Re: - Ian's Cat Scan - amazing discussion with ander

[Guest guest]

Jodie- thanks - I thought of that too. And, I think you are right.

I'm already working on that! <grin> He also casually mentioned to me

at breakfast - out of the blue - " I don't want Ian to do bad things to

me anymore " I just hugged him and we talked about how Ian has been

hitting him and that we have to help Ian learn to stop hitting. So, I

told him I would work even harder on that and keep putting him in time

out. seemed to like that answer and said he would " follow

me " when I put Ian in time out. Very interesting that he was able to

express those feelings to me.

- H

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> hey h!!

> glad to hear that everything went so well with ian's tests!!

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> now that you bring up that alexander got mad at you for going with

ian

> and not with him i was thinking, that may be one reason why he

doesnt

> sleep inhis own bed!! he may be looking at it as when he comes and

> sleeps in your bed he is spending time with you. and the attention

you

> are giving him to make him sleep in his bed is attention. we have

> problems with nicholas peing the bed and it is stress induced his dr

> strongly believes, so it may be sort of the same idea.

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> jodie c

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