Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 In a message dated 11/15/01 5:56:12 AM Pacific Standard Time, jjamineteoj@... writes: > In other words, IF someone were to eat the same way without having DS > surgery, wouldn't they lose much of the same weight? Is the surgery > just the incentive to MAKE you eat this way? > > No more diets has been true in my case. I eat whatever I want...if I want a piece of cake I eat it...but the funny thing is I no longer crave the junk food. I SERIOUSLY do not deprive myself of anything. With the DS, the malabsorption is the reason we can eat most anything along with a smaller stomach. Mine is between 4 and 5 ozs. I can right now eat a small plate of food, like a lunch plate size. Some things like soup I can eat more of. Even if I only ate junk, I'd never eat as much as I did post op. Even thought the surgery isn't on your head, your taste buds change and your cravings seem to go to a more normal level. I find when I've not eaten much protein that I begin to crave it. Maybe this changes as we get farther out from surgery (I'm not quite 4 months yet) but believe me...I'm not eating a certain way just for surgery. ~*~ AJ ~*~ Bellingham, WA Age 37 5'8'' Open DS self pay - Dr Baltasar -Alcoy Spain 07/24/01 BMI 64 415.1 08/24/01 BMI 58 386.5 -28.6 lbs! 09/24/01 BMI 55.8 367.1 -48.0 lbs! -37.75 inches 10/24/01 BMI 52.6 346.0 -69.1 lbs! -50.0 inches 11/14/01 BMI 50.8 334.0 -81.1 lbs! -66.0 inches My profile: http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/profile.phtml?N=E982002956 My website: www.wls4aj.homestead.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 In a message dated 11/15/01 5:56:12 AM Pacific Standard Time, jjamineteoj@... writes: > Understand, I am still sure I'm going to have the DS in January, but > I've just started a high-protein diet to try and shed some weight to > make the surgery easier on my body....and I am miserable. What's > going to change after the surgery? > > What are you eating?? Try to get some variety. The way to get the protein is not like the Dr. Atkins diet. You can eat carbs and other things, you just want to fill up first on getting in the protein..then add whever else sounds good!! ~*~ AJ ~*~ Bellingham, WA Age 37 5'8'' Open DS self pay - Dr Baltasar -Alcoy Spain 07/24/01 BMI 64 415.1 08/24/01 BMI 58 386.5 -28.6 lbs! 09/24/01 BMI 55.8 367.1 -48.0 lbs! -37.75 inches 10/24/01 BMI 52.6 346.0 -69.1 lbs! -50.0 inches 11/14/01 BMI 50.8 334.0 -81.1 lbs! -66.0 inches My profile: http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/profile.phtml?N=E982002956 My website: www.wls4aj.homestead.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 I wish I could explain to everyone who hasn't had the DS what eating is like afterwards. I used to love eating. I couldn't leave sweets alone and I would sometimes plan my day around being able to eat certain foods at certain places. I would routinely stop at the grocery store after work to pick up a pint of Ben & Jerry's ice cream to snack on. They never lasted more than a day in my house so I was always running to the store for one. Another favorite of mine was Dairy Queen ice cream cake. I would buy a whole sheet cake about once every few months and eat off of that for about a week. I would make myself a great big slice of cake as my dinner. Does any of this sound familiar? Since surgery, all of that has changed. At first I didn't like the taste of sweets at all. Nothing tasted good and I only ate because I knew I needed to. Now that I am 4 months out, things are tasting better. I once again like chocolate, but it isn't the same. I can open a snack pack of m & m's and I find after about 3 or 4 I don't want any more. It is like the feeling I would get after eating a whole bunch as a pre-op. The satisfied feeling comes much quicker. I tend to have bloating problems when I eat a lot of carbs now so I tend to stay away from those. I lived on carbs as a pre-op. Today I had Thai food for the first time since surgery. I had a favorite dish which is mostly noodles. It tasted really good and I kind of got that urge to eat more than I knew I should have. Now my stomach feels like someone is blowing a balloon up in it and my head is pounding. Even though I know I ate too much for me, it was only about 1/2-3/4 cup total. I used to eat about 6 times that amount and still be hun gry. I no longer plan my life around food. I find that things don't appeal to me the way they did before. Eating isn't the same. In a sense, it is kind of sad as I used to love eating, but now I am finding love in other activities. No one should center their life around food like I did before. Now I center my life around my family. It feels much better that way too. Kathy M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 JJ, <What's going to change after the surgery? Thanks for your thoughts, just second guessing myself! JJ> Excellent question what