Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 Hi , Welcome to the group , First of all, Congratulations on your pregnancy! And just so you know, the vast majority of club foot diagnosies are of singular idiopathic anomolies and No other issues are found. We still don't what causes club foot nor why it happens. In our case no cf on either side could be found but who knows, in decades past at least in my family, things were not always disclosed?!. You are right! You will find so much comfort in this site! This group was like a life line to me when Grace was born as I really and honestly didn't know what club foot was (her right club foot was undiagnosed even though I had 6 U/S's done because of her kidney issues ) It sounds so silly now that I have learned so much and can spout off terms like abduction and dorsiflexion etc like they are nothing but quite honestly, you too will become something of an 'expert' on your child's condition because You are his/her mama! We kinda fell into Ponseti treatment (TG)...went for initial treatment at our Children's Hosp. in Vancouver Canada and were HORRIFIED at how Grace was treated/casted and I said I wanted her records transfered to Royal Columbian Hospital (the one she was born at) right then and there! To re-play a bit...I had planned on her being treated by Dr. Pirani at RCH but he was away at the time of her birth and even though I had heard rave reviews about him from the nurses (who I always listen to the most having many family members in the medical field) I didn't know that it would be OK to wait the week and a half for him to get back to have her casted. Come to find out from this group that I could have waited much much longer than that but at the time, I just wanted her foot fixed. Well, TG that that experience at Children's was so bad cuz I asked that her records be forwarded to Dr. Pirani right then and there. I remembered dr. " M " being shocked at my request but composing himself and telling me that he had 'heard great things about Dr. Pirani " . I didn't know anything about the Ponseti Method at that point but I KNEW that Dr. Pirani MUST be better than what I experienced there!!!! I won't go into any great detail but I will say that my daughter was left screaming on a bed unnecessily (at Childeren's) and that a casting tech applied the cast without the dr.s supervision with her continuing her screaming untill she turned blue....I cried the whole time, it was NOT good = thus my demanding her records be transfered! So - second casting....waiting in the waiting room at Royal Columbial Hosp. and I can't help it, I start crying again, like hormal kind mixed with what the hell is club foot and why did this happen to us on top of our other medical issues. Well, I cannot tell you in words what a difference his treatment method's were compared to the first doc's that we saw but I will try... First, he actually asked me what was wrong and I think I said 'what do you mean, my daughter has a club foot! - Loking back, now I can chide myself and laugh but at the time I thought " Are you Crazy, What's wrong?? My Kid has a Crooked Foot???!! " He then pulled out the " props " or series of casts that the foot goes through to achieve full correction and explained how each cast would be applied and by then with his soft voice, my daughter (and I) had stopped crying. I don't want to " put down " an institution but while he was unwrapping the initial cast applied by the tech at Children's I couldn't help but notice that Dr. Pirani was less than happy by the thick thick thick cotton batton that they had applied under Gracies cast. He then explained to me what the casts that he had shown me earlier meant....that with the Ponseit method, as Graces foot was moved outward, the bones in her foot were manipulated/moved in a certian sequence untill she had a perfect foot. At that point he started to cast her but she was still quite upset (Probably from having the other cast removed......all the cotton batton, still a fiberglass) and Dr. Pirani asked me if I would like to take a break and nurse her/give her a bottle to calm her down a bit? He said that he didn't like to treat an unhappy baby. So he gave me some time to sooth her and in subsiquent casting's I nursed her while she was casted....she NEVER made a peep after that! I also want to point out something that Dr. Pirani has said that I think just reinforces how humble he is....he said that he was responsible for 5% of the correction and that I as the parent (bracing) was responsible for 95% of her treatment. Thanks in large part from this group, we Never had any problem with her brace and my sweetie will have a perfect foot! Welcome again, we are glad that you are here! And BTW, our daughters foot was corrected