Guest guest Posted October 5, 2005 Report Share Posted October 5, 2005 Hi Leah I love your exclamation points. And now that I have my own again (watch this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!---got an old keyboard from work today)....... Anyway, I will not rest until Olivia has GH. And yes we have our game plan. Did you get my email of the doctor's address etc etc.? Let me know as you make your connections and we will make our plans. Even if you guys have to come and live with me here in Toronto, you are going to get this!!! Keep in touch Deb Olivia's Endo Appt. Long > > > Hey everyone! > > Sorry if I worried anyone about Olivia and the bad Endo appt. > She's doing just great, it's the Endo that I'd like to > throttle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my turn with the exclamation marks!) > > I should start by saying in Canada the rules are a bit different > in that GH is only Rx'd for GHD and 's syndrome so we have an > uphill battle from the start in this area. I was very well prepared > for the appt. (thanks to MAGIC, the conventions and all of YOU!) and > I had a quick concise answer to all of the Dr's questions. The > problem was that she had " The Smirk " on her face that said she > didn't believe a damn word I said about RSS, GHT, bone age, ANYTHING. > > Again it came down to the fact that I'm small, 4'9 " , so she's > going to be small too. She asked if my mom commented on how small I > was as a child so I pulled out MY growth charts to show her that > although small I was still ON the growth charts and very chubby, > 90th %ile for weight! > I should also mention she's (the endo) not convinced Olivia has > RSS at all, she thinks it's just the OI. Since my hubby, his mom, > his sister and her daughter all have OI she asked about their > sizes. Well everyone in their family is huge, 5'10 " - over 6' so > yes the OI made them shorter. His mom and sister are also 4' 9 " . > However they aren't exactly slight people, both having weight issues > all their lives. Well then she want's to know the size of our niece > with OI. I laughed! Sure she's short for her age but at almost 3 > years old she's only 2 inches shorter than Olivia (almost 6) and is > 12lbs HEAVIER. > > She finally asked where I'd gotten my info from, so I told about > going to Conventions and all the Dr's volunteering (sp) their time, > etc. and she said " well you know that RSS kids don't respond to GH > anyway " I begged to differ and got " The Smirk " yet again. > She had no value at all for the efforts and the huge strides that > Dr's of other countries are making, I even pumped up Dr. Stanhope > since he's British to no avail. > She also seems to think that Olivia's growth velocity is > acceptable. Maybe I should have given her glasses, 3 year olds > notice that she's different!! > > The big one for me was about bone age. It really showed me that > this Dr know's NOTHING about RSS!! She said " There's no panic or > rush at all since Olivia's very young only 5yrs 10mths, we have > until she's 9 to start GHT if that's what you really want to do. " I > said " I think that's a bit too late since their bone age will > surpass their chronological once puberty begins, the bones will fuse > early and growing will be finished " > She LAUGHED and said " That never happens and even if it did, it > would take years, with Olivia's delay in bone age she should grow > until she's 17 " Again I said " not with these kids " and just left > it. > Her game plan is to check Olivia's IGF-1 and something else right > now to get a " baseline " (ridiculous since she's had this several > times and has a well established base line). Then in 6 months we'll > go back for a stim test then 6 months after that possibly consider a > 1 year trial to see how Olivia does. Considering all of this and > including the insurance fight to cover it we're looking at well over > a year just so the endo can " think about it " . (Because we have until > she's 9 right?? UGG) > She's obviously brushing us off and wanting to keep pushing it > back so I'll just give up on it. WELL she's doesn't know this Momma > very well at all, HA! > Even though she refuted everything I said, I was kind and polite > and agreed whole heartedly with the game plan just so I won't get > black listed there. > > MY game plan is totally different, haha. Thanks to all the help > from Debby B. (thanks Deb!) we're going to get in touch with a > different Dr. If he doesn't know anyone in my province who can help > then we might be off to Ontario if he'll see us. > > Anyway, that was some of our Bad Endo appt, sorry it got so long > (and this is the condensed version!) Thanks for letting me vent!! > > Leah mom to 10 years and > Olivia 5.75 years, 22lbs, 36 " , RSS, OI > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 5, 2005 Report Share Posted October 5, 2005 Oh my Leah! Are you out west? Oh man I can't believe that! I'm glad you talked to Debby and hopefully you'll get a new doc out there and not have to go to TO, but whatever has to be done! Like you ... I'm going prepared to the endo and hope against hope I don't get that kind of response. GOOD LUCK with a new one ... ditch that one quick ... too much attitude. Dawna > > > Hey everyone! > > Sorry if I worried anyone about Olivia and the bad Endo appt. > She's doing just great, it's the Endo that I'd like to > throttle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my turn with the exclamation marks!) > > I should start by saying in Canada the rules are a bit different > in that GH is only Rx'd for GHD and 's syndrome so we have an > uphill battle from the start in this area. I was very well prepared > for the appt. (thanks to MAGIC, the conventions and all of YOU!) and > I had a quick concise answer to all of the Dr's questions. The > problem was