changes are two things: 1) stomach capacity beleive me you can no longer eat the quantities pre-op. I remember when I was a month out I forgot about capacity and took one more bite than I need and let me tell you I felt it...It felt like someone was squeezing my stomach to death and all I wanted to do was vomit. I didnt vomit because I wanted to retain that experience in my brain for a long time plus I know me the last thing I wanted was to over-eat all the time and then vomit (FYI after the DS vomiting is a little to easy, pre-op I would rather die than upchuck.) #2) Mal-absorption. yup combine your new baby stomach with bypassed intenstine and you get TADA weight loss so even on the days when you forget and you eat the donut when you are on a diet the donut hurts your weight loss with mal-absorption your body doesnt absorb all the fats so the donut isnt the end of your diet.....Well at least that is how I understand the whole Atkins diet vs DS *ding ding ding* We have a winner folks and its the DS!!!!!!! Lisbeth ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 >>when you forget and you eat the donut<< See, that's what I mean. To me, if you have to remember not to eat the donut, then that's a diet of sorts. I know I'm splitting hairs here, but I'm just wondering how much of the weight loss is automatic and how much is willpower/discipline. If I have a handfull of fritos to go with my half a sandwich lunch, will I not lose weight? If I have a small bowl of ice cream once or twice a week, will I not lose weight? If I have a beer 3 nights a week, will I not lose weight? If I eat a bowl of cereal for breakfast every morning, will I not lose weight? Again, I'm not talking about eating whatever I want all the time, and I know my stomach capacity will be much smaller. None of this is to question my decision, just trying to figure out what to expect. jj Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 > > None of this is to question my decision, just trying to figure out > what to expect. > > jj JJ, You are going to lose an obscene amount of weight very quickly. I have found that DS has afforded me a moderate life style when it comes to eating. I eat when I am hungry. Sometime it is a lot more than I ever expected to be able to eat other times its much less than the hunger that I am experiencing. You are going to blow your mind if you try to figure this out. Just take your vitamins toss in some extra protein and enjoy your new life. For me personally I spent too much time second guessing myself and such, time to live and smell them damn roses. My best to all of you during the Thanksgiving Holiday. Regards, 7/24/02 -96 and many inches of lard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 In a message dated 11/15/2001 7:56:45 AM Central Standard Time, jjamineteoj@... writes: > Here is what I'm getting at. The big advantage to this surgery for > me is that I heard a lot of people saying " No more diets! " ....but is > this actually true? Can I eat what ever I want to as long as I do so > in moderation and get enough protein/hydration? Will I WANT to eat > this way? Or am I just going to end up following an Atkins type diet > after the surgery simply because I've made this huge committment of > surgery? > > If you want to maximize weight loss during the weight loss period, sticking as low carb as possible will be beneficial. However, the big difference is that the weight will STAY off. Also eating a high carb treat here or there (if you use a maximize regimen) will not totally put you into a carb craze (at leas that is what it was like for me on an Atkins diet many years ago). You can have a few carbs here and there and it is not going to totally blow the chemistry of things. Also after the weight loss period you need to eat protein first to avoid nutritional problems, then eat what you want. Realize that if you gain a pound or two cutting back on sugars will usually do the trick. Dawn--South Suburban Chicago area Dr. Hess, Bowling Green, OH BPD/DS 4/27/00 www.duodenalswitch.com 267 to 165 5' 4 " size 22 to size 10 have made size goal no more high blood pressure, sore feet, or dieting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 In a message dated 11/15/2001 9:21:20 AM Central Standard Time, jjamineteoj@... writes: > . I know I'm splitting hairs > here, but I'm just wondering how much of the weight loss is automatic > and how much is willpower/discipline. > In my case absolutely non of the weight loss is from will power. I credit abosolutely all of my weight loss to the procedure! Now keeping my labs good with vitamins and protein first that is were a tiny bit of will power/discipline is needed. Dawn--South Suburban Chicago area Dr. Hess, Bowling Green, OH BPD/DS 4/27/00 www.duodenalswitch.com 267 to 165 5' 4 " size 22 to size 10 have made size goal no more high blood pressure, sore feet, or dieting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 