with 4 casts. The usual is 5-7 with Ponseti treatment but you just never know Again , glad that you are here!! Smiles, & Grace 22mos Urcf FAB 13hrs > > Hi. My name is and last week my husband and I were told > that our unborn child has bilateral club feet. I am 21 weeks pregnant > and this is our first child. We are waiting on results from an amnio > to make sure there are no accompanying problems. > > Reading the posts here have greatly alleviated my fears and my guilt > and my shame at my reaction to finding out there was a problem with my > baby. I have spent, it seems like, an entire week on the internet > researching and reading about CF. I have ready many,many positive > things about the Ponseti method and will seek a Dr. trained in this > method to treat my child. > > On the University of Iowa website it lists two doctors in Tampa , who > practice at the Shriners Hospital, and are trained in the Ponseti > method. I was wondering if anyone here is from Florida and what Dr's > they used. Has anyone been treated at any Shriners Hospital or > specifically the one in Tampa? > > I look forward to reading more about all of you and your experiences > as my pregnancy progresses. And I am positive you will all be a God > send when my baby is born and starting treatment and I need advice or > just to vent. > > Thanks in advance. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 Hi , Thank you so much for the positive reassurances. After reading your post, I realized that I think one of the reasons my husband and I have been, what I consider, unreasonably upset over a " little foot problem " ; is because of how we were treated and told about the problem. Throughout my pregnancy, I have dreaded Dr visits because they seem so mechanical and impersonal. My Obgyn office is like a cattle shute. Move em in, move em out! I tend to see different midwifes on my visits and I don't even know their names. I chose the midwifery program because I thought I would get a more personal, motherly touch. I am unable to leave this practice for another because I am self-pay and have already paid quite a bit down. I can't afford to start over at another practice. My husband and I have health insurance, but it doesn't cover maternity. Anyway, without taking an hour to give all the tiny details, we were told about the CF so harshly, quickly and impersonally that I don't think we even understood what was going on. The Dr was in such a rush to finish us and move on, it seemed. We felt so alone and let down by the very people we are paying to guide us through this pregnancy. After reading your post, I will make sure that my baby doesn't get handled the same way. Like you, I will find a better practitioner if I don't think we are being treated appropriately. I know Dr's are stressed and busy but I'm not going to see them now because I have a cold... I'm trusting them with the care of myself and my baby. That's HUGE! A little empathy and tenderness goes a long way. Thanks again for your reply. > > > > Hi. My name is and last week my husband and I were told > > that our unborn child has bilateral club feet. I am 21 weeks > pregnant > > and this is our first child. We are waiting on results from an > amnio > > to make sure there are no accompanying problems. > > > > Reading the posts here have greatly alleviated my fears and my guilt > > and my shame at my reaction to finding out there was a problem with > my > > baby. I have spent, it seems like, an entire week on the internet > > researching and reading about CF. I have ready many,many positive > > things about the Ponseti method and will seek a Dr. trained in this > > method to treat my child. > > > > On the University of Iowa website it lists two doctors in Tampa , > who > > practice at the Shriners Hospital, and are trained in the Ponseti > > method. I was wondering if anyone here is from Florida and what > Dr's > > they used. Has anyone been treated at any Shriners Hospital or > > specifically the one in Tampa? > > > > I look forward to reading more about all of you and your experiences > > as my pregnancy progresses. And I am positive you will all be a God > > send when my baby is born and starting treatment and I need advice > or > > just to vent. > > > > Thanks in advance. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 Hi, , and welcome, We're glad you posted and have been reassured by what you've read here. I'm so sorry that the diagnosis and news you were given was handled in such a crummy way. It would be hard no matter how many pregancies you'd had, but especially in your first. We know how scared and overwhelmed you probably still are.. and afraid of the unknown. We have been there before, and hope to help! First of all, it's normal for you to be worried. But let me tell you that in my years of experience with this now, I have known dozens of parents who have been scared to death by their doctors at ultrasounds that there " Might Be Something Else Wrong " and in the great majority of cases, there never is. Clubfoot is very often an isolated defect, with the baby completely healthy and normal in every other way. It might not feel like it now, but you are very lucky to have found out ahead of time.. rather than be surprised at delivery, so you have time to be prepared and research your options. My daughter was born with unilateral left clubfoot, a surprise at delivery for us.. but which has been completely corrected with the Ponseti method. She is now almost 6. She takes ballet, plays soccer, jumps rope, tiptoes, climbs, wears cute sandals, goes barefoot.. No one can tell anything was ever wrong with her foot. She has excellent function. Her foot is normal looking and hard to distinguish as different from the other. She is a regular little girl .. smart, active, capable and completely fine. She is not AT ALL 'defined' by her foot. It's common to worry and wonder if your child will look normal, have good function, not limp, be able to do the things other children do.. With good treatment, the answer is absolutely yes! Many, many of us don't know of other cases in our families; that doesn't make it any worse or different. It is a congenital defect (a defect appearing at birth) with unknown cause, due to a combination of genetic and/or environmental factors. No one knows what triggers it. My advice, as someone who worried A LOT, is not to spend a lot of time wondering 'how it happened', what event or what you did to 'cause it'. There's no one or one thing to blame. It's just something that happens, like many things in life, and you do what you need to do to help your baby. What's fortunate is that, as birth defects go, it's a very correctable one. A clubfoot is still a foot with the parts there.. it's just twisted, into a sort of three dimensional puzzle, but one which can be " undone " by someone who knows what they are doing. It's VERY important, however, to get a skilled doctor to accomplish it .. so throw yourself into that effort and search.. and be optimistic! Your baby is being born at an excellent time, when great progress has been made in clubfoot treatment, in recognition and understanding of the value of the Ponseti method. I don't know personally about doctors in Florida, but I'm sure you'll get some good feedback here. Be aware that you will have to be vigilant, and not take what the doctor says at face value, if you are determined to get the best care for your baby. Sometimes it takes a bit a travel to get to a good doc. (Be sure to read the " checklist " for parents at the Ponseti Links site.) As said, you will no doubt become an expert on this condition. The minute your baby is born, you will be 'the' expert on him or her. Listen to your instincts! So.. your sweet little baby will be born, you will love him or her.. you will be able to do what you need to do. Please don't let dread or worry sap the joy out of your pregnancy and early days with your baby. You will be strong, and your baby will be OK. I know that's hard to imagine now, but in a few months/years, you'll be here saying the same to other parents! You've probably already seen the following websites, but check them out if you haven't: http://www.uihealthcare.com/topics/medicaldepartments/orthopaedics/clu bfeet/index.html http://members.tripod.com/ponseti_links-ivil/ http://www.global-help.org/publications/cf-english.pdf I hope this helps. Take care, and Claire 6/29/00, left cf, corrected, doing great Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 , Sounds like you could use a little " personal touch " , which I hope you can find here. We are a pretty " motherly " bunch and we would love to be there for you as you go through this, to help you in any way we can. Keep us posted! Mom to Jenna (4/7/01) & Sammy (9/25/04, RCF, Dobbs' brace, 12-14hrs/day) > > > > > > Hi. My name is and last week my husband and I were told > > > that our unborn child has bilateral club feet. I am 21 weeks > > pregnant > > > and this is our first child. We are waiting on results from an > > amnio > > > to make sure there are no accompanying problems. > > > > > > Reading the posts here have greatly alleviated my fears and my guilt > > > and my shame at my reaction to finding out there was a problem with > > my > > > baby. I have spent, it seems like, an entire week on the internet > > > researching and reading about CF. I have ready many,many positive > > > things about the Ponseti method and will seek a Dr. trained in this > > > method to treat my child. > > > > > > On the University of Iowa website