that she had " The Smirk " on her face that said she > didn't believe a damn word I said about RSS, GHT, bone age, ANYTHING. > > Again it came down to the fact that I'm small, 4'9 " , so she's > going to be small too. She asked if my mom commented on how small I > was as a child so I pulled out MY growth charts to show her that > although small I was still ON the growth charts and very chubby, > 90th %ile for weight! > I should also mention she's (the endo) not convinced Olivia has > RSS at all, she thinks it's just the OI. Since my hubby, his mom, > his sister and her daughter all have OI she asked about their > sizes. Well everyone in their family is huge, 5'10 " - over 6' so > yes the OI made them shorter. His mom and sister are also 4' 9 " . > However they aren't exactly slight people, both having weight issues > all their lives. Well then she want's to know the size of our niece > with OI. I laughed! Sure she's short for her age but at almost 3 > years old she's only 2 inches shorter than Olivia (almost 6) and is > 12lbs HEAVIER. > > She finally asked where I'd gotten my info from, so I told about > going to Conventions and all the Dr's volunteering (sp) their time, > etc. and she said " well you know that RSS kids don't respond to GH > anyway " I begged to differ and got " The Smirk " yet again. > She had no value at all for the efforts and the huge strides that > Dr's of other countries are making, I even pumped up Dr. Stanhope > since he's British to no avail. > She also seems to think that Olivia's growth velocity is > acceptable. Maybe I should have given her glasses, 3 year olds > notice that she's different!! > > The big one for me was about bone age. It really showed me that > this Dr know's NOTHING about RSS!! She said " There's no panic or > rush at all since Olivia's very young only 5yrs 10mths, we have > until she's 9 to start GHT if that's what you really want to do. " I > said " I think that's a bit too late since their bone age will > surpass their chronological once puberty begins, the bones will fuse > early and growing will be finished " > She LAUGHED and said " That never happens and even if it did, it > would take years, with Olivia's delay in bone age she should grow > until she's 17 " Again I said " not with these kids " and just left > it. > Her game plan is to check Olivia's IGF-1 and something else right > now to get a " baseline " (ridiculous since she's had this several > times and has a well established base line). Then in 6 months we'll > go back for a stim test then 6 months after that possibly consider a > 1 year trial to see how Olivia does. Considering all of this and > including the insurance fight to cover it we're looking at well over > a year just so the endo can " think about it " . (Because we have until > she's 9 right?? UGG) > She's obviously brushing us off and wanting to keep pushing it > back so I'll just give up on it. WELL she's doesn't know this Momma > very well at all, HA! > Even though she refuted everything I said, I was kind and polite > and agreed whole heartedly with the game plan just so I won't get > black listed there. > > MY game plan is totally different, haha. Thanks to all the help > from Debby B. (thanks Deb!) we're going to get in touch with a > different Dr. If he doesn't know anyone in my province who can help > then we might be off to Ontario if he'll see us. > > Anyway, that was some of our Bad Endo appt, sorry it got so long > (and this is the condensed version!) Thanks for letting me vent!! > > Leah mom to 10 years and > Olivia 5.75 years, 22lbs, 36 " , RSS, OI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 5, 2005 Report Share Posted October 5, 2005 Leah, Your endo and our GI team need to get together. They seem to have an attitude problem. The only difference is that our GI team used to listen. Now they just look down at us as if we don't know anything. WRONG! I knew Max needed Zelnorm almost 3 weeks before they agreed to start him on it. But what do I know? I'm just a mom. Keep up that spirit. You know we are all behind you. Look at what Shedon and did for Laikyn. Look at what Debby went through for Adam. You will get Olivia what she needs. I know you will. Please keep us posted. Jodi Z Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 5, 2005 Report Share Posted October 5, 2005 Very glad Olivia is doing okay! OMG I would have wanted to do the same. I HATE when the doctors think they are smarter than you and say such STUPID things and with SUCH attiudes!!! I am so fortunate that I live near Boston and so many doctors but I have never had to switch a doctor - they actually listen to me and answer my questions and ask what I think! I have one pedi at the office we go to taht we see that just refuses to believe that kids can present differently. Emerence will go go go even if she is really sick. When they admitted her to the hospital and gave her some fluids and D5 she was up and at em after an hour with only 5 hours sleep and instisted on pushing her own IV pole! She has ear tubes but she presents an impending ear infection by gagging all day for no reason and then throwing up within 2 hours of going to bed. Even though her ENT thinks it is weird she totally accpets it. I HATE when doctors keep telling me " just look at her, you'll know when she is really sick " . DUH, I LIVE with this kid and if she looks sick (almost never) we have some really scary problems on our hands. She can be really sick and still great looking. HHMM< I know some of our kids are super energentic - is ther anyone else whose kid looks fine when sick? Leah, good luck finding a new endo because this one is ill-informed, rude and just plain stupid and suffering from the " I am holier than thou because I went to medical school " attitude.... megan, mom to and Emerence > > > Hey everyone! > > Sorry