In a message dated 11/15/2001 12:56:51 PM Central Standard Time, bristolgeo@... writes: > They accused me of taking the easy way out of obesity Ever hear of working smarter, not harder??? Why is that a sin??? Dawn--South Suburban Chicago area Dr. Hess, Bowling Green, OH BPD/DS 4/27/00 www.duodenalswitch.com 267 to 165 5' 4 " size 22 to size 10 have made size goal no more high blood pressure, sore feet, or dieting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 Hi, JJ - I am still pre-op, so take my opinion with a grain of salt Remember that the restrictive part of DS will help with you feeling satisfied and during the first few months the most weight comes off. I don't think that there's anyway that you could NOT not lose weight. The protein first thing has to be, that is a given with this surgery. We have to have the protein and vitamins to remain healthy. But with that being said, we can eat all other foods. Personally, I have been on so many diets in my life, KNOWING full well that the regain would come... but hating the weight enough to try again... THat I AM trusting that the surgery will do its job and I don't mind REALLY being SERIOUS with watching for the " window " . I also know that I will not be completely hard on myself, what for?? I will make my best effort, which will be good because I know I can do it and will get back to the YMCA. I loved to exercise before I became so huge and out of energy. > See, that's what I mean. To me, if you have to remember not to eat > the donut, then that's a diet of sorts. I know I'm splitting hairs > here, but I'm just wondering how much of the weight loss is automatic > and how much is willpower/discipline. I don't think we will " forget " that we are losing weight, so that may not be a problem. After all, I'm planning that my clothes falling off will be a good reminder LOL > > If I have a handfull of fritos to go with my half a sandwich lunch, > will I not lose weight? If I have a small bowl of ice cream once or > twice a week, will I not lose weight? If I have a beer 3 nights a > week, will I not lose weight? > Again, no matter what you will lose weight. But leave off the 3 beers a night for a week due to drastic weight loss effect on the liver. There have been some good posts regarding alcohol after surgery (look in the archives) > None of this is to question my decision, just trying to figure out > what to expect. > I have read so many posts and I am beginning to believe the posters are telling the truth LOL If I can ever get my approval, I can't wait to see if my faith has paid off! Wanda <dreaming of permanent weight loss... can it be true????> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 Glad you pointed that out JJ I tend to ramble so let me share my experience when I said forget I meant.....I have stuff like donuts and ice cream at home....before surgery I knew this stuff was at home hell I supplied it and I knew how much I had and how long it would take to consume...Now I will be in the freezer and I will be pulling out some chicken to defroast and out pops some ice-cream so I take a spoonful and its like ok off I go to make my chicken...Pre-op it would have been lets finish off half the icecream before dinner and leave the rest for after dinner...Now the obession isnt there...granted I am a bit weird so that is my experience Lisbeth jjamineteoj@... wrote: >>when you forget and you eat the donut<< See, that's what I mean. To me, if you have to remember not to eat the donut, then that's a diet of sorts. I know I'm splitting hairs here, but I'm just wondering how much of the weight loss is automatic and how much is willpower/discipline. If I have a handfull of fritos to go with my half a sandwich lunch, will I not lose weight? If I have a small bowl of ice cream once or twice a week, will I not lose weight? If I have a beer 3 nights a week, will I not lose weight? If I eat a bowl of cereal for breakfast every morning, will I not lose weight? Again, I'm not talking about eating whatever I want all the time, and I know my stomach capacity will be much smaller. None of this is to question my decision, just trying to figure out what to expect. jj ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 If I have a handfull of fritos to go with my half a sandwich lunch, will I not lose weight? If I have a small bowl of ice cream once or twice a week, will I not lose weight>>>>>>>> Of course you will lose if you eat those.....I eat frito scoops all the time......Mike eats ice cream every single night.......hasnt stopped either of us from losing and Im already at goal and he has 20 lbs to go! Judie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 > But leave off the 3 > beers a night for a week due to drastic weight loss effect on the > liver. Ummmm...it was one beer a nite, maybe 3 times a week....don't get the wrong idea here! LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 