it lists two doctors in Tampa , > > who > > > practice at the Shriners Hospital, and are trained in the Ponseti > > > method. I was wondering if anyone here is from Florida and what > > Dr's > > > they used. Has anyone been treated at any Shriners Hospital or > > > specifically the one in Tampa? > > > > > > I look forward to reading more about all of you and your experiences > > > as my pregnancy progresses. And I am positive you will all be a God > > > send when my baby is born and starting treatment and I need advice > > or > > > just to vent. > > > > > > Thanks in advance. > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 Hi , Sorry to hear that you were told of your baby's club foot so harshly! It's too bad that these doc's are so darned busy! Ours was the same, in fact the nurses where Grace was born made a few cracks about him. Basically saying that he was one of those busy OB's that didn't show up until you were at least 8 cm's, collected his $1500 for the delivery and was outta there haha, (I can laugh about it now) and honestly, the nurses were so great that I really didn't care at the time....I had more important things on my mind....mainly, GET THIS BABY OUT lol! I was happy to have my OB though because he did an awesome job stitching me up (I tore from Grace's shoulders, she has these massive shoulders from her dad). For me, I was pissed because we had 7 US's - one was even one of those new ones in colour and 3D and they never picked up on her right club foot. But anyway, this group is far better than any doc (that isn't Ponseti) or Ped for advise for club foot I have found personally anyway I am glad to hear that you are feelin better about the whole thing! Once you find a good Ponseti doctor and get things set up, you will feel so so so much better!!! He/She will explain the whole process to you etc. Smiles, & Grace > > > > > > Hi. My name is and last week my husband and I were told > > > that our unborn child has bilateral club feet. I am 21 weeks > > pregnant > > > and this is our first child. We are waiting on results from an > > amnio > > > to make sure there are no accompanying problems. > > > > > > Reading the posts here have greatly alleviated my fears and my guilt > > > and my shame at my reaction to finding out there was a problem with > > my > > > baby. I have spent, it seems like, an entire week on the internet > > > researching and reading about CF. I have ready many,many positive > > > things about the Ponseti method and will seek a Dr. trained in this > > > method to treat my child. > > > > > > On the University of Iowa website it lists two doctors in Tampa , > > who > > > practice at the Shriners Hospital, and are trained in the Ponseti > > > method. I was wondering if anyone here is from Florida and what > > Dr's > > > they used. Has anyone been treated at any Shriners Hospital or > > > specifically the one in Tampa? > > > > > > I look forward to reading more about all of you and your experiences > > > as my pregnancy progresses. And I am positive you will all be a God > > > send when my baby is born and starting treatment and I need advice > > or > > > just to vent. > > > > > > Thanks in advance. > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 , When was born, we didn't know he'd have cf. My midwife got all angry at me and said to be glad it wasn't his head I ruint, only his feet. I was in shock for three solid days so bad I couldn't even look at his feet, honestly. I would avert my eyes and not look I was so ashamed of myself for ruining my baby. THings get better though, and you'll be OK. s. Re: New to forum - Anyone live in Tampa Bay area?(Long reply to ) Hi , Thank you so much for the positive reassurances. After reading your post, I realized that I think one of the reasons my husband and I have been, what I consider, unreasonably upset over a " little foot problem " ; is because of how we were treated and told about the problem. Throughout my pregnancy, I have dreaded Dr visits because they seem so mechanical and impersonal. My Obgyn office is like a cattle shute. Move em in, move em out! I tend to see different midwifes on my visits and I don't even know their names. I chose the midwifery program because I thought I would get a more personal, motherly touch. I am unable to leave this practice for another because I am self-pay and have already paid quite a bit down. I can't afford to start over at another practice. My husband and I have health insurance, but it doesn't cover maternity. Anyway, without taking an hour to give all the tiny details, we were told about the CF so harshly, quickly and impersonally that I don't think we even understood what was going on. The Dr was in such a rush to finish us and move on, it seemed. We felt so alone and let