if I worried anyone about Olivia and the bad Endo appt. > She's doing just great, it's the Endo that I'd like to > throttle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my turn with the exclamation marks!) > > I should start by saying in Canada the rules are a bit different > in that GH is only Rx'd for GHD and 's syndrome so we have an > uphill battle from the start in this area. I was very well prepared > for the appt. (thanks to MAGIC, the conventions and all of YOU!) and > I had a quick concise answer to all of the Dr's questions. The > problem was that she had " The Smirk " on her face that said she > didn't believe a damn word I said about RSS, GHT, bone age, ANYTHING. > > Again it came down to the fact that I'm small, 4'9 " , so she's > going to be small too. She asked if my mom commented on how small I > was as a child so I pulled out MY growth charts to show her that > although small I was still ON the growth charts and very chubby, > 90th %ile for weight! > I should also mention she's (the endo) not convinced Olivia has > RSS at all, she thinks it's just the OI. Since my hubby, his mom, > his sister and her daughter all have OI she asked about their > sizes. Well everyone in their family is huge, 5'10 " - over 6' so > yes the OI made them shorter. His mom and sister are also 4' 9 " . > However they aren't exactly slight people, both having weight issues > all their lives. Well then she want's to know the size of our niece > with OI. I laughed! Sure she's short for her age but at almost 3 > years old she's only 2 inches shorter than Olivia (almost 6) and is > 12lbs HEAVIER. > > She finally asked where I'd gotten my info from, so I told about > going to Conventions and all the Dr's volunteering (sp) their time, > etc. and she said " well you know that RSS kids don't respond to GH > anyway " I begged to differ and got " The Smirk " yet again. > She had no value at all for the efforts and the huge strides that > Dr's of other countries are making, I even pumped up Dr. Stanhope > since he's British to no avail. > She also seems to think that Olivia's growth velocity is > acceptable. Maybe I should have given her glasses, 3 year olds > notice that she's different!! > > The big one for me was about bone age. It really showed me that > this Dr know's NOTHING about RSS!! She said " There's no panic or > rush at all since Olivia's very young only 5yrs 10mths, we have > until she's 9 to start GHT if that's what you really want to do. " I > said " I think that's a bit too late since their bone age will > surpass their chronological once puberty begins, the bones will fuse > early and growing will be finished " > She LAUGHED and said " That never happens and even if it did, it > would take years, with Olivia's delay in bone age she should grow > until she's 17 " Again I said " not with these kids " and just left > it. > Her game plan is to check Olivia's IGF-1 and something else right > now to get a " baseline " (ridiculous since she's had this several > times and has a well established base line). Then in 6 months we'll > go back for a stim test then 6 months after that possibly consider a > 1 year trial to see how Olivia does. Considering all of this and > including the insurance fight to cover it we're looking at well over > a year just so the endo can " think about it " . (Because we have until > she's 9 right?? UGG) > She's obviously brushing us off and wanting to keep pushing it > back so I'll just give up on it. WELL she's doesn't know this Momma > very well at all, HA! > Even though she refuted everything I said, I was kind and polite > and agreed whole heartedly with the game plan just so I won't get > black listed there. > > MY game plan is totally different, haha. Thanks to all the help > from Debby B. (thanks Deb!) we're going to get in touch with a > different Dr. If he doesn't know anyone in my province who can help > then we might be off to Ontario if he'll see us. > > Anyway, that was some of our Bad Endo appt, sorry it got so long > (and this is the condensed version!) Thanks for letting me vent!! > > Leah mom to 10 years and > Olivia 5.75 years, 22lbs, 36 " , RSS, OI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 5, 2005 Report Share Posted October 5, 2005 Leah, I am SOOOO proud of you!!! You were so educated and you knew your stuff. That is why you could recognize the ignorance in this doctor. I am really proud of you for not totally losing your cool. I am not sure if the doctor Deb knows is the hospital that several of the Canadian families are heading to? One Canadian family drove 24 hours to get to it? Seems that this hospital is authorizing GH for RSS/SGA kids pretty readily compared to anywhere else? I am guessing you talked to the other Canadian families at the convention. If you have no idea what I am talking about, right me privately and I will answer you next Monday. Again, great job! Salem > > > Hey everyone! > > Sorry if I worried anyone about Olivia and the bad Endo appt. > She's doing just great, it's the Endo that I'd like to > throttle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my turn with the exclamation marks!) > > I should start by saying in Canada the rules are a bit different > in that GH is only Rx'd for GHD and 's syndrome so we have an > uphill battle from the start in this area. I was very well prepared > for the appt. (thanks to MAGIC, the conventions and all of YOU!) and > I had a quick concise answer to all of the Dr's questions. The > problem was that she had " The Smirk " on her face that said she > didn't believe a damn word I said about RSS, GHT, bone age, ANYTHING. > > Again it came down to the fact that I'm small, 4'9 " , so she's > going to be small too. She asked if my mom commented on how small I > was as a child so I pulled out MY growth charts to show her