I have read so many posts and I am beginning to believe the posters are telling the truth LOL >>>>> Believe it! The surgery works, plain and simple!! Your stomach capacity is drastically reduced so you really get that feeling of satiety for the first time in your life.....when you feel that you will be AMAZED and very pleased that you are no longer hungry!! You WILL be able to eat anything you want after your protein.....you will NOT feel deprived in any way. I feel very blessed that I was obese becuz without that I would not have this new lease on life...... hugs, Judie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 >Mike eats ice cream every single night.......hasnt stopped either > of us from losing and Im already at goal and he has 20 lbs to go! Far out! Thanks you guys, I'm feeling better already! jj Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 Hi Judie - Can you imagine how we would be discussing this issue if we had all had the RNY? LOL ! ! ! ! Best- Nick Re: Re: High Protein Post Op.... > I have read so many posts and I am beginning to believe the posters > are telling the truth LOL >>>>> > > Believe it! The surgery works, plain and simple!! > Your stomach capacity is drastically reduced so you really get that feeling > of satiety for the first time in your life.....when you feel that you will > be AMAZED and very pleased that you are no longer hungry!! > You WILL be able to eat anything you want after your protein.....you will > NOT feel deprived in any way. > I feel very blessed that I was obese becuz without that I would not have > this new lease on life...... > > hugs, Judie > > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 Can you imagine how we would be discussing this issue if we had all had the RNY? LOL ! ! ! ! Best- Nick I belong to a local WLS support group. I am the only DS'r you should read some of their posts. I'd blow my brains out if I had to live such a strict life (food wise). They hate me I even stopped posting there. They accused me of taking the easy way out of obesity. Maybe I should cut and paste some of the high or should I say low lites of the board. Regards, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 Hi - It might be a good thing for some of the preops to see what the reality of the RNY is. I would be interested in reading some of their lowlights, as well. Best- Nick Re: High Protein Post Op.... > Can you imagine how we would be discussing this issue if we had all > had the > RNY? LOL ! ! ! ! > > Best- > > Nick > > I belong to a local WLS support group. I am the only DS'r you should > read some of their posts. I'd blow my brains out if I had to live > such a strict life (food wise). They hate me I even stopped posting > there. They accused me of taking the easy way out of obesity. Maybe I > should cut and paste some of the high or should I say low lites of > the board. > > Regards, > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 > > It might be a good thing for some of the preops to see what the reality of > the RNY is. I would be interested in reading some of their lowlights, as > well.>>>>>>>>> I agree with Nick......bring em on! Judie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 > > > > > > It might be a good thing for some of the preops to see what the reality of > > the RNY is. I would be interested in reading some of their lowlights, as > > well.>>>>>>>>> > > I agree with Nick......bring em on! > > Judie Judie, I thought about this and decided to send Nick an example and not post to the board in general. I think it would be inappropriate or me to repot someone elses experiences. If anyone here would like I would gladly give the group addy. So you could see for yourselves. Regards, the Chicken Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 Dear JJ, I was on the Atkins diet, lost alot of weight and regained it back plus some. I was miserable and it was so hard not to cheat. Life for me now that I am almost 7 months Lap BPD/DS post-op is not like dieting at all. Yes, I make sure I consume enough protein each day and take my vitamins. At this point, it is easy for me to take in 90 grams of protein a day. Basically, once I know that I have eaten enough protein and have (or will) taken in enough for the day, I eat anything else that I want. I never lost my taste for sweets. I eat candy, cookies and/or ice cream on a daily basis. It hasn't affected my weight loss, so I don't really stress about it. I also eat carbs and whatever else that I want. The only " rule " is to take in enough protein. For example, when I eat a bagel and cream cheese, I add a slice of smoked salmon. When I make a sandwich, I use thinner bread and add an extra slice of meat and cheese. I also eat my piece of meat before digging into the mashed potatos and gravy. Yes, I find that I eat high protein, but not really anymore than I did pre-op. A 6 oz. filet mignon for