Guest guest Posted November 26, 2001 Report Share Posted November 26, 2001 Hi, I don't know Graydowney from any other lists, but perhaps she is a fat acceptance person who doesn't want anyone to have any WLS. From some posts by those who do read her on other lists it sounds as though she plays both ends against the middle. And, to Graydowney--is it ?--I accepted my fat, still do, but I just can't live with the side effects any longer. If you really want SOME type of WLS what is the real problem leading to your contentious posts--indecision, insurance, fear of the unknown, grief over the thought of losing food as a defense mechanism, non-supportive significant others? Whatever it is, Nick is right, therapy can help, woman. Take control of your life! Happy to have found Nirvana (aka BPD/DS), Dianne pre-op BMI 44 --- I've learned--that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it. Argue for your limitations, and sure enough, they're yours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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