that > although small I was still ON the growth charts and very chubby, > 90th %ile for weight! > I should also mention she's (the endo) not convinced Olivia has > RSS at all, she thinks it's just the OI. Since my hubby, his mom, > his sister and her daughter all have OI she asked about their > sizes. Well everyone in their family is huge, 5'10 " - over 6' so > yes the OI made them shorter. His mom and sister are also 4' 9 " . > However they aren't exactly slight people, both having weight issues > all their lives. Well then she want's to know the size of our niece > with OI. I laughed! Sure she's short for her age but at almost 3 > years old she's only 2 inches shorter than Olivia (almost 6) and is > 12lbs HEAVIER. > > She finally asked where I'd gotten my info from, so I told about > going to Conventions and all the Dr's volunteering (sp) their time, > etc. and she said " well you know that RSS kids don't respond to GH > anyway " I begged to differ and got " The Smirk " yet again. > She had no value at all for the efforts and the huge strides that > Dr's of other countries are making, I even pumped up Dr. Stanhope > since he's British to no avail. > She also seems to think that Olivia's growth velocity is > acceptable. Maybe I should have given her glasses, 3 year olds > notice that she's different!! > > The big one for me was about bone age. It really showed me that > this Dr know's NOTHING about RSS!! She said " There's no panic or > rush at all since Olivia's very young only 5yrs 10mths, we have > until she's 9 to start GHT if that's what you really want to do. " I > said " I think that's a bit too late since their bone age will > surpass their chronological once puberty begins, the bones will fuse > early and growing will be finished " > She LAUGHED and said " That never happens and even if it did, it > would take years, with Olivia's delay in bone age she should grow > until she's 17 " Again I said " not with these kids " and just left > it. > Her game plan is to check Olivia's IGF-1 and something else right > now to get a " baseline " (ridiculous since she's had this several > times and has a well established base line). Then in 6 months we'll > go back for a stim test then 6 months after that possibly consider a > 1 year trial to see how Olivia does. Considering all of this and > including the insurance fight to cover it we're looking at well over > a year just so the endo can " think about it " . (Because we have until > she's 9 right?? UGG) > She's obviously brushing us off and wanting to keep pushing it > back so I'll just give up on it. WELL she's doesn't know this Momma > very well at all, HA! > Even though she refuted everything I said, I was kind and polite > and agreed whole heartedly with the game plan just so I won't get > black listed there. > > MY game plan is totally different, haha. Thanks to all the help > from Debby B. (thanks Deb!) we're going to get in touch with a > different Dr. If he doesn't know anyone in my province who can help > then we might be off to Ontario if he'll see us. > > Anyway, that was some of our Bad Endo appt, sorry it got so long > (and this is the condensed version!) Thanks for letting me vent!! > > Leah mom to 10 years and > Olivia 5.75 years, 22lbs, 36 " , RSS, OI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2005 Report Share Posted October 6, 2005 oh leah!! that sucks!! but atleast you were so well prepared when you went there and now have a game plan to fight for olivia's right to grow!! hopefully with deb's help you can get this moving!! how did her OI treatment go this last time? hang in there and good luck!! let us know how it goes!! ((HUGS)) jodie c Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2005 Report Share Posted October 6, 2005 Leah, I am sorry you had such an awful experience. I can't believe that doctor. She obviously knows NOTHING about RSS. Had she even heard of it? My gosh! I am so glad you hooked up with Debby and that you guys will be fighting for Olivia's rights. I hope you get the results she needs. Please keep us updated on EVERYTHING! Thinking about you, Jodi R. > > > Hey everyone! > > Sorry if I worried anyone about Olivia and the bad Endo appt. > She's doing just great, it's the Endo that I'd like to > throttle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my turn with the exclamation marks!) > > I should start by saying in Canada the rules are a bit different > in that GH is only Rx'd for GHD and 's syndrome so we have an > uphill battle from the start in this area. I was very well prepared > for the appt. (thanks to MAGIC, the conventions and all of YOU!) and > I had a quick concise answer to all of the Dr's questions. The > problem was that she had " The Smirk " on her face that said she > didn't believe a damn word I said about RSS, GHT, bone age, ANYTHING. > > Again it came down to the fact that I'm small, 4'9 " , so she's > going to be small too. She asked if my mom commented on how small I > was as a child so I pulled out MY growth charts to show her that > although small I was still ON the growth charts and very chubby, > 90th %ile for weight! > I should also mention she's (the endo) not convinced Olivia has > RSS at all, she thinks it's just the OI. Since my hubby, his mom, > his sister and her daughter all have OI she asked about their > sizes. Well everyone in their family is huge, 5'10 " - over 6' so > yes the OI made them shorter. His mom and sister are also 4' 9 " . > However they aren't exactly slight people, both having weight issues > all their lives. Well then she want's to know the size of our niece > with OI. I laughed! Sure she's short for her age but at almost 3 > years old she's only 2 inches shorter than Olivia (almost 6) and is > 12lbs HEAVIER. > > She finally asked where I'd gotten my info from, so I told about > going