dinner has about 42 grams of protein, add 2 eggs with cheese and a sausage patty for breakfast and a sandwich with a glass of milk and some soy nuts for lunch and my protein is in and I still have room for anything else that I want. Also, my nightly ice cream has protein AND calcium. No way is post-op DS life a diet at all. Also, we malabsorb alot so even though I may be eating over 2,000 calories a day, I am not really. Jane J. 230/151 (-79 lbs) Lap BPD/DS 4/26/01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 > > Can you imagine how we would be discussing this issue if we had all had the > RNY? LOL ! ! ! ! Nick, I think if we had the RNY we would be talking about what a terrible mistake we had made and trying to figure out some way to undo what we did! There would be alot of regrets, thats for sure! Judie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 In a message dated 11/15/01 5:03:32 PM Eastern Standard Time, dwkteach@... writes: > I know I'm splitting hairs > > here, but I'm just wondering how much of the weight loss is automatic > > and how much is willpower/discipline. > > > > Its not automatic. If you eat lots of candy and drink sugary sodas and eat lots of carbs you won't have the big weight loss. I don't diet. I don't have an organized exercise program and I haven't had the dramatic weight loss of some of some of the others. But I am happy because I haven't had to diet or be on a treadmill. And I still lose at least 10lbs a month. NYC MT. SINAI JUNE 2001 lap BPD/DS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 Hi Judie, I'm so happy for you and Mike! Your life sounds like what all we preops and wanna be preops are dreaming of - eating reasonable amounts of the foods we want without obsessing about it or feeling guilty. I contacted Dr. Welker by email today and am anxiously waiting to see if he can help me out of my insurance dilemma. From what you and others have said, if anyone can he can, so I am saying my prayers. Congratulations of being at goal and enjoying your life! Blessings, Sue Everett > >Mike eats ice cream every single night.......hasnt stopped either > > of us from losing and Im already at goal and he has 20 lbs to go! > > Far out! Thanks you guys, I'm feeling better already! > > jj Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2001 Report Share Posted November 15, 2001 I too did the Adkins diet and lost a lot of weight (75 lbs in 4 months) and gained it all back. I could not stay on that diet for long periods of time. My body would just SCREAM for carbs. So here I am 1 month post op BPD DS and what do I have to do? Basically, the Adkins diet. I eat protein first, then I do not have any room for anything else. I tried eating some sweets 2 weeks ago and that really hurt my weight loss! So, no sugar for this gal. I am a little worried that I will not be able to sustain the protein intake and end up not loosing the weight. I still crave sweets. Any suggestions? So far I have been able to eat everything just like before the surgery. I do not know if that is a blessing or a curse? At least I am only able to eat small amounts. Thanks for letting me rave on about my insecurities. Rita D > Dear JJ, > > I was on the Atkins diet, lost alot of weight and regained it back > plus some. I was miserable and it was so hard not to cheat. Life > for me now that I am almost 7 months Lap BPD/DS post-op is not like > dieting at all. Yes, I make sure I consume enough protein each day > and take my vitamins. At this point, it is easy for me to take in 90 > grams of protein a day. Basically, once I know that I have eaten > enough protein and have (or will) taken in enough for the day, I eat > anything else that I want. I never lost my taste for sweets. I eat > candy, cookies and/or ice cream on a daily basis. It hasn't affected > my weight loss, so I don't really stress about it. I also eat carbs > and whatever else that I want. The only " rule " is to take in enough > protein. For example, when I eat a bagel and cream cheese, I add a > slice of smoked salmon. When I make a sandwich, I use thinner bread > and add an extra slice of meat and cheese. I also eat my piece of > meat before digging into the mashed potatos and gravy. Yes, I find > that I eat high protein, but not really anymore than I did pre-op. A > 6 oz. filet mignon for dinner has about 42 grams of protein, add 2 > eggs with cheese and a sausage patty for breakfast and a sandwich > with a glass of milk and some soy nuts for lunch and my protein is in > and I still have room for anything else that I want. Also, my > nightly ice cream has protein AND calcium. No way is post-op DS life > a diet at all. Also, we malabsorb alot so even though I may be > eating over 2,000 calories a day, I am not really. > > Jane J. > 230/151 (-79 lbs) > Lap BPD/DS > 4/26/01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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