To Dana: infractions

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I agree with the occasional planned infraction though

perhaps not as we are starting out and clearing the

system. Only when the system has cleared of gluten and

yeast and parasites etc then I let my guard down. I

had to because I was cleaning up pre teens aspies.

This was 15 years ago. Pre teens need to be like their

peers. They felt too different on this diet. So we

would allow infractions and put up with the behaviors

after wards. Sometimes I would kick myself for doing

it because my daughter would become so violent. Then

as a teenager she went off the diet completely so we

sent her to live with my brother. She came home a year

later and went back on the diet.

By then she realized how much better she felt. She

left home at 18 for college. She went off the diet. At

19 she called me up yelling at me and asking me if I

didn't realize she was allergic to milk and wheat. I

said " Really? " She now is off milk and wheat and has

been by choice for 5 years. With my other children as

long as they want to live here they will be milk free

at home. We were able to go back on Gluten about 5

years after we went off it. Now we are milk free.

Except for my 6 year old. He was born after we had

gone back on gluten. So now he is GFCF. My friend

cooks all his food and treats as she doesn't have so

many children at home to cause such cross

contamination issues as I do. We freeze everything she

makes. I live a crazy life. Any way the good news is

that yesterday Enoch Played with another child! He

actually sat there for 15 minutes and played with a

toy appropriately taking turns! IT was a total shock!!

I have been yelled at at other groups for saying this

before. It's okay. Those people who get angry and

offended easily need to learn the principle of

forgiveness. It makes for a very peaceful life.

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