own un-scientific observation) : ) You said he was sleeping through the night before right? If his feet are well corrected, which Dr. P is certainly the expert on that, then I think this really sounds like a classic case of bar too short. Adjust it to where his shoulders will fit comfortably between the heels as I described and let us know what happens, okay? > > > > My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never > > end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. > > Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still > > cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, > > and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s > > tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the > > tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap > > tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are > > red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go > > away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he > > is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just > > went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from > > not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take > > this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. > > But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone > > else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem > > to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > > > > Thanks, Lindsey > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 26, 2006 Report Share Posted July 26, 2006 Lindsey, It took a few days for Maddie to adjust to the Zantac. We also propped up part of her crib mattress, and that helped the reflux too. Michele LINDSEY L SHEPPARD wrote: Michele, Hi, yes, my son does spit up quite a bit. He's 3 1/2 months old. We actually took him to his Dr. earlier this week, and the Dr. thought reflux might be an issue, so he is now on prevacid. He's been taking it for about 2 days now, but we haven't noticed a huge change yet. Maybe it takes a while?? Thanks! Lindsey Michele Frye wrote: Lindsey, I've missed some of your other posts, so I'm not sure how old your baby is,but I know my daughter, Maddie, had trouble with reflux, especially at night time. Does he spit up a lot? Just a thought. I hope things get easier quickly. Michele LINDSEY L SHEPPARD wrote: Hi Kori, Thanks for the tips. We will try to get the tongue as smooth as possible across his feet today. One of his shoes is too big, which is part of the problem. is supposed to be sending us a replacement any day now....can't wait to get it! After leaving our baby's shoes off for a while last night, his red marks started to go away. I don't think any of them actually turned into sores. We caught it in time. I can send pictures if you still want, but we've already sent pictures to Dr. Ponseti, and he thought our baby's affected foot looked good. We're starting to think maybe we're dealing with something else. Our son doesn't exactly have the easiest temperament in the world, and he also hasn't been sleeping well at all (which would make any baby crabby I suppose). We're lucky if he sleeps a total of 10 hours, day and night total. We've had him to his pediatrician just to see if there's anything else going on with him. We're really just having a time, and we're not sure why. Thanks for your help, and we'll try to make sure we have the tongue across his foot properly! Lindsey frogabog wrote: You absolutely MUST not let the tongue fold. Don't pull against it when you cinch the buckle. Before you buckle it, pull the tongue HARD over the top of the foot and over the rubber. Pull it till it won't go any further and then hold it there. Then pull the strap up hard and lie it over the tongue (no cinching) and then hold BOTH the tongue and the strap tightly against each other so they do not move. Then buckle the strap. This way, you should have no cinching to be done and thus, no buckling. If it still folds on itself, after the strap is tight, pull the tongue straight under the strap. the hole in the tongue should be right above the top edge of the middle strap. This tells you that the tongue is in the right place. Where are his blisters?? The red mark should go away as long as you don't make that little fold again. It may take some time, due to the pressure on the area in the shoe but it will heal. If it's an open sore, that's a different story. Can you tell us more about (or show us) this sore so we can help you with healing? Are you 100% sure his feet are fully corrected? Other than the red mark from the fold, there' nothing really that should make him cry. However, if his feet aren't corrected he will not be happy in any brace. If you have pictures of his feet, I'd say let us take a peek at them. A little red mark usually won't make a babe that unhappy. I'm a bit concerned because these shoes usually do the trick. In fact, I haven't heard of anyone who had problems with crying after they got them so I'm more than a little concerned about correction. Kori At 05:01 PM 7/25/2006, you wrote: >My husband and I are starting to feel like this nightmare will never >end! Our son has been in the brace for 5 days now. >Although he is less miserable than he was in the Markells, he still >cries a lot during the day, wants to be held almost all the time, >and is not sleeping well at night at all. We took off the s >tonight for a bath, and he has red marks on his feet where the >tongue of the shoe folds just a little when we pull the middle strap >tight. How do we prevent that? And what do you do when there are >red marks or blisters? Do you leave the shoes off til they go >away? My son has had the brace off for almost 3 hours now, and he >is a different baby....he's happy, he smiles, he laughs. He just >went to sleep in his crib, and he seemed absolutely EXHAUSTED from >not sleeping for the past several nights or days. I want to take >this brace and toss it in the street, but I know I can't do that. >But I'm SO sick of feeling like I'm torturing my baby. Has anyone >else felt this way? Does anyone have suggestions? We thought the > shoes would be the answer, but our son still doesn't seem >to be adjusting. I can't take 3 more months of this! > >Thanks, Lindsey > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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