down by the very people we are paying to guide us through this pregnancy. After reading your post, I will make sure that my baby doesn't get handled the same way. Like you, I will find a better practitioner if I don't think we are being treated appropriately. I know Dr's are stressed and busy but I'm not going to see them now because I have a cold... I'm trusting them with the care of myself and my baby. That's HUGE! A little empathy and tenderness goes a long way. Thanks again for your reply. > > > > Hi. My name is and last week my husband and I were told > > that our unborn child has bilateral club feet. I am 21 weeks > pregnant > > and this is our first child. We are waiting on results from an > amnio > > to make sure there are no accompanying problems. > > > > Reading the posts here have greatly alleviated my fears and my guilt > > and my shame at my reaction to finding out there was a problem with > my > > baby. I have spent, it seems like, an entire week on the internet > > researching and reading about CF. I have ready many,many positive > > things about the Ponseti method and will seek a Dr. trained in this > > method to treat my child. > > > > On the University of Iowa website it lists two doctors in Tampa , > who > > practice at the Shriners Hospital, and are trained in the Ponseti > > method. I was wondering if anyone here is from Florida and what > Dr's > > they used. Has anyone been treated at any Shriners Hospital or > > specifically the one in Tampa? > > > > I look forward to reading more about all of you and your experiences > > as my pregnancy progresses. And I am positive you will all be a God > > send when my baby is born and starting treatment and I need advice > or > > just to vent. > > > > Thanks in advance. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 Oh ee, that was terrible of her to say. Imagine what she'd make of you after hearing you " ruined " three of them number23 wrote: , When was born, we didn't know he'd have cf. My midwife got all angry at me and said to be glad it wasn't his head I ruint, only his feet. I was in shock for three solid days so bad I couldn't even look at his feet, honestly. I would avert my eyes and not look I was so ashamed of myself for ruining my baby. THings get better though, and you'll be OK. s. Re: New to forum - Anyone live in Tampa Bay area?(Long reply to ) Hi , Thank you so much for the positive reassurances. After reading your post, I realized that I think one of the reasons my husband and I have been, what I consider, unreasonably upset over a " little foot problem " ; is because of how we were treated and told about the problem. Throughout my pregnancy, I have dreaded Dr visits because they seem so mechanical and impersonal. My Obgyn office is like a cattle shute. Move em in, move em out! I tend to see different midwifes on my visits and I don't even know their names. I chose the midwifery program because I thought I would get a more personal, motherly touch. I am unable to leave this practice for another because I am self-pay and have already paid quite a bit down. I can't afford to start over at another practice. My husband and I have health insurance, but it doesn't cover maternity. Anyway, without taking an hour to give all the tiny details, we were told about the CF so harshly, quickly and impersonally that I don't think we even understood what was going on. The Dr was in such a rush to finish us and move on, it seemed. We felt so alone and let down by the very people we are paying to guide us through this pregnancy. After reading your post, I will make sure that my baby doesn't get handled the same way. Like you, I will find a better practitioner if I don't think we are being treated appropriately. I know Dr's are stressed and busy but I'm not going to see them now because I have a cold... I'm trusting them with the care of myself and my baby. That's HUGE! A little empathy and tenderness goes a long way. Thanks again for your reply. > > > > Hi. My name is and last week my husband and I were told > > that our unborn child has bilateral club feet. I am 21 weeks > pregnant > > and this is our first child. We are waiting on results from an > amnio > > to make sure there are no accompanying problems. > > > > Reading the posts here have greatly alleviated my fears and my guilt > > and my shame at my reaction to finding out there was a problem with > my > > baby. I have spent, it seems like, an entire week on the internet > > researching and reading about CF. I have ready many,many positive > > things about the Ponseti method and will seek a Dr. trained in this > > method to treat my child. > > > > On the University of Iowa website it lists two doctors in Tampa , > who > > practice at the Shriners Hospital, and are trained in the Ponseti > > method. I was wondering if anyone here is from Florida and what > Dr's > > they used. Has anyone been treated at any Shriners Hospital or > > specifically the one in Tampa? > > > > I look forward to reading more about all of you and your experiences > > as my pregnancy progresses. And I am positive you will all be a God > > send when my baby is born and starting treatment and I need advice > or > > just to vent. > > > > Thanks in advance. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 What an awful thing to say, and how stupid as well, as if clubfoot was something anyone could cause on purpose (or cause at all actually...). When Alister was born the midwife just asked me if it was what we were expecting (it was in the notes from the scan) and I said 'yes' without even looking, I only had eyes for his little face. with (3.5y) and Alister (3.5y, right CF, Ponseti method, UK) > > > , > When was born, we didn't know he'd have cf. > My midwife got all angry at me and said to be glad > it wasn't his head I ruint, only his feet. I was > in shock for three solid days so bad I couldn't > even look at his feet, honestly. I would avert my > eyes and not look I was so ashamed of myself for > ruining my baby. > > THings get better though, and you'll be OK. > > s. ___________________________________________________________ Switch an email account to Yahoo! Mail, you could win FIFA World Cup tickets. http://uk.mail.yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 What that midwife said to you is unforgivable. I'm so sorry you were made to feel responsible. Shame on her. > > > > > > Hi. My name is and last week my husband and I were told > > > that our unborn child has bilateral club feet. I am 21 weeks > > pregnant > > > and this is our first child. We are waiting on results from an > > amnio > > > to make sure there are no accompanying problems. > > > > > > Reading the posts here have greatly alleviated my fears and my guilt > > > and my shame at my reaction to finding out there was a problem with > > my > > > baby. I have spent, it seems like, an entire week on the internet > > > researching and reading about CF. I have ready many,many positive > > > things about the Ponseti method and will seek a Dr. trained in this > > > method to treat my child. > > > > > > On the University of Iowa website it lists two doctors in Tampa , > > who > > > practice at the Shriners Hospital, and are trained in the Ponseti > > > method. I was wondering if anyone here is from Florida and what > > Dr's > > > they used. Has anyone been treated at any Shriners Hospital or > > > specifically the one in Tampa? > > > > > > I look forward to reading more about all of you and your experiences > > > as my pregnancy progresses. And I am positive you will all be a God > > > send when my baby is born and starting treatment and I need advice > > or > > > just to vent. > > > > > > Thanks in advance. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 Water under the bridge. I have a feeling she was somewhat offended I broke her record of perfect babies or something...whatever. I found a couple pictures of last night I need to send through. s. Re: New to forum - Anyone live in Tampa Bay area?(Long reply to ) What that midwife said to you is unforgivable. I'm so sorry you were made to feel responsible. Shame on her. > > > > > > Hi. My name is and last week my husband and I were told > > > that our unborn child has bilateral club feet. I am 21 weeks > > pregnant > > > and this is our first child. We are waiting on results from an > > amnio > > > to make sure there are no accompanying problems. > > > > > > Reading the posts here have greatly alleviated my fears and my guilt > > > and my shame at my reaction to finding out there was a problem with > > my > > > baby. I have spent, it seems like, an entire week on the internet > > > researching and reading about CF. I have ready many,many positive > > > things about the Ponseti method and will seek a Dr. trained in this > > > method to treat my child. > > > > > > On the University of Iowa website it lists two doctors in Tampa , > > who > > > practice at the Shriners Hospital, and are trained in the Ponseti > > > method. I was wondering if anyone here is from Florida and what > > Dr's > > > they used. Has anyone been treated at any Shriners Hospital or > > > specifically the one in Tampa? > > > > > > I look forward to reading more about all of you and your experiences > > > as my pregnancy progresses. And I am positive you will all be a God > > > send when my baby is born and starting treatment and I need advice > > or > > > just to vent. > > > > > > Thanks in advance. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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