Re: Sorry to have to post some bad news about Stirling

[Guest guest]

,

I am so, so very sorry to hear about Stirling-I don't know what else to say. My

family's thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family as you go through

this difficult time. Please know that, while it will do nothing to help dull

the deep sense of pain and grief you must be feeling right now, you have my

deepest and most sincere condolences.

~Hillary

22, RSS

sickybear wrote:

I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he was

fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found an

abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

properly.

We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated the

support on this group.

Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

T:(

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[Guest guest]

,

I'm still kind of new to the list, but remember you writing about the enjoyable

day you had swimming with your family and how hungry Stirling was afterwards.

I'm so sorry about Stirling. I will keep your family in my prayers. Please

keep us posted on the cause of his death and how your family is doing.

Lots of hugs and prayers

Tammy

Mommy to 19 mos RSS, SGA, GERD, T-TUBE, GHT , 6yrs ADHD and about

to start GHT

sickybear wrote:

I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he was

fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found an

abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

properly.

We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated the

support on this group.

Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

T:(

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[Guest guest]

Dear and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you guys must be

going through right now. Sterling was a beautiful little guy.

I read that Sterling has a sibling. I have some sibling " grief " books

I can send you if that is something that you think may be helpful.

You can email me at vhowland@... or nightnuse4babies if you

would like the books.

I've lived in the USA for 15 years but lived my first 26 yrs in

England. I have read your posts about your precious boy and looked

forward to hearing about his progress.

Even though Sterling now lives only in your heart, please use us as a

place to chat about how wonderful he was and how he changed your

lives for the better.

I will be praying for you all.

(Ethan 6, non RSS and Jillian 3, RSS)

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he

was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found

an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated

the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

Dear and family

All our love goes to you all.

Stirling was a beautiful baby who had features I see in my own son,

its what makes our group feel like a family.

Please keep in touch.

Much love

Jody, Damian, Cameron and Liam(RSS) Gough

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he

was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until

they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save

him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found

an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated

the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

I am so very sorry and schocked to hear about Stirling's death. I

really don't have the right words to express what I want to say, but

my thoughts are with you at this very tough time, and I wish you all

the strength possible to see you through. Life just doesn't seem fair

at times. My heart goes out to you.

With all my love,

Rae

mum to , 3, RSS, 86cm, 22lbs 11oz, London UK

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

-

oh my god, i am sooo sorry!! your family is in my thoughts and

prayers!! i am in tears myself right now and can only image the

grief you are going through!! please let me know if there is

anything i can do for your family!! ((HUGS))

jodie c

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he

was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until

they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save

him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found

an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated

the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

,

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We are so sorry to hear

of Stirling's death. As my daughter Abby would tell you now, he is a shooting

star in the sky. She looks for her grandpa and great-grandma every night in the

sky.

Amy (mom to Abby, RSS)

sickybear wrote:

I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he was

fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found an

abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

properly.

We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated the

support on this group.

Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

T:(

---------------------------------

[Guest guest]

,

Please know you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Dayna

_____

From: RSS-Support [mailto:RSS-Support ] On

Behalf Of Nickol

Sent: Saturday, June 11, 2005 9:50 AM

To: RSS-Support

Subject: Re: Sorry to have to post some bad news about

Stirling

,

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We are so sorry to

hear of Stirling's death. As my daughter Abby would tell you now, he is a

shooting star in the sky. She looks for her grandpa and great-grandma every

night in the sky.

Amy (mom to Abby, RSS)

sickybear wrote:

I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he was

fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found an

abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

properly.

We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated the

support on this group.

Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

T:(

---------------------------------

[Guest guest]

,

Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the

light of Stirlings life always shine brightly. We are so very sorry for

your loss and cannot imagine what you are feeling. Please accept our

sympathy for your loss.

Dayna

_____

From: RSS-Support [mailto:RSS-Support ] On

Behalf Of Hillary nsen

Sent: Friday, June 10, 2005 9:17 PM

To: RSS-Support

Subject: Re: Sorry to have to post some bad news about

Stirling

,

I am so, so very sorry to hear about Stirling-I don't know what else to say.

My family's thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family as you go

through this difficult time. Please know that, while it will do nothing to

help dull the deep sense of pain and grief you must be feeling right now,

you have my deepest and most sincere condolences.

~Hillary

22, RSS

sickybear wrote:

I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he was

fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found an

abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

properly.

We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated the

support on this group.

Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

T:(

---------------------------------

[Guest guest]

,

I am so sorry and shocked to hear about Stirling. Please know that

you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Please also

know that we are all here for you in anyway you need.

God Bless you and your family.

B

5 1/2 and Kelli 2 3/4

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he

was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until

they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save

him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found

an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated

the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

My cries are with you. I don't know how you wrote this, I could not even read it

with out crying. We just had our daughter at the Cardiologist not even 2 weeks

ago. I feel terrible for you and you're family. Please stay in touch. I had a

close cousin Die 6 yrs ago from a heart attack she was only 7 yrs old, she was

playing on the play ground at school they had no idea she had heart problems.

