Guest guest Posted December 14, 2001 Report Share Posted December 14, 2001 Elle, Love and prayers are coming your way. I'm sorry for your loss. .. ´¨¨)) Y ¸.·´ .·´¨¨)) ((¸¸.·´ ..·´ MelisaY Y ((¸¸.·´* Check out my homepage! Y <A HREF= " http://ourworld.cs.com/melisa111968/myhomepage/personal.html " >My Personal Quest</A> Y Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 14, 2001 Report Share Posted December 14, 2001 Elle Please let your son and his wife know that they are in our prayers. My heart goes out to them. We lost our first baby 3 years ago and it was the hardest thing I think I have ever endured. People can be so unthoughtful. I was made to feel like I didnt have a right to grieve and that when I fell pregnant with that I should forget that I even had lost a child. Please support her and encourage her to grieve and encourage you son to grieve. It was the first time I had seen my husband sob and I realised that I wasn't alone and he had feelings of grief as well. May God bless them and her womb, and ease their pain and heartache. Let them know that their angel is now in heaven and even though they will miss him/her, that they are in God's hands now! (I am not sure if you or they even believe in God, and I certainly mean no offense). Hugs Tracey our loss.... My son's sweet wife just miscarried her first baby. She was only a few weeks along, but we were all so thrilled. Christmas is already a difficult time for because 3 years ago her father suffered a massive heart attack on Christmas Day, so Christmas brings up lots of sadness as it is. So send good thoughts and prayers 's way please. Elle ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 14, 2001 Report Share Posted December 14, 2001 Tracey... thank you so much... and I will certainly tell Jim and of your kindness. Yes, we believe in God and I do believe that even so tiny ( was 8 weeks along), their little one is now in heaven. .....Elle Subject: Re: our loss.... > Elle > Please let your son and his wife know that they are in our prayers. My > heart goes out to them. > > We lost our first baby 3 years ago and it was the hardest thing I think I > have ever endured. People can be so unthoughtful. I was made to feel like > I didnt have a right to grieve and that when I fell pregnant with > that I should forget that I even had lost a child. Please support her and > encourage her to grieve and encourage you son to grieve. It was the first > time I had seen my husband sob and I realised that I wasn't alone and he had > feelings of grief as well. > > May God bless them and her womb, and ease their pain and heartache. Let > them know that their angel is now in heaven and even though they will miss > him/her, that they are in God's hands now! (I am not sure if you or they > even believe in God, and I certainly mean no offense). > > Hugs > Tracey > ----- Original Message ----- > > > My son's sweet wife just miscarried her first baby. She was only a > few weeks along, but we were all so thrilled. Christmas is already a > difficult time for because 3 years ago her father suffered a massive > heart attack on Christmas Day, so Christmas brings up lots of sadness as it > is. > > So send good thoughts and prayers 's way please. > > Elle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2001 Report Share Posted December 15, 2001 The hardest time in my life was when I lost 3 pregnancies in a row. The third one was just before Christmas, 1996. Although I will never forget my lost babies, there was much comfort the following Christmas when I was pregnant with my son Andy. He was born 5 days after Christmas. I had joined an email support group after I lost my third baby and it helped me tremendously to know I was not alone. When I became pregnant with my son, I joined another group of women who were pregnant after a loss. Now I belong to a group of women who are parenting after a loss. The lost baby is someone that you never forget and subsequent pregnancies will never be the same. If you want more information about these support groups, please email me privately at andem4@... I am very sorry for your loss. Kathy M. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2001 Report Share Posted December 16, 2001 Dear Elle, I pray God's comfort and care for your son and his wife, you and all your family. Any woman who has suffered a miscarriage, as have I, can tell you that there is grief and mourning no matter how early in the pregnancy the miscarriage occurs. Blessings, Sue Everett > My son's sweet wife just miscarried her first baby. She was only a > few weeks along, but we were all so thrilled. Christmas is already a > difficult time for because 3 years ago her father suffered a massive > heart attack on Christmas Day, so Christmas brings up lots of sadness as it > is. > > So send good thoughts and prayers 's way please. > > Elle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2001 Report Share Posted December 18, 2001 I'm so sorry to hear about this Elle! It's got to be so tough on everyone! Please know that you, your son, , and your whole family are in my thoughts! HUGS! Tracey in Santee > My son's sweet wife just miscarried her first baby. She was only a > few weeks along, but we were all so thrilled. Christmas is already a > difficult time for because 3 years ago her father suffered a massive > heart attack on Christmas Day, so Christmas brings up lots of sadness as it > is. > > So send good thoughts and prayers 's way please. > > Elle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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