Guest guest Posted August 26, 2004 Report Share Posted August 26, 2004 wrote: > The doc in Cinci has turned me down again. Chrissy, You know with the wedding arrangements at full hilt with only 23 days remaining that I've been absentee from the message board. When I opened up the board this morning, the first thing I saw was your message, and I had to reply. Understandably, this news is devastating to you right now and you're hurting bad. Spinning around with the confusion of it all, and experiencing such a tremendous let down that you can't think straight. But you had put all your eggs in one basket when there's still more options for you. When you can think straight, why don't you get in touch with Dr. Sutherland? I was surprised when you didn't do that in the first place, but I guess this doc in Cleveland was the one that selected. I don't understand why they didn't go to the top of the list first in their selection process, but that's moot now. You could do a summary and contact Sutherland immediately, and I'm sure he'd have an answer for you in prompt time. I sincerely doubt that he'd turn you down, and if he did, it would be because there's something else that could be done that could help you that hasn't been done yet. There's not much else to say right now except that I'm feeling really sorry for you and for the abandoment that you must be feeling right now. But you do have options, and I hope you will act on them quickly. He's helped so many of our other members, who are all here to testify as to how well they are doing, and they do so frequently. Please don't let this set back carry you down when there IS something else you can do. With love, hope and prayers, Heidi Heidi H. Griffeth South Carolina SC & SE Regional Rep PAI Note: All comments or advice is based on personal experience or opinion, and should not be substituted for consultation with a medical professional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 3, 2004 Report Share Posted November 3, 2004 , I wonder if Dr s??? of Cincinnati actually spoke to someone in your insurance company and his original and initial hesitancy to do the surgery was mentioned and if he still doesn't believe you need this surgery, thought he had better mention that also. This might just be a thought to bring up with Dr , as he might need to go back and restep with the insurance company as to why you do need the surgery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 4, 2004 Report Share Posted November 4, 2004 Chrissy, I'm sorry to hear of all that you are currently going through. I will keep you and the upcoming surgery in prayer. Have faith that it will happen! Sorry this has all put a toll on you emotionally. I know how it feels to be in the deep whole of depression. I was like that the first 4 months after my baby's death. I never thought I was going to sustain such traggedy....but God got me through. When you are in such a depressive state your mind often wonders to things that it shouldn't. And I pray your thoughts don't overwhelm you. We are here for you! Take care and God Bless! Sincerely, Liana > > It doesn't appear that I wll be able to have my surgery in 2 weeks. > This is breaking my heart. My doc is working on it but I dont feel > very confident. I dont think I can spend the rest of my life like > this. I'm devestated. Maybe something will change over the next 10 > days I dont know. Now what am I supposed to do with 2 round trip > airfares to Cincinnati. > I haven't been this depressed in a long long time. > Chrissy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2005 Report Share Posted August 16, 2005 , So sorry to hear about your grandfather. What part of Florida?? Chrissy Mom to Louis 6 Madison 4 RSS Shane 1 10 mons Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2005 Report Share Posted August 16, 2005 I got some more bad news yesterday my grandfather is going to have open heart surgery on thursday he lives in fl that is where I am from him and my granny raised me so he is like my dad Iam trying now to go to fl to be with my family. and I found out today the park that I wanted to do the walk-thon in said no, so now I have to find somewhere eles. Sometimes life really stinks. But in other news Tori is a good eater and her favorte food is mac n cheese, pb & jelly. Pizza and cereal bars. The girls are doing good tearing up my house because I have been upset and have not stayed on top of cleaning which I am going to go and do know so I will check in later. mom to tori 5 rss and gina 2 nonrss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2005 Report Share Posted August 16, 2005 , Where in Florida are you going to be? If you are close to me and you need ANYTHING I am here... Mom to Jed and Liam Orlando Fl Family and Breeding Website Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2005 Report Share Posted August 16, 2005 Oh . My heart poors out to you. I can relate in that my Great Aunt and I are closer than my mother and I. We'll say a prayer for your grandfather as well. Try to keep your chin up. Keep us posted. About the house? We've all been sick here now for about 2-3 weeks. My house was a disaster too. I finally looked at my husband and said - " if you want to eat ever again or sleep in nice clean sheets again - you better take these kids and go for a really long drive so I can clean-up after all of you wonderful people! " He got the message. They were gone all day Sunday! Good Luck. Thinking of You. - H > I got some more bad news yesterday my grandfather is going to have > open heart surgery on thursday he lives in fl that is where I am from > him and my granny raised me so he is like my dad Iam trying now to go > to fl to be with my family. and I found out today the park that I > wanted to do the walk-thon in said no, so now I have to find somewhere > eles. Sometimes life really stinks. > But in other news Tori is a good eater and her favorte food is mac n > cheese, pb & jelly. Pizza and cereal bars. > The girls are doing good tearing up my house because I have been upset > and have not stayed on top of cleaning which I am going to go and do > know so I will check in later. > > mom to tori 5 rss and gina 2 nonrss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2005 Report Share Posted August 16, 2005 > , > So sorry to hear about your grandfather. What part of Florida?? > Chrissy > Mom to > Louis 6 Madison 4 RSS Shane 1 10 mons > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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