to Conventions and all the Dr's volunteering (sp) their time, > etc. and she said " well you know that RSS kids don't respond to GH > anyway " I begged to differ and got " The Smirk " yet again. > She had no value at all for the efforts and the huge strides that > Dr's of other countries are making, I even pumped up Dr. Stanhope > since he's British to no avail. > She also seems to think that Olivia's growth velocity is > acceptable. Maybe I should have given her glasses, 3 year olds > notice that she's different!! > > The big one for me was about bone age. It really showed me that > this Dr know's NOTHING about RSS!! She said " There's no panic or > rush at all since Olivia's very young only 5yrs 10mths, we have > until she's 9 to start GHT if that's what you really want to do. " I > said " I think that's a bit too late since their bone age will > surpass their chronological once puberty begins, the bones will fuse > early and growing will be finished " > She LAUGHED and said " That never happens and even if it did, it > would take years, with Olivia's delay in bone age she should grow > until she's 17 " Again I said " not with these kids " and just left > it. > Her game plan is to check Olivia's IGF-1 and something else right > now to get a " baseline " (ridiculous since she's had this several > times and has a well established base line). Then in 6 months we'll > go back for a stim test then 6 months after that possibly consider a > 1 year trial to see how Olivia does. Considering all of this and > including the insurance fight to cover it we're looking at well over > a year just so the endo can " think about it " . (Because we have until > she's 9 right?? UGG) > She's obviously brushing us off and wanting to keep pushing it > back so I'll just give up on it. WELL she's doesn't know this Momma > very well at all, HA! > Even though she refuted everything I said, I was kind and polite > and agreed whole heartedly with the game plan just so I won't get > black listed there. > > MY game plan is totally different, haha. Thanks to all the help > from Debby B. (thanks Deb!) we're going to get in touch with a > different Dr. If he doesn't know anyone in my province who can help > then we might be off to Ontario if he'll see us. > > Anyway, that was some of our Bad Endo appt, sorry it got so long > (and this is the condensed version!) Thanks for letting me vent!! > > Leah mom to 10 years and > Olivia 5.75 years, 22lbs, 36 " , RSS, OI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2005 Report Share Posted October 6, 2005 Hey Leah, That sounds so frustrating.....don't you hate it when you know that you know way more than they do and all they keep thinking is " don't they know I'm the DR here " I live in Canada too, Ontario actually and I go for my endo appointment in 12 days. We have only seen this DR. in hospital when Josiah was diagnosed with RSS in July 05, but at that point he said that Josiah would be a great candidate for GH and that he would help us find someone to pay for it. I just assumed this was the norm for everyone and I will be more grateful that it won't be such a fight. It sounds like Deb has you all taken care of I am guessing at sick kids in toronto.....good luck with it all and keep us posted. R. Canadian Mom to Josiah 28 months RSS NG tube > Hi Leah > I love your exclamation points. And now that I have my own again (watch this > !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!---got an old keyboard from work today)....... > Anyway, I will not rest until Olivia has GH. And yes we have our game plan. > Did you get my email of the doctor's address etc etc.? > Let me know as you make your connections and we will make our plans. Even if > you guys have to come and live with me here in Toronto, you are going to get > this!!! > > Keep in touch > > Deb > > Olivia's Endo Appt. Long > > > > > > > > Hey everyone! > > > > Sorry if I worried anyone about Olivia and the bad Endo appt. > > She's doing just great, it's the Endo that I'd like to > > throttle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my turn with the exclamation marks!) > > > > I should start by saying in Canada the rules are a bit different > > in that GH is only Rx'd for GHD and 's syndrome so we have an > > uphill battle from the start in this area. I was very well prepared > > for the appt. (thanks to MAGIC, the conventions and all of YOU!) and > > I had a quick concise answer to all of the Dr's questions. The > > problem was that she had " The Smirk " on her face that said she > > didn't believe a damn word I said about RSS, GHT, bone age, ANYTHING. > > > > Again it came down to the fact that I'm small, 4'9 " , so she's > > going to be small too. She asked if my mom commented on how small I > > was as a child so I pulled out MY growth charts to show her that > > although small I was still ON the growth charts and very chubby, > > 90th %ile for weight! > > I should also mention she's (the endo) not convinced Olivia has > > RSS at all, she thinks it's just the OI. Since my hubby, his mom, > > his sister and her daughter all have OI she asked about their > > sizes. Well everyone in their family is huge, 5'10 " - over 6' so > > yes the OI made them shorter. His mom and sister are also 4' 9 " . > > However they aren't exactly slight people, both having weight issues > > all their lives. Well then she want's to know the size of our niece > > with OI. I laughed! Sure she's short for her age but at almost 3 > > years old she's only 2 inches shorter than Olivia (almost 6) and is > > 12lbs HEAVIER. > > > > She finally asked where I'd gotten my info from, so I told about > > going to Conventions and all the Dr's volunteering (sp) their time, > > etc. and she said " well you know that RSS kids don't respond to GH > > anyway " I begged to differ and got " The Smirk " yet again. > > She had no value at all for the efforts and the huge strides that > > Dr's of other countries are making, I even pumped up Dr. Stanhope > > since he's British to no avail. > > She also seems to think that Olivia's growth velocity is > > acceptable. Maybe I should have given her glasses, 3 year olds > > notice that she's different!! > > > > The big one for me was about bone age. It really showed me that > > this Dr know's NOTHING about RSS!! She said " There's no panic or > > rush at all since Olivia's very young only 5yrs 10mths, we have > > until she's 9 to start GHT if that's what you really want to do. " I > > said " I think that's a bit too late since their bone age will > > surpass their chronological once puberty begins, the bones will fuse > > early and growing will be finished " > > She LAUGHED and said " That never happens and even if it did, it > > would take years, with Olivia's delay in bone age she should grow > > until she's 17 " Again I said " not with these kids " and just left > > it. > > Her game plan is to check Olivia's IGF-1 and something else right > > now to get a " baseline " (ridiculous since she's had this several > > times and has a well established base line). Then in 6 months we'll > > go back for a stim test then 6 months after that possibly consider a > > 1 year trial to see how Olivia does. Considering all of this and > > including the insurance fight to cover it we're looking at well over > > a year just so the endo can " think about it " . (Because we have until > > she's 9 right?? UGG) > > She's obviously brushing us off and wanting to keep pushing it > > back so I'll just give up on it. WELL she's doesn't know this Momma > > very well at all, HA! > > Even though she refuted everything I said, I was kind and polite > > and agreed whole heartedly with the game plan just so I won't get > > black listed there. > > > > MY game plan is totally different, haha. Thanks to all the help > > from Debby B. (thanks Deb!) we're going to get in touch with a > > different Dr. If he doesn't know anyone in my province who can help > > then we might be off to Ontario if he'll see us. > > > > Anyway, that was some of our Bad Endo appt, sorry it got so long > > (and this is the condensed version!) Thanks for letting me vent!! > > > > Leah mom to 10 years and > > Olivia 5.75 years, 22lbs, 36 " , RSS, OI > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2005 Report Share Posted October 6, 2005 Debby, I just wanted to tell you how awesome you are for supporting Leah and helping her through this. It is so great that we have such wonderful and supportive people who are memebers of this group. How inspiring. I know you think nothing of it, but I am sure that it means the world to Leah, and it so touches my heart too. Hugs, Jodi R. > Hi Leah > I love your exclamation points. And now that I have my own again (watch this > !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!---got an old keyboard from work today)....... > Anyway, I will not rest until Olivia has GH. And yes we have our game plan. > Did you get my email of the doctor's address etc etc.? > Let me know as you make your connections and we will make our plans. Even if > you guys have to come and live with me here in Toronto, you are going to get > this!!! > > Keep in touch > > Deb > > Olivia's Endo Appt. Long > > > > > > > > Hey everyone! > > > > Sorry if I worried anyone about Olivia and the bad Endo appt. > > She's doing just great, it's the Endo that I'd like to > > throttle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my turn with the exclamation marks!) > > > > I should start by saying in Canada the rules are a bit different > > in that GH is only Rx'd for GHD and 's syndrome so we have an > > uphill battle from the start in this area. I was very well prepared > > for the appt. (thanks to MAGIC, the conventions and all of YOU!) and > > I had a quick concise answer to all of the Dr's questions. The > > problem was that she had " The Smirk " on her face that said she > > didn't believe a damn word I said about RSS, GHT, bone age, ANYTHING. > > > > Again it came down to the fact that I'm small, 4'9 " , so she's > > going to be small too. She asked if my mom commented on how small I > > was as a child so I pulled out MY growth charts to show her that > > although small I was still ON the growth charts and very chubby, > > 90th %ile for weight! > > I should also mention she's (the endo) not convinced Olivia has > > RSS at all, she thinks it's just the OI. Since my hubby, his mom, > > his sister and her daughter all have OI she asked about their > > sizes. Well everyone in their family is huge, 5'10 " - over 6' so > > yes the OI made them shorter. His mom and sister are also 4' 9 " . > > However they aren't exactly slight people, both having weight issues > > all their lives. Well then she want's to know the size of our niece > > with OI. I laughed! Sure she's short for her age but at almost 3 > > years old she's only 2 inches shorter than Olivia (almost 6) and is > > 12lbs HEAVIER. > > > > She finally asked where I'd gotten my info from, so I told about > > going to Conventions and all the Dr's volunteering (sp) their time, > > etc. and she said " well you know that RSS kids don't respond to GH > > anyway " I begged to differ and got " The Smirk " yet again. > > She had no value at all for the efforts and the huge strides that > > Dr's of other countries are making, I even pumped up Dr. Stanhope > > since he's British to no avail. > > She also seems to think that Olivia's growth velocity is > > acceptable. Maybe I should have given her glasses, 3 year olds > > notice that she's different!! > > > > The big one for me was about bone age. It really showed me that > > this Dr know's NOTHING about RSS!! She said " There's no panic or > > rush at all