Stirling was such a cute little boy. We will pray for you all.

Love

Sorry to have to post some bad news about Stirling

I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he was

fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found an

abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

properly.

We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated the

support on this group.

Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

T:(

[Guest guest]

-

, I am so incredibly saddened to hear about the loss of your

precious son. I looked back at his pictures and just can't believe

that such a sweet little angel has passed on. Please know that our

thoughts and prayers are with you. and Crosby

-

- In RSS-Support , " sickybear " <sickybear@y...> wrote:

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he

was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found

an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated

the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

,

My sincere condolencecs go out to your family. I had tears in my eyes reading

your post. I

am glad you found this group to be a support to you, and I hope that we can

continue to

be a source of support for you in your time of grief. Please let us know if

there's anything

we can do for you.

Kim C.

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

hi, i just do not have words... have some cyberhugs and tears...

sharon in pa

@http://groups.yahoo.com/group/IEP_guide/

> T:(

[Guest guest]

-

I send my condolences to you and your family. I will pray for you. Jane

Loscheider

[Guest guest]

I am so sorry to hear about Stirling. My heart is broken for you and your

family i wish there was something I could do please let me know if anything is

needed.

Your in my prayers Chrissy

[Guest guest]

-i posted but it don't show so i will again, just to be sure you get

this message.....i am so sorry about your loss, NONE of us want to

suffer the way you are God bless you and your family to get you

through these hard times, honestly i couldn't post the first time

around i was too stunned, as i am sure you were...if there is

ANYTHING any of us here can do for you PLEASE let us know, you are in

all of our prayers, stephanie kyla 4 RSS jonathan 19 months non RSS

-- In RSS-Support , " sickybear " <sickybear@y...> wrote:

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he

was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found

an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated

the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

I am terribly sorry to hear about Stirling...this was the most

devastating thing to read and you are constantly in my thoughts and

prayers. Please write if there is anything I can do to help.

Sheryl

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he

was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until

they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save

him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found

an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated

the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

,

We are deeply saddened by your loss. Please know that our hearts and prayers

go out to you and your family.

, and Jordan 4 1/2 yr old RSS

[Guest guest]

,

Our hearts go out to your family. Please know that we are thinking

about you at this terrible time.

Judith, Steve, (RSS) and (non RSS) 5 year old twins

[Guest guest]

,

I read your post yesterday, but I was in such shock and was very

upset I am just now able to respond. I am so sorry to hear about

Stirling. I can only imagine how you guys are feeling right now.

But, we did want to send you our thoughts and let you know that if

there is anything we can do from across the miles, we would be glad

to help. If it isn't too hard for you, I would like to hear waht you

find out about the cause of death. I am so sorry that you are having

to go through this. My heart aches for you all.

With love and warmest thoughts,

Jodi, Rod, , and Rollison

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he

was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found

an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated

the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

-

I am so sorry for your loss!! Your family will be in our prayers!

Zietz

[Guest guest]

My tears and prayers go out to you. I hope you can find a good

support group locally, too - this has got to be one of the hardest

things to go through.

Love,

Inga

> I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

> Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

>

> He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

> test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he

was

> fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

> in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

> arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

> and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

>

> We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

> although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found

an

> abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

> confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

> will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

> properly.

>

> We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated

the

> support on this group.

>

> Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

> photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

>

> T:(

[Guest guest]

Oh my I'm so sorry.

I will miss your stories of sterling but will pray that you will know he was

loved by all. His wings have spread further than any of ours to watch over

others.

A little life so full will surely be missed.

Marcy

sickybear wrote:

I don't really know how to post this, but sadly on Monday 6 June

Stirling passed away at borough District Hospital (GB)

He had been at the hospital in the afternoon for the UPD(7) blood

test to be taken, as the previous sample hadn't been tested. he was

fine until around 5.30pm when he stopped breathing and went floppy

in my arms, we called the ambulance and I did cpr on him until they

arrived. They took him to the hospital, but they couldn't save him

and he passed away at approx 6.45pm

We have heard a first report from the post mortem (autopsy) and

although they haven't yet found a cause of death, they have found an

abnormality in the heart. We are awaiting further tests to

confirm/rule out whether this is the cause of death. hopefully it

will be proved and we can have him back and can plan our goodbyes

properly.

We hadn't long been members of this community but we appreciated the

support on this group.

Stirling was a great kid who was always smiley and happy as his

photos show. He will be missed terribly by everyone especially us.

T:(

---------------------------------

[Guest guest]

-

We are so saddened to hear of your Sterling passing away.

You and your family are in our thoughts & prayers.

So sorry for your loss-

Team Lapish