since Olivia's very young only 5yrs 10mths, we have > > until she's 9 to start GHT if that's what you really want to do. " I > > said " I think that's a bit too late since their bone age will > > surpass their chronological once puberty begins, the bones will fuse > > early and growing will be finished " > > She LAUGHED and said " That never happens and even if it did, it > > would take years, with Olivia's delay in bone age she should grow > > until she's 17 " Again I said " not with these kids " and just left > > it. > > Her game plan is to check Olivia's IGF-1 and something else right > > now to get a " baseline " (ridiculous since she's had this several > > times and has a well established base line). Then in 6 months we'll > > go back for a stim test then 6 months after that possibly consider a > > 1 year trial to see how Olivia does. Considering all of this and > > including the insurance fight to cover it we're looking at well over > > a year just so the endo can " think about it " . (Because we have until > > she's 9 right?? UGG) > > She's obviously brushing us off and wanting to keep pushing it > > back so I'll just give up on it. WELL she's doesn't know this Momma > > very well at all, HA! > > Even though she refuted everything I said, I was kind and polite > > and agreed whole heartedly with the game plan just so I won't get > > black listed there. > > > > MY game plan is totally different, haha. Thanks to all the help > > from Debby B. (thanks Deb!) we're going to get in touch with a > > different Dr. If he doesn't know anyone in my province who can help > > then we might be off to Ontario if he'll see us. > > > > Anyway, that was some of our Bad Endo appt, sorry it got so long > > (and this is the condensed version!) Thanks for letting me vent!! > > > > Leah mom to 10 years and > > Olivia 5.75 years, 22lbs, 36 " , RSS, OI > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2005 Report Share Posted October 6, 2005 Oh leah - I'm so sorry for your troubles. My heart poors out to you. My mouth about dropped to the floor as I was reading your post. You handled yourself much better than I would have - the Endo's non-compliance and lack of knowledge and sensitivity are completely unacceptable. I pray you will have an opportunity to make connections with another physician and I'm so glad that Deb was able to assist you in your search for someone better. Best of luck to you - Hugs. - H > > > Hey everyone! > > Sorry if I worried anyone about Olivia and the bad Endo appt. > She's doing just great, it's the Endo that I'd like to > throttle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my turn with the exclamation marks!) > > I should start by saying in Canada the rules are a bit different > in that GH is only Rx'd for GHD and 's syndrome so we have an > uphill battle from the start in this area. I was very well prepared > for the appt. (thanks to MAGIC, the conventions and all of YOU!) and > I had a quick concise answer to all of the Dr's questions. The > problem was that she had " The Smirk " on her face that said she > didn't believe a damn word I said about RSS, GHT, bone age, ANYTHING. > > Again it came down to the fact that I'm small, 4'9 " , so she's > going to be small too. She asked if my mom commented on how small I > was as a child so I pulled out MY growth charts to show her that > although small I was still ON the growth charts and very chubby, > 90th %ile for weight! > I should also mention she's (the endo) not convinced Olivia has > RSS at all, she thinks it's just the OI. Since my hubby, his mom, > his sister and her daughter all have OI she asked about their > sizes. Well everyone in their family is huge, 5'10 " - over 6' so > yes the OI made them shorter. His mom and sister are also 4' 9 " . > However they aren't exactly slight people, both having weight issues > all their lives. Well then she want's to know the size of our niece > with OI. I laughed! Sure she's short for her age but at almost 3 > years old she's only 2 inches shorter than Olivia (almost 6) and is > 12lbs HEAVIER. > > She finally asked where I'd gotten my info from, so I told about > going to Conventions and all the Dr's volunteering (sp) their time, > etc. and she said " well you know that RSS kids don't respond to GH > anyway " I begged to differ and got " The Smirk " yet again. > She had no value at all for the efforts and the huge strides that > Dr's of other countries are making, I even pumped up Dr. Stanhope > since he's British to no avail. > She also seems to think that Olivia's growth velocity is > acceptable. Maybe I should have given her glasses, 3 year olds > notice that she's different!! > > The big one for me was about bone age. It really showed me that > this Dr know's NOTHING about RSS!! She said " There's no panic or > rush at all since Olivia's very young only 5yrs 10mths, we have > until she's 9 to start GHT if that's what you really want to do. " I > said " I think that's a bit too late since their bone age will > surpass their chronological once puberty begins, the bones will fuse > early and growing will be finished " > She LAUGHED and said " That never happens and even if it did, it > would take years, with Olivia's delay in bone age she should grow > until she's 17 " Again I said " not with these kids " and just left > it. > Her game plan is to check Olivia's IGF-1 and something else right > now to get a " baseline " (ridiculous since she's had this several > times and has a well established base line). Then in 6 months we'll > go back for a stim test then 6 months after that possibly consider a > 1 year trial to see how Olivia does. Considering all of this and > including the insurance fight to cover it we're looking at well over > a year just so the endo can " think about it " . (Because we have until > she's 9 right?? UGG) > She's obviously brushing us off and wanting to keep pushing it > back so I'll just give up on it. WELL she's doesn't know this Momma > very well at all, HA! > Even though she refuted everything I said, I was kind and polite > and agreed whole heartedly with the game plan just so I won't get > black listed there. > > MY game plan is totally different, haha. Thanks to all the help > from Debby B. (thanks Deb!) we're going to get in touch with a > different Dr. If he doesn't know anyone in my province who can help > then we might be off to Ontario if he'll see us. > > Anyway, that was some of our Bad Endo appt, sorry it got so long > (and this is the condensed version!) Thanks for letting me vent!! > > Leah mom to 10 years and > Olivia 5.75 years, 22lbs, 36 " , RSS, OI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2005 Report Share Posted October 6, 2005 Thanks Jodi I think I really needed to hear that right now as I cry in my exclamation marks. It's just too much some days what we have to deal with. LOOK at what poor Jodi is going through, why the & ^ & ^ & does it have to be a FIGHT all the time????? Deb Olivia's Endo Appt. Long > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hey everyone! > > > > > > Sorry if I worried anyone about Olivia and the bad Endo appt. > > > She's doing just great, it's the Endo that I'd like to > > > throttle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my turn with the exclamation > marks!) > > > > > > I should start by saying in Canada the rules are a bit different > > > in that GH is only Rx'd for GHD and 's syndrome so we have > an > > > uphill battle from the start in this area. I was very well > prepared > > > for the appt. (thanks to MAGIC, the conventions and all of YOU!) > and > > > I had a quick concise answer to all of the Dr's questions. The > > > problem was that she had " The Smirk " on her face that said she > > > didn't believe a damn word I said about RSS, GHT, bone age, > ANYTHING. > > > > > > Again it came down to the fact that I'm small, 4'9 " , so she's > > > going to be small too. She asked if my mom commented on how > small I > > > was as a child so I pulled out MY growth charts to show her that > > > although small I was still ON the growth charts and very chubby, > > > 90th %ile for weight! > > > I should also mention she's (the endo) not convinced Olivia has > > > RSS at all, she thinks it's just the OI. Since my hubby, his mom, > > > his sister and her daughter all have OI she asked about their > > > sizes. Well everyone in their family is huge, 5'10 " - over 6' so > > > yes the OI made them shorter. His mom and sister are also 4' 9 " . > > > However they aren't exactly slight people, both having weight > issues > > > all their lives. Well then she want's to know the size of our > niece > > > with OI. I laughed! Sure she's short for her age but at almost 3 > > > years old she's only 2 inches shorter than Olivia (almost 6) and > is > > > 12lbs HEAVIER. > > > > > > She finally asked where I'd gotten my info from, so I told about > > > going to Conventions and all the Dr's volunteering (sp) their > time, > > > etc. and she said " well you know that RSS kids don't respond to GH > > > anyway " I begged to differ and got " The Smirk " yet again. > > > She had no value at all for the efforts and the huge strides > that > > > Dr's of other countries are making, I even pumped up Dr. Stanhope > > > since he's British to no avail. > > > She also seems to think that Olivia's growth velocity is > > > acceptable. Maybe I should have given her glasses, 3 year olds > > > notice that she's different!! > > > > > > The big one for me was about bone age. It really showed me that > > > this Dr know's NOTHING about RSS!! She said " There's no panic or > > > rush at all since Olivia's very young only 5yrs 10mths, we have > > > until she's 9 to start GHT if that's what you really want to > do. " I > > > said " I think that's a bit too late since their bone age will > > > surpass their chronological once puberty begins, the bones will > fuse > > > early and growing will be finished " > > > She LAUGHED and said " That never happens and even if it did, it > > > would take years, with Olivia's delay in bone age she should grow > > > until she's 17 " Again I said " not with these kids " and just left > > > it. > > > Her game plan is to check Olivia's IGF-1 and something else > right > > > now to get a " baseline " (ridiculous since she's had this several > > > times and has a well established base line). Then in 6 months > we'll > > > go back for a stim test then 6 months after that possibly > consider a > > > 1 year trial to see how Olivia does. Considering all of this and > > > including the insurance fight to cover it we're looking at well > over > > > a year just so the endo can " think about it " . (Because we have > until > > > she's 9 right?? UGG) > > > She's obviously brushing us off and wanting to keep pushing it > > > back so I'll just give up on it. WELL she's doesn't know this > Momma > > > very well at all, HA! > > > Even though she refuted everything I said, I was kind and polite > > > and agreed whole heartedly with the game plan just so I won't get > > > black listed there. > > > > > > MY game plan is totally different, haha. Thanks to all the help > > > from Debby B. (thanks Deb!) we're going to get in touch with a > > > different Dr. If he doesn't know anyone in my province who can > help > > > then we might be off to Ontario if he'll see us. > > > > > > Anyway, that was some of our Bad Endo appt, sorry it got so long > > > (and this is the condensed version!) Thanks for letting me vent!! > > > > > > Leah mom to 10 years and > > > Olivia 5.75 years, 22lbs, 36 " , RSS, OI > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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